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 What is an appropriate penalty
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 301 |
For a fiance going into a private area of mine and flushing some valuable little items down the toilet? I can't act to mad as she is very mad as well. Know this has happened to a few of you. She missed the valuable items though hehehehehe     | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 697 |
No penalty, you betrayed her trust and need to understand that if you are going to get married you have to not sneak behind her back and do illegal drugs. Discuss it with her and let her know that they are not that bad, but if she asks you to quit for good, you probably have to or else risk getting caught and having her divorce your ass. Just try to convince her to let you use let her see this board if you have to to convince her. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 95 |
super dave is on it 100% if you cant trust the lady your gonna spend the rest of your life with then you guys should'nt be getting married.. You need to sit down and tell her whats going on in fact if thers anything else your hiding from her you might as well get it all out at the same time. cause if shes gonna leave you for it then she really did'nt love you in the first place and if you cant tell her than you dont really love her..You got to put a little faith in her..dont lie to her either..that will be your biggest mistake . trust me me and my wife have been through many things in the past 6 years we've spent together and it has'nt been easy.. and the biggest thing that hurt me the most and her as well were the lies...but now thats not a part of our lives we are open about everything..and we get along alot better.. marriage is'nt an easy thing so i hope you know what your getting into..You have to have a trusting relationship or it wont last..If you lie to each other throughout your life you wont be very happy with yourself trust me ive been there...You wont trust her either cause you dont trust yourself... mr.huge | ||
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Freak 
Posts: 1584 |
I agree as well. Talk to her. ------------------ I GET MAD!!!! | ||
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Cool Novice 
Posts: 20 |
Ya I agree you have to be open with her about it. My girlfirend is cool about the stuff but that doesnt mean she wont change her mind. Maybe she is just worried about it hurting you ?  | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 301 |
Thanks guys. I actually thought I was going to get some sarcasm here like dump the broad and shit like that. The thing is she is a nutritionist by degree and is against all things, supplements and prohormones, not just the gear although the gear has this more evil mistique to her, and others. She feels I'm being a wimp and cheating and is convinced it will negatively effect our children. Telling her I will use is not going to fly, trying to change her mind is not going to fly! So it is a problem. My spring cutting cycle is looking sooooo good and I was so excited but now I either don't do it or sneak and lie. The bulking cycle I guess is out of the question as that 20lbs gain would look suspicious. Tough one! | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 697 |
Choose: Your fiance, or your steroids. It will not be worth it sneaking around behind her back counting the days until the shit hits the fan with her. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 122 |
You should make her swallow next time. That will teach her. |
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posted January 07, 2001 10:09 PM