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Cool Novice 
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Hello all! I am 17 and I still live with my parents. And my parents are constantly trying to discourage me, and set me back. And interesting thing is, THEY WANT ME TO SPONSOR THEM THEIR RETIRMENT! Yeh right... First they torture me physically then they ask for money.... Have you been in similiar situation when parents made fun of you? How did you deal with it besides moving out?     | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 879 |
Why don't you get upfront with them and give them the old "Chill the fuckout routine" My parents weren't that bad about things since being athletic in my faimly was always a must. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 21 |
i have the same problem bro....im 16 going to 17... anybody know HOW I TELL TO MY PARENTS : STEROID ARE NOT SO BAD!! ignorancy is the worse droug... (i dont speak english very well, so i hope you understand me) | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 79 |
my parents are the same way but now they don't care anymore. Just give it some time, if not give them the chill the fuck out routine.lol | ||
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Guru     
Posts: 5327 |
DAMN FEEL SORRY FOR YOU!!  MY FAMILY WAS ALLWAYS ENVOLVED IN SPORTS AND SUPPORTED ME IN WHAT I DID I GUESS I HAD IT EASY. AS FOR TELLING THEM I REALLY WOULDN'T IT WILL ONLY MAKE THINGS WORSE JUST BE SMART ABOUT LEARNING WHAT YOU ARE PUTTING IN YOUR BODY AND YOU WILL BE FINE GOODLUCK!! ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 616 |
When i first strated lifting 3 years ago they thought I was obsessed and wasted my time now when I go home and see my parents and tower over them in my mass they don't say a damn thing. Ironic Mass Monster | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 24 |
Why don't you listen to them, believe it or not they know a hell of a lot more than you do. Maybe not about lifting and steroids but about life and spending all your time doing one thing. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1134 |
hide it at a friends house ------------------ "I used to be a diabetic 'till i kicked it." "May all of your showers be golden." - Jerri Blank "I cried when I had no shoes, until I met a man who had no feet. Then I laughed...really hard." | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 96 |
i agreee with bigjay, my parents like the fact i hit it hard. better than hitting any other drugs ya know. they didn't like it when i was doing the recreational drugs. i kicked that, and hit it as hard as i can. they tell me to chill out every once in awhile, and when i'm on the juice, and eating protein all day long, my mom thinks it's the protein that gives me that temper every once and awhile.. ahahah. so i let her keep thinking that. i'm 18 now. as you get older, they can't keep treatin you younger. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 412 |
Smile, nod and ignore them. Do not cause conflict. ------------------ Great Information on Injections and Syringes | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 418 |
yep- they are your parents and yes its hard but no need to argue you will only do harm not good. They care about your well-being, they just dont know the facts of lifting, if you are juicin at 17 I wouldnt go for that if I had a son and he was hittin it at 17. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 43 |
bro, why dont you just get a rubber glove and shoot your mom in the stomach, the shoot your dad in the head. And then take the gun put it in your dads hand and it will look like he killed her then himself. Then after that you could do whatever the hell you want!!!! juice for ever and eat whatever you want and live off your parents money!!! just make sure your rich though... hehehehe...I am only fuckin with you bro...Just tell your parents to shut the hell up or something..good luck.. i also wouldln't know what to do because my mom buys me needles and helps me with my cycle. she is cool about it. my parents know i juice, hehe | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 390 |
NOT ALONE BRO, MY OLD MAN SAYS I'M GONNA DIE,,,LET ALONE THANK GOD HE DOSENT KNOW I JUICE | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 25 |
tell them it is this or drugs | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1166 |
As long as you are not neglecting other aspects of your life (i.e, doing bad in school) I don't see why they should have issues with your bodybuilding. They are probably just afraid that you are getting your priorities screwed up and will end up living in a van down by the river. Just ignore their comments and live your life. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 659 |
Stand up for your self. You are 17, going on 18. Tell them to fuck off, you WILL DECIDE when, how and what you eat. You decide when you shit, when you bathe, when you jack off. You can make the hard choice about what to eat and when to workout. IF they want to parent you, great, tell them to get out of your daily body function activities. Hell, I would say, Mom since you are so concerned about my eating habits, I will let you know about my shit, piss and cum habits as well. I will give you a detiled rundown on all those activites every day. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 63 |
