If I have decided to be intimate with a man then that is THE FIRST PLACE he will be going! LOL I don't even care if his dick can even get hard, as long as he knows how to give m'kitty a proper lickenz.
How did I arrive at this? Well, I was THIRTY-FOUR YEARS OLD before I had my kitty properly licked and SWEET JESUS - I HADN'T CLUE ONE AS TO WHAT I WAS MISSING FOR ALL OF THOSE YEARS! Don't get me wrong, I still love good cock. But now, he could have the most amazing cock on the planet, if he can not go down properly he can keep his amazing cock in his pants and move on... I won't be missing him.
....and for the record - OF COURSE, I reciprocate. I don't think that my skillz are mad in this department but I have been told that I am "OK".
tee-hee