You know who you are...

[Hannibal]

Please allow me a quick rant. Not often that I do this...especially not on this forum, but today was a "day". Alarm clock went off at 4am and I got back home at 8pm. No one there to greet me at the door...no food on the table...no kids to play with.

So for all you guys out there that take for granted a woman that is there when you get home (usually after a hard day of work herself), children that want to hear about your day, need help with their homework or a bedtime story read to them, and food on the table that you didn't have to cook(I don't care what it tastes like)....You can kiss my timeclock punchin, lunchbox carryin, bluecollar, big, hairy powerlifting ass...

 

[Code]

Amen to that my brother!

At least I have a little girl to come home to.
But damn it's lonely and cold at night, and not having an adult to talk to at nights stinks.

 

[supersizeme]

I usually come home to two screaming cats that won't stop trying to lead me to their food dish which is always full. I don't get this.

 

[got big?]

same here hannibal. out of work for 2 weeks but i share the same schedule as you, im a laborer.

just got out of a relationship because apparently i bored her.....sacraficing my sleep every night to hang out whenever possible, spending any break calling or text messaging, and welcoming whatever she wants to do on the weekends isnt exciting enough to a college girl who barelyworks and has the days to herself...

cant wait until my hand heals and im back to work, put my mind at ease

 

[theoak01]

I usually come home to two screaming cats that won't stop trying to lead me to their food dish which is always full. I don't get this.

my bastard cat is like that also,wont eat unless the dish is overflowing and water is fresh ,and I am talking refridgerated

fucking cat

 

[gmanlax7]

at least you got the weights. but seriously keep your head up, or give your prodigy Spatts a ring

 

[big4life]

I know what you're talking about Hannibal. My married friends used to tell me how I had it made, with my motorcycle and my car. How I didn't have to worry about when I came home or where I went. They didn't think about coming home to an empty house every night, while they went home to their wife and kids. They will never know how good they have it.

 

[PHATchik]

Nice post Hanny. It's times like that that I look forward to. Being able to put the kids to bed and just sit and talk about our day. Maybe tell little anecdotes about funny things that happened. Someone to come home to. Someone to say goodnight too. All that and more.

Right now, I come home to a dorm room. No boyfriend to meet for dinner or watch a movie with. I basically go to class, work, meetings, whatever. I do what needs to be done basically.

 

[Bigsatan13]

So she's going to catch a good beating when she gets home?
The nerve of her!

 

[supergirl]

Hey Hanni!!!


Ya know, this posts hits hard because i am the girl that comes home to the man who does not acknowledge her... who takes all she does for him for granted.. who could care less about her feelings...

So i think i would rather be in your shoes and come home to an empty house rather than to an empty heart....


But i aint got nothing but luv for ya Hanni!!! Miss ya!!

 

[KnoXville]

I usually come home to two screaming cats that won't stop trying to lead me to their food dish which is always full.
I don't get this.

They are trying to communicate through symbolism.

They are envious of the gross amount of attention you give your many girlfriends as opposed to them. So when you come home, your cats are showing you first hand your inherent need to blindly follow pussy no matter the reason to satisfy your urges even though you have perfectly good hand and porn that will achieve the same effect, hence the full bowl at habitation.

Yeah, its either that or maybe they are just sniffing too much litter.

 

[Necrophagia]

I hear ya.

No kids, but I had a g/f. 2 years together, then she just up and left for no reason. It gets lonely for sure.

 

[Necrophagia]

Your avatar is hot spatts.

 

[HighIntensity]

Hey Hanni!!!


Ya know, this posts hits hard because i am the girl that comes home to the man who does not acknowledge her... who takes all she does for him for granted.. who could care less about her feelings...

So i think i would rather be in your shoes and come home to an empty house rather than to an empty heart....


But i aint got nothing but luv for ya Hanni!!! Miss ya!!

