Women: Do You Please Your Man?

[Sinistar]

ive been hearing alot latlly about women who cant get off, or who dont enjoy sex. everytime it is blamed on the man.

my question is, do you think that just because you can get your man off, that your are pleasing him?

after all, we always get off, so why would you think that just getting us off is enough?

 

[Bikini Mod]

after all, we always get off, so why would you think that just getting us off is enough?

That is where you are incorrect. Believe it or not (Yes, it took me AWHILE before this concept "fit into my head" as well) that NOT ALL MEN WANT TO REACH ORGASM EVERY TIME THEY HAVE SEX!

This nearly blew my fucking mind. I thought, "Am I doing something WRONG here?!"

After conversation with a few women who have also had (it seems that European men are like this) lovers who only cared about PLEASING THE WOMAN it is NOT that the men are not turned on because they do not necessarily feel that the sex act NEEDS to culminate in an orgasm for him as well.

My man explained it to me this way. When he orgasms his energy is depleted and his desire wanes. He wants to be teased and feel his desire heighten constantly so he will actually STOP "mid-fuck" to just "cuddle" or go down on me if I haven't already gotten off. He doesn't CARE if he orgasms....

I know, if my coochie wasn't there, I wouldn't believe it either.

But in answer to your question....

I ALWAYS want my lover to be pleased - I ASK. There is no greater sense of satisfaction for me than when I MAKE MY LOVER WRYTHE WITH PLEASURE AND HAVE HIM MAKE THESE NOISES LIKE HE IS ABOUT TO DIE.... That is THE MOST AWESOME TURN-ON for me. I "high-five" myself and say, "I DID THAT!" LOL

 

[drgoodbody]

I agree..

with some of the things above. Basically, I like to give MrsG as many O's as possible (hell yeah I have a MASSIVE fucking ego), and I like to hold out for as long as possible - sometimes too long (to the point of frustration). And as for cumming, I have several different levels of satisfaction depending on how we got there. These go from a nice but quick dissipation of the post cum rush, to the knock-myself-out unconcious euphoria (much rarer, and I find that these only happen when I'm really, really, really, into it and so is she and I fuck til I drop.) But in the end, there is no such thing as a bad orgasm in my book.

DrG

 

[Sinistar]

bikinimom, i have to call bullshit. i just have to. there is no way a man doesnt want to get off. im sure you urge your men to fuck you senseless, but they dont want release? nope. not even britney spears gets that. its against nature.

yea i know dialtone was all for that, but i have many Qs about him. between getting his ass fingered and slapping his dick like a pissed off redneck while on cialis, i dont think ppl should be emulating mr tones actions in any way without supervision. of course mr tone would like supervision for the above im sure. ick.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Sorry, no bullshit doll. It took me a LONG TIME to adjust... and this was only after I had spoken to some other girls (who also happened to have European lovers) who had the same experience. These guys don't care if they EVER come. All they care about is eating pussy or making the woman get off as many times as he can get her to get off.

There is an Eastern philosophy that a man is robbed of energy when he ejaculates whereas a woman "takes" his energy and is thus energized when she orgasms. Think about it. A man reaching orgasm will PROPEL his sperm out of his body whereas a woman's orgasm is designed to help RECIEVE and help the man's sperm find its way to the egg.

It isn't that I was all that darlin'. This is how HE prefered to make love.

 

[Jimsbbc]

stopping for some good pussy eating is a good thing! I've been all about eating my SO's pussy and getting her off. I don't know where that came from, it used to not be a big deal.

 

[Sinistar]

so euro men dont want to come? do there ladies refuse sex and demand giving the man head?

 

[Bikini Mod]

I haven't a clue LOL

I never EVER say NO to quality cock, but if the dude wants to eat pussy.... THEN PUSSY HE WILL EAT!!!

 

[Sinistar]

truer words have not been spoken

 

[fl8meplz]

bikini, next time your in Atlanta, please call me.