They're your parents. Its their house. When you pay rent or move out - then you can talk. (SAorry, I dont have kids, but it really gets me when anyone ages 15-20 starts whining about what their parents do. Hey, if you dont like it, leave. Or better yet - start paying rent, and start acting like an adult, then you can talk. Most parents who appear to limit what kids can do are showing concern in the own way - that much better than parents who dont give a rats ass, lets the kids stay out all hours, do whetever the hell drug of the week is out, ..... yeah, thiose are COOL parents!LOL No their not - parenst like that are fuckups). At this stage if you want to be "treated" like an adult - act like one. Don't whine - communicate. If you have real legitimate reasons why you need to do certain things with respect to training, then discuss it with tham AS a resonsible adult. You may be surprised at their reaction. Whatever is happening, it sounds that their motivated by geunine concern based upon their own knowledge. Dont worry about it. Have fun. You natural Test levels are high. Go out. Have a blast. As you get older and older you will get more and more responsibilities ...... so enjoy yourself now while you dont have to answer for much at all. When did this board turn into a 12-step program? | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 659 |
You miss the point. His parents are not trying to parent him. They are attempting to control his bodily functions. Eating?>??? Since when does a parent tell a 17 yr old what his eating time is, or his fucking bed time. Plz, he has NUTBALL parents. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 32 |
i have a few things to say first---OTIS, what drugs are you on man??? second--your parents care but live your own life, but dont do anything too detrimental to them. explain that you could be out doing dirt but instead you are in the gym. third---i have never heard of ANYONE telling there kids they cant have food or protein at night. are you 17 or 7? do you have a problem wetting the bed? DIDNT THINK SO. you have to tell them that trying to hold you back only makes you want to things more so they will just have to trust you and let you do your thing cuz with or without their support you are gonna do it. go about it in a respectful way and they might be cool. i explained gear to my 'rents and now they know all about them. my mom even wants some clenbuterol........uhhhhh i mean CLAMBUTEROL to eat.....hehe later man
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Novice 
Posts: 8 |
Deal with it 'til you're 18 - then move out. Simple. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 155 |
Don't tell them anything about roid use. I've always been honest with my folks about everything, and they were pretty understanding. So, I thought I'd be honest with them about my first cycle too (after I finished it). When I went home for Christmas, I told them... BIG MISTAKE. They fucking flipped! Now, all I get is a mini-lecture from them every friggin time I call home. They don't even know anything about steroids except what they see on TV (really fucking relaible). So, my advice to you is... LIE THROUGH YOUR TEETH. Good luck. ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 24 |
NVR 2 big, I'm not on drugs but I am a grown-up, which most of the people here obviously are not. His parents seem a bit overbearing but they also seem to give a shit which is becoming a rare commodity these days. Tell them what they need to know and things will go a lot smoother. Parents should be trying to teach not hang out and get stoned with their kids. "cool" parents more often than not are the ones not doing their job. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 145 |
Moving out is the best way. As I grew up with over controlling parents, I found no greater joy than to move out of that damn house. Now I live a life of freedom, making my own choices. Yes I still go see them once in a while, but they see all these MUSCLE and have more repect for me. What until your 18 and move the fuck out. ------------------ MustangRacer27 | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 71 |
just get huge and laugh at them later whenyou win competitions and they want money no just ignore them man!! | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 26 |
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 281 |
yap i have parents EXACTLY like urs, im 18 and i live with them. i told them that im guna do a cycle soon and that i did steroids in the past. they threatend to kick me out, make fun of me, and even cry. but i just told them to go fuck themselves literly and ill do whatever i want. just be tough man, stand up to them! they wont kick u out and in a couple weeks they will totally forget about it | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 200 |
At least they give a fuck. I've met some people who have scumbag parents who couldn't care weather they were dead or alive. I know its annoying but you will probably appreiciate it later | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 16 |
Educate them. Facts always win over parents | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 73 |
If you dont like it , Move out but dont bitch about it. Its their house their rules period. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 24 |
Omega, you are a son to be proud of. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 315 |
If they don't have the knowledge they will remain ignorant; Perhaps you should attempt to teach them THE TRUTH about AS (hopefully they are willing to listen). Good luck... ------------------ [This message has been edited by back2basics (edited February 24, 2001).] | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 771 |
And now I get my parents out of the house. haha just kidding. I threw them out a long time ago. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 207 |
If your parents think that protein puts you asleep, the LAST thing you should do is try to convince them about the positives of AS. They have an ignorant mentality like many old school parents and no amount of facts will flip their mode of thinking. And they don't let you consume protein at night, WTF!, you're not a child anymore. Wait until you're 18 and get the fuck out of your house or start paying rent. Call your own shots, you are almost a man now. |
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posted February 23, 2001 07:58 PM
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