This can't be true... brighten up sunshine

 

[Drunken_Weasel]

I hear ya hannibal... I look forward to having that some day, although... I know I never will have that.

 

[supergirl]

This can't be true... brighten up sunshine

lol.. thanks for that sweetums your smile could brighten any day!!! But ya.. the man needs to be kicked to the curb lol..

 

[HighIntensity]

lol.. thanks for that sweetums your smile could brighten any day!!! But ya.. the man needs to be kicked to the curb lol..

then maybe I need to move to jersey...

 

[supergirl]

then maybe I need to move to jersey...

i have 2 rooms for rent... ROOMMATE WANTED!!!

 

[fistfullofsteel]

Hey Hanni!!!


Ya know, this posts hits hard because i am the girl that comes home to the man who does not acknowledge her... who takes all she does for him for granted.. who could care less about her feelings...

So i think i would rather be in your shoes and come home to an empty house rather than to an empty heart....


But i aint got nothing but luv for ya Hanni!!! Miss ya!!

Told ya that you were dealing with a boy. Drop him like a bad habit. He sounds like a bum. When in doubt, worship FFOS.

 

[Frackal]

lol.. thanks for that sweetums your smile could brighten any day!!! But ya.. the man needs to be kicked to the curb lol..

just wait until you smell his armpits

 

[supergirl]

Told ya that you were dealing with a boy. Drop him like a bad habit. He sounds like a bum. When in doubt, worship FFOS.

if you recall correctly you told me i scare you LOL
so much for the ffos worshipping

 

[fistfullofsteel]

if you recall correctly you told me i scare you LOL
so much for the ffos worshipping

yes, i do remember that but I said worship not stalk. ok, ok, i'll be fair, you may stalk me too, except on any day that the NY Football Giants are playing.

Btw, I was joking, you don't scare me, honest.

 

[supergirl]

yes, i do remember that but I said worship not stalk. ok, ok, i'll be fair, you may stalk me too, except on any day that the NY Football Giants are playing.

Btw, I was joking, you don't scare me, honest.

i know you lust me... hehehee


anywho... it is good to see ya been along time!!!

 

[fistfullofsteel]

i know you lust me... hehehee


anywho... it is good to see ya been along time!!!

everybody on this board knows that FFOS is America's Most Wanted. Well by the women anyway, ok and probably gay men too just ask Cornholio. You want a piece, admit it.

Ok, it was fun, but I gotta get some beauty sleep, not that I need it. damn, i am smooth.

 

[Taps]

For the life of me, I will never understand this obsessive desire to be in a relationship. It's so prevelant in our society -- get married, have kids, and PRESTO -- all your problems will be solved and you'll be happy.

What garbage.

I come home to an empty house, and I LOVE it. I fucking love it! I have complete freedom with my time -- I have no responsabilites to anyone other then myself.

I look at my friends who've gotten married or (ick!) procreated, and I honestly feel sorry for them. They don't seem paticularly happy to me, that's for sure.

Here's a qestion for you relationship junkies -- if you're not happy with yourselves now, what makes you think you'll be happy with someone else?

There's a reason the divorce rate is as high as it is, ya know?

 

[KnoXville]

What garbage.

I come home to an empty house, and I LOVE. I fucking love it! I have complete freedom with my time -- I have no responsabilites to anyone other then myself.

I look at my friends who've gotten married or (ick!) procreated, and I honestly feel sorry for them.

" Booya grandma, booya! "

 

[flex123]

Hey Hanni!!!


Ya know, this posts hits hard because i am the girl that comes home to the man who does not acknowledge her... who takes all she does for him for granted.. who could care less about her feelings...

So i think i would rather be in your shoes and come home to an empty house rather than to an empty heart....


But i aint got nothing but luv for ya Hanni!!! Miss ya!!

Learn to be self-dependent and get the stepping...unless your waiting for him to change, which is very unlikely.

Or you could just be one of those chicks that needs way to much love/attention, and your being ungrateful to his love for you.

