Wife is thinking about a threesome

[SFCSNOW]

Hey guys and girls. My wife and I are 32 and have been married for 8 wonderful years! She woke up a few days ago and told me she had a dream about a girl working her over with a silver dildo. I was thinking DAMN, where is this going? Well, she is thinking about the threesome thing but her only hangup is she is scared it is going to damage our relationship. How about sharing some thoughts on what to do???

 

[bixnij6]

Hey guys and girls. My wife and I are 32 and have been married for 8 wonderful years! She woke up a few days ago and told me she had a dream about a girl working her over with a silver dildo. I was thinking DAMN, where is this going? Well, she is thinking about the threesome thing but her only hangup is she is scared it is going to damage our relationship. How about sharing some thoughts on what to do???

Not worth the risk. Get yourself a silver dildo and work her over yourself.

 

[BUBBLES]

You should meet my NEWLY married friends. These two have threesomes and foursomes every weekend. ! I spoke to them last night and they are on the prawl this weekend.

I am not into threesomes and I find it strange. But if that is what you want go for it!

Goodluck

 

[SFCSNOW]

From a guys point of view, sure I want to, but... what about a fews weeks done the road when the bloody demon is in town and she is LOOKING for a reason to bite my head off?

 

[1GILLY1]

Guess I'll add my 2 cents, I've been married for 17 years. Me and my wife have experimented with lots of stuff but no threesomes or extra partners. But I could swear if we watch a porno that has women getting of on each other my wife gets horny as hell. I've seen her checking out hot chicks, but if I say anything she denies it. Go figure?

 

[BUBBLES]

From a guys point of view, sure I want to, but... what about a fews weeks done the road when the bloody demon is in town and she is LOOKING for a reason to bite my head off?

EXACTLY!!!!!

You go it. If you want to spare yourself the relationship don't do it.

 

[DJ_UFO]

Dude go for it! Of course don't show too much enthusiasm because in teh future, while fighting, you'll be guilty. But just follow her fantasy. Damn that's like cheating "legally" lol

 

[mrplunkey]

You must die! My wife wouldn't go for that.

I'd foster that idea in her... Never pass up that opportunity IMO

 

[BUBBLES]

You must die! My wife wouldn't go for that.

I'd foster that idea in her... Never pass up that opportunity IMO

Why would you need another woman in the first place? Is there something wrong with your marriage? Are you bored?

 

[mrplunkey]

Why would you need another woman in the first place? Is there something wrong with your marriage? Are you bored?

It's not "bored"... just 15 years in and she's in a more "pragmatic" phase of life. We're just ageing at radically different rates. Me starting HRT about a year ago just made the gap even more dramatic.

I may be getting into too much detail, but she's a 1, maybe 2 max orgasm person -- and then pretty much shuts-down. Has always been and won't really even try for more (I like trying!). Sooo... it would be nice to be able to "take care of business" and still have a fun sexual partner in the bed!

Sorry if that's TMI!

 

[BUBBLES]

It's not "bored"... just 15 years in and she's in a more "pragmatic" phase of life. We're just ageing at radically different rates. Me starting HRT about a year ago just made the gap even more dramatic.

I may be getting into too much detail, but she's a 1, maybe 2 max orgasm person -- and then pretty much shuts-down. Has always been and won't really even try for more (I like trying!). Sooo... it would be nice to be able to "take care of business" and still have a fun sexual partner in the bed!

Sorry if that's TMI!

I see your point. Sorry to hear that...
SO I guess if things go at this rate for much longer you will be looking for a little extra on the side?

 

[mrplunkey]

I see your point. Sorry to hear that...
SO I guess if things go at this rate for much longer you will be looking for a little extra on the side?

That creates an entirely new set of problems. To be honest, I haven't started planning my next move.

She and I are having fairly blunt conversations and my take is she wants to do more, but it's a very hard read right now. We have days where we make progress and days where we get set back. I just can't get past the fact that in some ways, it's like me handing her a basketball and saying "hey, go dunk this behind your head".

We'll see!

 

[SoKlueles]

my advice is never bring a third party into your relationship.....no matter what......
No 3rd party in sex, no 3rd party in living arrangements......a house and a sex life only has room for 1 couple
if u add more, then you add more troubles

 

[Whiskey]

I think that it can be done and the relationship stay healthy. BUT, you would ahve to tread "lightly." When the time came, you'd have to pay a shit load of attention to your wife and hardly any to the 3rd wheel. That way, you wife won't get jealous.

I personally wouldn't do it. Mainly out of fear it would ruin the relationship, but it can be done without problems

Whiskey

 

[SFCSNOW]

Been noticing a few damn good looking females across the road at my neighbors house. I was thinking...must be friends of his wife. Well, my wife was looking at a swinger's site today and guess who she found! Bigger then shit, pics of both of my neighbors. I new she looked good but damn, clothes don't do her justice!

Now what? All of the "don't do its" were getting the nod from here and I have a set of freaks for neighbors. Who is going to win? They have already asked us to go boating with them.

 

[indyjones]

Well, my wife was looking at a swinger's site today and guess who she found! Bigger then shit, pics of both of my neighbors. I new she looked good but damn, clothes don't do her justice!

Let's see this hotties pics ...

 

[Gymgurl]

Funny thing is....as fun as it sounds sometimes....I could not share the man I love with someone else while I watch the whole thing.....dating maybe...married NEVER

 

[milo hobgoblin]

Go for it.. espeically if the neighbors are into it..

My girlfriend and I have been swinging for a couple of years now and have never looked back. It you have a strong relationship and are open minded it will open a whole new world for you.


If your wife has even hinted at it she wants somethign more.. badly. Take advatnage of this.. you only live once.

 

[Gymgurl]

Milo....if you marry this girl will you continue to do this?

 

[SFCSNOW]

I am not the one to bring it up, she did. She is wanting some female attention... not me. She keeps me fucked down. She has even put me in the hospital before!

 

[mrplunkey]

I am not the one to bring it up, she did. She is wanting some female attention... not me. She keeps me fucked down. She has even put me in the hospital before!

Then 1) You are a very lucky man
2) You definately should help her chase her desire for "female attention"
3) I shudder to think of the other attributes I'd concede in a partner if being "fucked down" and experimental are on the table.

 

[hamstershaver]

do it

 

[SoKlueles]

do it

or not

 

[Aquest]

This Is A Very Touchy Subject, My Girl And I Have Done It, But We Made Sure It Was Someone We Rarely Saw And Only For That Reason, Because Of The Whole Jealosuly Issue, And It Took A Few Times For Her To Get Comfortable With Me Touching The Other Chick, Just Take It Slow And Reap The Rewards