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Who's in love right now?

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I sooooooooooooooooooo am.................

And its driving me crazy. I feel like ditching my
last 3 exams and jumping on the plane.


Aaaaaaarrrrrrgggghhhhhhhh.....!!!!!

Godspeed
 
I've been in love with my wife for quite some time now. :)
 
Alright, I have an idea for a new section:

The 'I'm Sooo In Love That I Annoy Others Group'.

Then you can post that stuff over there. We are all stocked up on crazy over here, so go sell it somewhere else. ;)

Congratulations though, most of all to Wodin.
 
I think you all know by now that I'm 110%, completely in love with my girlfriend...And because of it, I've started saving up for a ring...I plan on proposing this December!! :D

Wodin: GREAT ANSWER!!

Fonz: CONGRAT'S!!
 
Oh god thats terrible... someone smack me please. :bawling:

you have created a new breed of pun... the semi-pun. its hellspawn
 
I am hopelessly in love I'm afraid......

I don't think he feels the same though.... it's ok. Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
 
"Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."

I hate this saying, but maybe it's true...
 
No, I don't believe that love is fleeting.

Look at Wodin and Zebo and there are many other board members and those that we all know "in real life".

I may be a bit jaded and my heart more securely fortressed because of my divorce, but I REFUSE to give up the hope that some day I will find a man (or maybe he will find me tee-hee) who will be my friend until I draw my final breath. And if I don't it will still be ok, because I will not die bitter and alone.

Love - what more is there in this life? Yes, we do need food and shelter.... think about how empty our lives would be if we did not have love.

I would give all my earthly possessions (yea, like I have so much) and even my health.... I would gladly give it all. But the beauty about love is that it ASKS FOR NOTHING and yet GIVES EVERYTHING.
 
bikinimom said:


I may be a bit jaded and my heart more securely fortressed because of my divorce, but I REFUSE to give up the hope that some day I will find a man (or maybe he will find me tee-hee) who will be my friend until I draw my final breath. And if I don't it will still be ok, because I will not die bitter and alone.
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i will ask eros to shoot golden arrows at you, you deserve it.
 
WODIN said:
I've been in love with my wife for quite some time now. :)
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Same here. For 12 years, though I've calmed down a little since we first hooked up. I don't pee when she touches my leg anymore.
 
Been in love since 1982......yes, with the same women.
Some years better than others........
 
Originally posted by ttlpkg
Same here. For 12 years, though I've calmed down a little since we first hooked up. I don't pee when she touches my leg anymore.
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An UNCONTROLLABLE bladder is a sure sign of being in ove...
 
Thanx Spongebob!..... but MY heart is not the one who needs the golden arrows LOL!

I seem to always choose a man who does not return my afffection.... hehehhehe

See, I have grown and matured lightyears over the past several months. I am finally beginning to love myself more and more each day. I am getting stronger physically, mentally and emotionally.... God willing I will be OUT of divorce limbo HELL in the next several weeks; come hell or high water the ppwrk will be signed. Hopefully, all parties concerned will use their heads (leave the hurt feelings at home) and come to a fair settlement BEFORE trial, if not.... oh well, either way - then I can REALLY move with my life. Anyone who has been through this understands what I mean.

The man I love (as much as I am capable of loving right now) is THE FIRST man that I have ever bestowed my affection on who TRULY DESERVES IT. He is decent, unselfish, kind, has an AMAZING strength of character, is an UNBELIEVABLE father, and I believe a great capacity to love - I have seen him demonstrate this with his family and friends.... hell, even with those he hardly knows.

If he was a loser, I could cut him loose in the blink of an eye. (I got REAL good at this - have cut more than a few out with little or NO hesitation over the past several months.) But he IS NOT....

I truly do not understand what is up with him. I don't. All I can do is go about my life and be the best person I can be for MYSELF and MY CHILDREN. If he comes around, my prayers will have been answered. If not, then I have to believe that there was a good reason and I will consider myself quite fortunate to have had him in my life .... AT ALL, regardless of how brief a moment in time it was.
 
bikinimom said:
Love - what more is there in this life? Yes, we do need food and shelter.... think about how empty our lives would be if we did not have love.