 

[Mad4Iron]

Word.

Mad

 

[SofaGeorge]

Hey Hanni!!!


Ya know, this posts hits hard because i am the girl that comes home to the man who does not acknowledge her... who takes all she does for him for granted.. who could care less about her feelings...

So i think i would rather be in your shoes and come home to an empty house rather than to an empty heart....

Supergirl, your post breaks my heart.

I was out at business meetings most of the day. It was a long day... and I knew I was going to be spending tonight home alone. Both my daughter and my girlfriend had plans for tonight. (My girlfriend is going to a "girls night out" with her girlfriends... and my daughter is staying the night with one of her friends.)

I knew coming home that I would only have about 5 minutes to say "hi" to them when I got in before they would both be racing out the door to go the their friends.

What did I come home to?

They both greeted me at the door. My daughter grabbed my brief case and folders so that I could stand in the doorway and give my girlfriend a long hug.

In the oven was a roast they had made... waiting to be turned on... lots of mushroom and sauce. My fav. My girlfriend turned it on and said it would be ready in an hour. (About when I would want it.)

Veggies were in the micro wave... waiting in the steamer... a note telling me to hit #4 setting 5 minutes before I take the roast out of the oven.

A bottle of Merlot was open and breathing... one glass poured and waiting for me.

On the TV was the video tape they picked out for me at the video store... and a good selection it was. (Action western. The type of flick they hate but they know I would love.)

They were both out the door and on their way within three minutes of my getting home - but they had waited that extra little bit so that they were HERE when I got home.

I got a hug and kiss from both. They both told me they loved me.

And then they were off.

I'm not really sure how to say this... but even when I come home to a night alone... I come home to a home where I know I'm loved.

It's what you deserve too.

 

[flex123]

Sofa now that you threw shit in here face I'd just say that you have the good life. Nothing is better than haveing people care and do extra special things for you. If only everyone we come into contact had feelings for others besides themselves.

 

[supergirl]

Learn to be self-dependent and get the stepping...unless your waiting for him to change, which is very unlikely.

Or you could just be one of those chicks that needs way to much love/attention, and your being ungrateful to his love for you.

the stepping has already been gotten... lol i like attention from my man.. call me crazy...

Hey Spatts... there better not be any butter on that popcorn of yours.....

 

[flex123]

the stepping has already been gotten... lol i like attention from

Good to here you were smart and left someone who didn't show any graditude towards you.

I didn't say you "ARE" someone that needed to much attention and all that stuff I said before. I just meant some girls need lots of love and the guy they are with might not be able to give her what she needs.

Some chicks don't need all the attention all the time, they realize people get busy and 24/7 smoothering with just paying to "you" doesn't have to be.

 

[Frackal]

For the life of me, I will never understand this obsessive desire to be in a relationship. It's so prevelant in our society -- get married, have kids, and PRESTO -- all your problems will be solved and you'll be happy.

What garbage.

I come home to an empty house, and I LOVE it. I fucking love it! I have complete freedom with my time -- I have no responsabilites to anyone other then myself.

I look at my friends who've gotten married or (ick!) procreated, and I honestly feel sorry for them. They don't seem paticularly happy to me, that's for sure.

Here's a qestion for you relationship junkies -- if you're not happy with yourselves now, what makes you think you'll be happy with someone else?

There's a reason the divorce rate is as high as it is, ya know?

Word

 

[Bigsatan13]

.. call me crazy...

Your Crazy





I've seen your pics and think you would get plenty of attention.
Maybe you smell funny?

 

[PHATchik]

Damn, this has been for 3 days, but I hadn't read the rest of the thread. You definitely know how to get a point across Spatts.

 

[kronk]

Hey supergirl, wanna take a shot at leaping me in a single bound? lol Anytime you want to chat, let me know.

 

[WODIN]

I come home to a house full of chaos and two kids that give me big hugs and then run off to play. I love it.

Peace.

