It all depends on the personality. Everyone has their own downfalls. Also haveyou ever seen a really ugly person who thought they were beautiful.? Maybe they knew what they looked like and were perfectly happy with it enough to be confident and even proud. So if a man thinks they are "unequipt) they are just being modest or they don't really care. Sometimes a person will also FISH for a compliment by saying something is the opposite just to get a reply!! Oh well Sabrina