I would give all my earthly possessions (yea, like I have so much) and even my health.... I would gladly give it all. But the beauty about love is that it ASKS FOR NOTHING and yet GIVES EVERYTHING.
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BRAVO!! Can I give like a million karma points for this post. Spoken someone that has been knocked down a time or two...you just have to get the fuck back up. Never lose hope...what else is there? :)
 
bikinimom said:

See, I have grown and matured lightyears over the past several months. I am finally beginning to love myself more and more each day.
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"Experience teaches us in a millenium what passion teaches us in an hour." -Ralph Irons-
 
bikinimom said:


I seem to always choose a man who does not return my afffection.... hehehhehe

See, I have grown and matured lightyears over the past several months. I am finally beginning to love myself more and more each day. I am getting stronger physically, mentally and emotionally....


Anyone who has been through this understands what I mean.
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let the next one choose you. of course once your done loving yourself.(no pun intended) a person picks up on that. if he see's how confident you are with yourself and the love and respect you have for yourself.

i have been thru it. i married my high school sweetheart(hell she lived with me in highschool). she eventually screwed around on me while i was gone.

i've never looked back.
 
But that is just it Spongebob -

THIS GUY DID CHOOSE ME!

Ah, it's ok.... I am just content knowing that I was allowed to love him. I know this may sound silly, but it's true.
 
bikinimom said:
But that is just it Spongebob -

THIS GUY DID CHOOSE ME!

Ah, it's ok.... I am just content knowing that I was allowed to love him. I know this may sound silly, but it's true.
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i may be confused. without to much detail why the big D? he sounds like an ok guy.
 
Grr...damn this topic!! lol jk

Well I'm not in a relationship or hung up on anyone any longer...I'm over that...I'm all about QUALITY not quantity so if I have to be single until the man who actually DESERVES my love and respect comes along, then so be it...
 
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PinK233 said:
Grr...damn this topic!! lol jk

Well I'm not in a relationship or hung up on anyone any longer...I'm over that...I'm all about QUALITY not quantity so if I have to be single until the man who actually DESERVES my love and respect comes along, then so be it...
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"I'd rather be alone for the right reasons than with someone for the wrong ones." ["Some Kind of Wonderful"]
 
I wish that I could get into specifics Spongebob but I am in the dark as YOU are.....

He is NOT and OK guy - HE IS AN AMAZING GUY..... and love with him was THE FURTHEST thing from my mind when he reached out to me in friendship when he figured out that I was going through a painful divorce.

If I had a dime for every time I called him hyper-ventilating with fear, barely able to speak from the tears over all of the BS that was going down in the divorce hell that has been my life for the past year or so - I could pay the ex off to leave the planet for good! heheheee He always calmed me down and reassured me that everything would be ok. COUNTLESS HOURS on the phone talking about everything from child-rearing, divorce, bodybuilding, cooking, hell how to get the dustbunnies from eating you alive!...everything with the exception of ONE TOPIC: SEX between him and me. Not even a hint or the faintest sexual innuendo. There are only three other men who have treated me this way:

The first was my first serious boyfriend; dated him for 2 years.

The second was a decent, kind and thoughtful man that I dated the same time that I dated my ex.

The third was the ex - him, I married and faithfully loved for nearly thirteen years. I still think about guy #2 from time to time, always have, but in the sense that I hope he has had a wonderful life and has had the opportunity to fulfill his dreams. Ya know?

I am not saying that I mind attention from men. Hell, if I minded then I would cover my tits and my ass, hehehehee. But this man saw my pics, new who I was on the boards and STILL NEVER EVER MADE A MENTION OF IT.

Since him, I have compared all others to him.... there is no comparison.

Now I sound like a freaking looney tune.