 

[Imnotdutch]

I hear ya..........

For the life of me, I will never understand this obsessive desire to be in a relationship. It's so prevelant in our society -- get married, have kids, and PRESTO -- all your problems will be solved and you'll be happy.

What garbage.

I come home to an empty house, and I LOVE it. I fucking love it! I have complete freedom with my time -- I have no responsabilites to anyone other then myself.

I look at my friends who've gotten married or (ick!) procreated, and I honestly feel sorry for them. They don't seem paticularly happy to me, that's for sure.

Here's a qestion for you relationship junkies -- if you're not happy with yourselves now, what makes you think you'll be happy with someone else?

There's a reason the divorce rate is as high as it is, ya know?

 

[Hannibal]

What in the Wide World of Sports is going on here? I posted this thread Monday, and just figured it dropped like a rock. Then I finally check it today and see that people actually replied.

Unfortunately, every one missed the point of my thread...which is my fault. It wasn't about what everyone thought it was about. It wasn't about me personally...not really anyway. Nor was it about anyone that anybody on the board knows. The "you know who you are" was an attention getter. As my threads on chat usually have a life expectancy of 15 secs....thats why I was suprised to see that this one had taken off.

The post at the top of this thread was actually my second attempt. I had a much more drawn out and detailed post that explained "the point" but it locked up when I went to post it...so the second attempt was very short. Hey..it was at the end of a long day and I didnt feel like typing it all out again...

What actually spawned the post was a discussion/arguement I had at work. Our resident "wigger" (white guy from the streets, probably sesame)...was talking to me. He asked me why I missed last Friday and I told him about the meet I went to. And he said that he had missed work Tues...and how pissed he was. Said quote "one of his girls was pregnant". So I was looking at him trying to figure out how he had a daughter old enough to be pregnant. Then he went on to explain that "one of his girls" apparently meant his collection of women that hold still for both seconds while he gets off. Anyway he was pissed because he had to go to the "bullshit sonogram". Then he said very matter of factly..."gonna have another baby boy.

My response to this was basically telling him how fucked up that was. And we "discussed" the matter back and forth. So when I got home I decided to post about it. Didn't figure that anyone would take any notice.

Anyway...my contribution to this thread is done. I hereby sign over control of said thread to supergirl and her groupies.

Enjoy

 

[flex123]

What in the Wide World of Sports is going on here? I posted this thread Monday, and just figured it dropped like a rock. Then I finally check it today and see that people actually replied.

Unfortunately, every one missed the point of my thread...which is my fault. It wasn't about what everyone thought it was about. It wasn't about me personally...not really anyway. Nor was it about anyone that anybody on the board knows. The "you know who you are" was an attention getter. As my threads on chat usually have a life expectancy of 15 secs....thats why I was suprised to see that this one had taken off.

The post at the top of this thread was actually my second attempt. I had a much more drawn out and detailed post that explained "the point" but it locked up when I went to post it...so the second attempt was very short. Hey..it was at the end of a long day and I didnt feel like typing it all out again...

What actually spawned the post was a discussion/arguement I had at work. Our resident "wigger" (white guy from the streets, probably sesame)...was talking to me. He asked me why I missed last Friday and I told him about the meet I went to. And he said that he had missed work Tues...and how pissed he was. Said quote "one of his girls was pregnant". So I was looking at him trying to figure out how he had a daughter old enough to be pregnant. Then he went on to explain that "one of his girls" apparently meant his collection of women that hold still for both seconds while he gets off. Anyway he was pissed because he had to go to the "bullshit sonogram". Then he said very matter of factly..."gonna have another baby boy.

My response to this was basically telling him how fucked up that was. And we "discussed" the matter back and forth. So when I got home I decided to post about it. Didn't figure that anyone would take any notice.

Anyway...my contribution to this thread is done. I hereby sign over control of said thread to supergirl and her groupies.

Enjoy

I hear ya man......I don't understand why God gives low lives that can't handle themselves babies.

