WHY are you good in bed?

[gonelifting]

Maybe you`re not and that`s cool, but if you are, what is it exactly that makes you a good "performer"?

thanks

"I`m awesome" is`nt a good answer. Women and men can answer this I guess, except JerseyArt cause he`s both.


I like to make sure a woman is pleased. I think it starts with LOVING the pussy and the whole female body and mind from the inside out, up and down. Absolutely LOVE that shit. Then you put yourself in her mind because it`s ALL ABOUT HER for those 4 hours. Just when she thinks she`s had enough, give her some more and surprise the FUCK outa her time and time again. Make EVERY session better than the last, or at least make it SEEM better. lol

I`m not happy unless she`s laying there trembling with shivers grabbing herself mumbling incoherent stuff when I`m done. Lying there like a tornado just hit her. I love throwing her around like a ragdoll, she could be any size but I still like to make a woman feel small and fragile in my arms when I toss them around an flip em back and forth. If she`s with me, she knows she`s gonna get "handled", she knows who`s boss. I certainly know when to be gentle as well. That`s where the perfect timing of both gentleness and roughness come into play. The more you know your lover the better.





Now you can joke about what incoherent stuff she mumbles...

 

[KillahBee]

I fuck their head first. That's why. Bitch ass nigga.

 

[Delinquent]

4 hours?

 

[alien amp pharm]

With the high prices hookers charge nowadays, I couldn't care less if I'm good or not.

 

[IwouldSlamU]

this is what makes good lovers, caring about your partner and wanting to please them. time as almost nothing to do with it

 

[Robert Jan]

I'm relaxed, I'm passionate, I care about her feelings and don't bother with a childish war of who is using who and I apply some humour in sex.

I'm also in a relationship with a girl who has more experience than me and is more attractive and just keeps coming back, even when we don't do anything besides have sex, I never give her any gifts or pay her way and she also tells me I'm good at giving head and she does anything I tell her to.

I'm sure I could and will be better later on and most people who are some older than me are more skilled lovers. I think in attitude, rather than skill, I am very good though

 

[gonelifting]

4 hours?

oops. Typo, I meant minutes. lol

 

[perkele]

this is what makes good lovers, caring about your partner and wanting to please them.

Bullshit. Fuck them hard in the a$$ and bitch slap few times. LOL

 

[KillahBee]

I know exactly when to just slide it in and out at a nice and steadt pace while letting my sweat drip on them and keeping my mouth about .1 centimeters from theirs the whole time and I know exactly when to flip em over and just kill that shit - pull her hair, slap her ass and ask her who own that shit...

 

[Dial_tone]

Mostly because I'm lucky. Lucky in the sense that nothing turns me on more than watching a woman orgasm and knowing I caused her to do that. So whatever she needs, as many times as she needs it...doesn't matter until I'm physically exhausted. Then I'll ask if I can watch her. If she has 12 orgasms and I have 3-4....that's a great day. It's not so much that I'm such a gentleman as it is that it happens to feed my fragile male ego. If it didn't feed my ego I'd probably be as bad as they get.