I am very passionate while my husband is more cool, steps back doesn't get rattled and waits to react.
However, we compliment each other well in that when he has a meltdown here and there, I have NO PROBLEM taking the wheel.
But generally, he is much calmer and I am more emotional.
There are times when you need to let it go and other times when you need to grab the bull by the horns and say."OK FUCKER... NOW WHAT."