It's a Cruel world.

 

[the nature boy]

Please allow me a quick rant. Not often that I do this...especially not on this forum, but today was a "day". Alarm clock went off at 4am and I got back home at 8pm. No one there to greet me at the door...no food on the table...no kids to play with.

So for all you guys out there that take for granted a woman that is there when you get home (usually after a hard day of work herself), children that want to hear about your day, need help with their homework or a bedtime story read to them, and food on the table that you didn't have to cook(I don't care what it tastes like)....You can kiss my timeclock punchin, lunchbox carryin, bluecollar, big, hairy powerlifting ass...

so I assume this post was written before the project moved in.

 

[Spartacus]

I usually come home to two screaming cats that won't stop trying to lead me to their food dish which is always full. I don't get this.

..same here..and you can't change the food w/o going through a period where they regurgitate half their meals

 

[sergio]

For the life of me, I will never understand this obsessive desire to be in a relationship. It's so prevelant in our society -- get married, have kids, and PRESTO -- all your problems will be solved and you'll be happy.

What garbage.

I come home to an empty house, and I LOVE it. I fucking love it! I have complete freedom with my time -- I have no responsabilites to anyone other then myself.

I look at my friends who've gotten married or (ick!) procreated, and I honestly feel sorry for them. They don't seem paticularly happy to me, that's for sure.

Here's a qestion for you relationship junkies -- if you're not happy with yourselves now, what makes you think you'll be happy with someone else?

There's a reason the divorce rate is as high as it is, ya know?

AMEN BROTHER !!...I LOVE living on my own, wouldn't want to have it any other way. Enjoy the privacy, peace of mind,bring the occassional date over ;-)

 

[Spartacus]

I know what you're talking about Hannibal. My married friends used to tell me how I had it made, with my motorcycle and my car. How I didn't have to worry about when I came home or where I went. They didn't think about coming home to an empty house every night, while they went home to their wife and kids. They will never know how good they have it.

..thats one of the reasons i prfer to have a roommate..someone to shoot the shit with and watch a movie..plus the cooking chores can be split..its easier to cook for two...my current roommate is only home M-Thur and returns to atlanta on the weekends..really cool as during the week I've got company and then the weekends are mine and I can bring a gal over and have the house to myself..omelettes in nighties

 

[PHATchik]

For the life of me, I will never understand this obsessive desire to be in a relationship. It's so prevelant in our society -- get married, have kids, and PRESTO -- all your problems will be solved and you'll be happy.

What garbage.

I come home to an empty house, and I LOVE it. I fucking love it! I have complete freedom with my time -- I have no responsabilites to anyone other then myself.

I look at my friends who've gotten married or (ick!) procreated, and I honestly feel sorry for them. They don't seem paticularly happy to me, that's for sure.

Here's a qestion for you relationship junkies -- if you're not happy with yourselves now, what makes you think you'll be happy with someone else?

There's a reason the divorce rate is as high as it is, ya know?

Ok, there's no PRESTO, you're happy. It's just a different kind of happiness that comes from sharing your life with someone. Sure, it'll be rocky at times, but that doesn't mean you won't be happy. And yes, some people do need someone else in order to be happy. I know people who are much better with someone than without.

Secondly, sure you have freedom and sure, you have no responsibilities to anyone else. But you're not a kid anymore. When you hit a certain age (say maybe 26), you need to start thinking about more than how much fun you're having. Sometimes, it's just time to think about more than yourself.

One day, you're going to meet the one woman that will change your mind, and you're going to say "Damn, why didn't I do this sooner?"

No, this is no flame....just my 2 cents which you get a lot anyway.

 

[sergio]

Ok, there's no PRESTO, you're happy. It's just a different kind of happiness that comes from sharing your life with someone. Sure, it'll be rocky at times, but that doesn't mean you won't be happy. And yes, some people do need someone else in order to be happy. I know people who are much better with someone than without.