I'll just say that I don't know how stuff between us got screwed up and I miss him terribly.... I will always have only the most tender thoughts of him - always.
 
PinK233 said:
Grr...damn this topic!! lol jk

Well I'm not in a relationship or hung up on anyone any longer...I'm over that...I'm all about QUALITY not quantity so if I have to be single until the man who actually DESERVES my love and respect comes along, then so be it...
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<------------ deserving!
 
FRACKAL

Hey Frack....yeah...actually I got it a few days ago....my mail was being a pain so I couldnt access it right away.....Im sorry I didnt get back to you but the past week has been tough on me....I really appreciate your advice....I have been following it and I do notice some improvement....Im just dreading the holidays..because that means she will want to get her stuff and I dont even want to see her....Ill make sure Im not here....Christmas and New Years is going to kill too because I was with her last year at the time....oh well....Im off topic....thanks again Frackal and Ill be in touch
 
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Hannibal said:


"I'd rather be alone for the right reasons than with someone for the wrong ones." ["Some Kind of Wonderful"]
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Very good quote Hannibal...says exactly how I feel!
 
fuck love
fuck love
fuck love

what is true love anyway....very hard to find
 
bikinimom said:
I wish that I could get into specifics Spongebob but I am in the dark as YOU are.....

I'll just say that I don't know how stuff between us got screwed up and I miss him terribly.... I will always have only the most tender thoughts of him - always.
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well i hope it works out for ya. no matter the outcome.

you say you have grown over the last few months, has he seen this? like i said sometimes that turns em around.

in the end i always believe in destiny, if it wasn't meant to be, so be it. what you described was what i had with my high school sweetheart, i can only tell you it will happen again.
 
i'm sorry to say this, but for me love is for suckers. its too powerful, arbitrary & stupid to be allowed to roam free anymore. maybe it makes you feel googly, but it makes you forsake your friends, get your hopes up for nothing, fuck up your life, etc.


repeat after me:

i controooooooool my shit
i controoooooooooool my shit
i am somebody
 
i'm sorry to say this, but for me love is for suckers. its too powerful, arbitrary & stupid to be allowed to roam free anymore. maybe it makes you feel googly, but it makes you forsake your friends, get your hopes up for nothing, fuck up your life,

Then you have never been in love, or have a sick idea of what love is. I am IN LOVE and it's the best feeling in the world. Love motivates you to be a better person, love helps everyone be selfless. It's healthy. I can't imagine my life without my honey. I know I sound mushy, but love does that to you. And there's nothing wrong with that. :friends:
 
HighIntensity said:
"Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."

I hate this saying, but maybe it's true...
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Nah, it's not true. Would you miss/crave chocolate if you never had it? I know I'd be a hell of a lot thinner! LOL
 
KRS said:
i'm sorry to say this, but for me love is for suckers. its too powerful, arbitrary & stupid to be allowed to roam free anymore. maybe it makes you feel googly, but it makes you forsake your friends, get your hopes up for nothing, fuck up your life,

Then you have never been in love, or have a sick idea of what love is. I am IN LOVE and it's the best feeling in the world. Love motivates you to be a better person, love helps everyone be selfless. It's healthy. I can't imagine my life without my honey. I know I sound mushy, but love does that to you. And there's nothing wrong with that. :friends:
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:bawling:
 
guilty and empty inside because i cannot be with mine...

loneliness is the most tragic of emotions...

i danced on glass tables...
 
I love my HUBBY!

I got a man that I think I'm gonna love forever...........And forever we'll be togther .....No matter where he goes I'll be thinking of him.....Gonna love him I'm gonna love him...................................................
 
Clasped in the arms of her love
In vain, alas ! for life I strove:
My fluttering spirits wrapped in fire
By Love's mysterious art,
Borne on the wings of fierce desire,
Flew from my flaming heart.

Thus lying in a trance for dead,
Her swelling breasts bore up my head;
When waking from a pleasant dream,
I saw her killing eyes,
Which did in fiery glances seem
To say, now, she dies.

