would you leave your partner is he or she got fat??

[Friscochick]

let's be honest here guys!! would you leave your partner? or possible cheat on them if they got over weight while you were with them???

 

[mvmaxx]

No, I wouldn't cheat on her. As long as you stay away.

I'd help her get back in shape. Whether that be through fixing healthier dinners and lunches myself or training her at the gym. I'd also hope that one would have an honest enough relationship with their partner that they could talk to them about it openly.

 

[vinylgroover]

let's be honest here guys!! would you leave your partner? or possible cheat on them if they got over weight while you were with them???

No i wouldn't it, but i would do everything in my power to encourage her (or force LOL) to lose it.

I think there comes a point in every relationship (i'm talking marriage here, not boyfriend/girlfriend) where love transends the physical aspect.

 

[Friscochick]

That was really nice MVM....


VG- work her out, sure youll find a way you stud!

 

[grlpwrd]

No, I wouldn't leave my man for getting fat. I actually relish the day that my hubby spends less time working out (he can be so obsessed) and doing more ordinary things with me even if he did get fatter.

 

[Friscochick]

No, I wouldn't leave my man for getting fat. I actually relish the day that my hubby spends less time working out (he can be so obsessed) and doing more ordinary things with me even if he did get fatter.

cool cool.. were all "obsessed" on these boards love tee hee

 

[Kali]

I don't think I would leave, but I think it would get a little annoying and possibly wear on our relationship. I mean, I am constanly wanting to go hiking, play soccer, run, lift, fuck or do anything that can take a lot out of a person. If you are not phsyically able to keep up with me, we could have a problem. I think instead of leaving, I would just start shopping and cooking a little better and try to get some motivation to get outside... like, "come climb to the top of this mountain and have sex in front of the world with me." That is usually some good motivation. Bribing always works for me.

 

[machaveli]

i would put her on some winny and dnp.

 

[Ceebs]

Being overweight is generally associated with laziness, gluttony, lack of self-respect and self-control; the unattractiveness of these character traits would outweigh the (subjective) unattractiveness of not having a six-pack. If my partner gained the weight due to a health problem, however, that would be a totally different story. And I'd enjoy playing nurse.

Bottom line? Probably not, unless we're talking about an obesity level of fatness for the abovementioned reasons.

 

[TEXgrl]

i wouldn't leave him for getting fat. he didn't leave me when i had my fat years after i had our son. he always told me i was beautiful, and would give him the same exact love in return if the shoe was on the other foot.

cheating is a terrible terrible thing, it can destroy the confidence of the innocent person involved. i've been on the receiving end of that, and it took me years to feel like i was worthy. i would never want to make someone go thru that kind of pain.