Secondly, sure you have freedom and sure, you have no responsibilities to anyone else. But you're not a kid anymore. When you hit a certain age (say maybe 26), you need to start thinking about more than how much fun you're having. Sometimes, it's just time to think about more than yourself.

One day, you're going to meet the one woman that will change your mind, and you're going to say "Damn, why didn't I do this sooner?"

No, this is no flame....just my 2 cents which you get a lot anyway.

Why at that certain age (26 to be exact lol) should you be thinking about more than just having fun? Life should be just that..having fun
And nothing is guaranteed in life my dear...I'm 35 and the right woman hasn't come along yet,may never happen,but I'm not holding my breath, nor looking to get married(not a goal of mine) But I have been in a number of relationships. I just think people 'settle' for whatever they can get...

 

[PHATchik]

Why at that certain age (26 to be exact lol) should you be thinking about more than just having fun? Life should be just that..having fun
And nothing is guaranteed in life my dear...I'm 35 and the right woman hasn't come along yet,may never happen,but I'm not holding my breath, nor looking to get married(not a goal of mine) But I have been in a number of relationships. I just think people 'settle' for whatever they can get...

I chose 26 because that is his age. And who says that being married or in a serious relationship can't be fun? Ask Kronk and Lil K or any of the other couples on here if life is not fun for them? Guess the answer you'll get. And just because the right woman hasn't come along yet, doesn't mean she won't. Hell, I'm not holding my breath for the right guy either. Blue is a wonderful color on me, but I'll pass. It's not a matter of settling. It's a matter of keeping your options open.

 

[sergio]

I chose 26 because that is his age. And who says that being married or in a serious relationship can't be fun? Ask Kronk and Lil K or any of the other couples on here if life is not fun for them? Guess the answer you'll get. And just because the right woman hasn't come along yet, doesn't mean she won't. Hell, I'm not holding my breath for the right guy either. Blue is a wonderful color on me, but I'll pass. It's not a matter of settling. It's a matter of keeping your options open.

What I meant was the ones who are married or in committed relationships 'settle'. I'm all for keeping options open.

 

[PHATchik]

What I meant was the ones who are married or in committed relationships 'settle'. I'm all for keeping options open.

I'm glad you are. But I don't think those people are settling. It's what they want to do. They are not necessarily saying well, this is all there is or what it all boils down to. It's what they want to do. I plan on doing that one day myself, and I can honestly say I don't think I'll be settling. I'll be getting exactly what I want.

 

[rsnoble]

fucking stupid cats. there all the same. thats why i got a great dane. he eats my stupid cats. Ps. bush sucks.

 

[supergirl]

Anyway...my contribution to this thread is done. I hereby sign over control of said thread to supergirl and her groupies.

Enjoy

what the fuck is that supposed to mean?!?!?... don't be J you biatch lol

 

[sergio]

I'm glad you are. But I don't think those people are settling. It's what they want to do. They are not necessarily saying well, this is all there is or what it all boils down to. It's what they want to do. I plan on doing that one day myself, and I can honestly say I don't think I'll be settling. I'll be getting exactly what I want.

Well, good luck in your search. I know my ideal woman doesn't even exist..

 

[Taps]

Well, good luck in your search. I know my ideal woman doesn't even exist..

She's crazy. Just ignore her...that's what I do.

 

[PHATchik]

She's crazy. Just ignore her...that's what I do.

Ha! You mean that's what you try to do. We both know it doesn't work.

 

[sergio]

She's crazy. Just ignore her...that's what I do.

Yea, crazy gurl to think that the perfect guy for her is out there somewhere ...don't have the heart to tell her...

 

[PHATchik]

Yea, crazy gurl to think that the perfect guy for her is out there somewhere ...don't have the heart to tell her...

Oh trust me, I know better than to stick the word "perfect" in there. But I do believe he's there...I'm just not sure where. At least I sure hope he is. lol