Fainting, she pressed me in her arms,
And trembling lay, dissolved in charms;
When with a shivering voice she cried,
Must I alone then die ?
No, no, I languishing replied,
I'll bear thee company.

Melting our souls thus into one,
Swift joys our wishes did out-run;
Then launched in rolling seas of bliss,
We bid the world adieu;
Swearing by every charming kiss,
To be forever true.

BM - You have a noble spirit; I wish the best for you. You deserve peace, intimacy, compassion, and happiness in your life.
 
bikinimom said:
Thank you Crab - that was very moving.....

I wish that I could write poetry like that, alas, I have only my prose.
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Kinimom - I expect to see an avatar from you...soon!!:D
 
I am in love with a guy who is SO nice to me... I never used to like nice guys. I'm glad I came to my senses. Bliss!!! :loveyou:
 
KRS said:


Then you have never been in love, or have a sick idea of what love is. I am IN LOVE and it's the best feeling in the world. Love motivates you to be a better person, love helps everyone be selfless. It's healthy. I can't imagine my life without my honey. I know I sound mushy, but love does that to you. And there's nothing wrong with that. :friends:
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too many things can go wrong. you get a job in a different city, one of you meets someone else, you lose interest, your personalties (and what you find tolerable/intolerable/desirable) change, you discover that you hate each other, etc. there are too many things that can go wrong for me to let an emotion that strong run free inside my mind.

i endorse love, but it is too strong & irrational for me to want to feel it anymore. i've been let down because i didn't quiz the other person out beforehand. i jumped in w/o planning for what could go wrong.

i've been in love. i'll admit that true, unadulterated love transcends all the shit i said. however, people usually don't find that type of love. they find co-dependent, 'im a man, you're a woman so i guess we should feel something' love that burns out. i've had one real love, and 4 so-so loves. i would take everything i said back if it was a description of the real love, but it still applies to the 4 so-so loves. i don't think i even felt pain from the true love. just lack. wow. love so pure there was no pain. but that is gone now. and it was a while back anyway.











i have to come back & write this. i don't buy into the 'love solves everything' crap anymore.

http://boards.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=64307&highlight=women

http://boards.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=62223&highlight=women

the way i see it there are different types of love. love between family, romantic love, religious love, humitarian love, etc. of them, i would put romantic love near the bottom in regards to usefulness & trustworthiness. i can't stand it now that i think about it. i hope i never love a woman more than i love my family, unless she can actually do what my family does for me. sit by me while im in the ER, drive 100 miles at 3am to get me, not attack me when i fail. romantic 'love' is usually a mixture of co-dependence, exploitation (men 2 women:show up your boobs as proof that you are easy to impregnate; women 2 men:show us that you are strong individuals & useful to society so we can give birth to a race of politically correct supermen) at the expense of true love (which is only based on what helps the individual IMO), and addiction.

if i find a woman who i think is a good person, then i am not above loving her. but a vagina alone doesn't do it for me.



i know. by saying this i am inviting every cognitive dissonancer in the land to uphold their stereotypes at my expense. feel free, but i outdodged those arguments long ago.
 
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Man, some of you people have issues. Of course, being hurt can bring out a lot of issues and harden your heart.

I'm not gonna get too gushy here...

I'm spot on with Badkins. And nordstrom, I DID have to take a job in a different city from my g/f, but we make it work because we care that much about each other & our relationship. Yeah, I could call it off, not deal with the long distance relationship and find some new women here, but that's not what I'm looking for anymore. Having various women to choose from with no "strings" is fun, but you're missing out on a whole other side that you can only get in a relationship and loving someone. I've been fucked over before, I've been hurt, but I take some time off and get back in the game...eventually, I found someone who was right for me.

Bikinimom -- your attitude is beyond great. I'm glad to hear you're happy with your life & your own self...and no offense here, but if this guy doesn't love you back, he's nuts! :D
 
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