What's the Most Difficult thing you have had to Tell a Significant Other?

[havoc]

Sometime in the near future I will be letting my girlfriend know that I do not want to live with her anymore. I would like to stay in the relationship, but living together is an entirely different ball game, especially with her. This will be tough, she is going to go ape shit. This in my opinion is pretty tough to do. What about you? peace

 

[Bikini Mod]

That I would rather be dead than remain his wife....


Sorry to hear Havoc. Living together is not all that it is cracked up to be. It is mother-fucking hard. That is one reason why I won't do it again.

 

[WODIN]

Told a girl once after being engaged to her for about 6 weeks that I didn't want to marry her. That was pretty tough..especially with her throwing things at me while I was trying to explain why I thought she was a raving bitch.

Other than that nothing big....

 

[beastboy]

My wife and I broke up 3 times while dating....every time I broke up with her was after sex. It was easy to do once I was "finished". I was a dick then, but she took me back. I have been with her for 10 years, and I am almost 26.

 

[Citruscide]

After being engaged and having a serious breakdown in trust... walking away, despite her making every effort to try to stay together.

C-ditty

 

[havoc]

Re: Re: What's the Most Difficult thing you have had to Tell a Significant Other?

Thats gonna be tricky havoc. She is going to go crazy....most chicks would take that as a sign of "this relationship is not going to work" or find resolve in the all or nothing philosophy of "i am not going to take a step back in this relationship......I'll end it first."

If you are really serious about moving her out, stand strong and you'll be better for it in the end. IN all liklihood she will split with you, but you know her better than me.

You are correct, thanks for the advice. peace

Looks like others on here have had some more difficult moments than my situation.

 

[WODIN]

Kingjohn is dead on....Hell my wife even had a "Life Plan" which I thought WTF? is that for. She wanted to do activity X by this age or that. Life doesn't work that way.

 

[PoyeBoy]

I keep hinting to my girl to try and lose a little weight, not much, she is like 130lbs 5'6", but she doesnt do anything physically and obviously your not going to get skinnier if you dont do anything. Plus she drinks mad cans of soda a day.

 

[machaveli]

telling my one true love that i was moving to florida because i can't handle the drugs anymore!! best and worst thing i've ever done for myself.

 

[Citruscide]

I keep hinting to my girl to try and lose a little weight, not much, she is like 130lbs 5'6", but she doesnt do anything physically and obviously your not going to get skinnier if you dont do anything. Plus she drinks mad cans of soda a day.

siphon out her pop, and put, in it's place a component mixture of dnp, eca, and liquid ephedra. She'll lose some fat in no time...

BTW -- I am joking, don't really do this...

C-ditty

 

[vixenbabe]

I had to tell my hubby his grandpa passed away. It was the hardest thing I have ever had to do. He was crushed!

 

[PoyeBoy]

siphon out her pop, and put, in it's place a component mixture of dnp, eca, and liquid ephedra. She'll lose some fat in no time...

BTW -- I am joking, don't really do this...

C-ditty

damn you, I was going to try that, Actually I told her I might try clen and she is extremely interested in it, But it might be a little to strong for her. And she might think more is better and boil herself

 

[hardrock]

I keep hinting to my girl to try and lose a little weight, not much, she is like 130lbs 5'6", but she doesnt do anything physically and obviously your not going to get skinnier if you dont do anything. Plus she drinks mad cans of soda a day.

I hear ya PB. When I met my girl she had a fuckin 6 pack. Now 5 years later she's startin to chunkup a bit. She's gained like 25 lbs, and most of it within the last year. After trying to be subtle for a few moths, I finally just told her. I said that I love her and wanted to be with her, but I didn't think I could be with someone I wasn't sexually attracted to. I told her she still looked fine, but had to start working out and eating better. Now she actually works out more than I do and has since quit drinking pop. She's starting to bounce back to her old shape, and I'm lovin it.

Best move I could have made. Good luck broly!

 

[PoyeBoy]

I hear ya PB. When I met my girl she had a fuckin 6 pack. Now 5 years later she's startin to chunkup a bit. She's gained like 25 lbs, and most of it within the last year. After trying to be subtle for a few moths, I finally just told her. I said that I love her and wanted to be with her, but I didn't think I could be with someone I wasn't sexually attracted to. I told her she still looked fine, but had to start working out and eating better. Now she actually works out more than I do and has since quit drinking pop. She's starting to bounce back to her old shape, and I'm lovin it.

Best move I could have made. Good luck broly!

YOU BASTARD!!!!!

I am almost getting to that point, I actually have thought about telling her the same exact thing, wierd

but its like, if you dont do anything now, you are going to keep getting bigger and pretty soon, I wont find you sexually attractive anymore, why should I try and make myself look like a greek god, and she does nothing

 

[MFMan]

I'm gay. That was the hardest thing I had to tell.

 

[Lumberg]

Havoc you'll be fine.

For me it wasn't saying shit that was hard, it was dealing with the consequences of what I said. And now the hardest thing is KEEPING myself from saying things to my ex that I know I will regret.

 

[AAP]

That I love you, but I don't like you.

Makes no sense probably, but sometimes that is the case. You honestly love someone dearly that you do not even like enough for a friend. Lust? Infatutation? whatever.

 

[notoriousQQ]

I'll never tell.

 

[dballer]

calling my mother and telling her that I would be spending the next year behind bars.

 

[AAP]

calling my mother and telling her that I would be spending the next year behind bars.

for what charge? PM me if you want.

 

[Raina]

It's incredibly hard to break up with people. I'd rather be dropped any day then have to hurt someone I care about.