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Were humans designed to be monogomus?

Bobber

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The responses to my last thread made me think about this? Do yall really think we were made to be with just one person or are we like any other animal?
 
I am beginning to think that alot of people are not ment to be. It is just the way that the society is.With people living longer and looking younger it is hard for some people not to be. It just depends on the person.

On the other hand it is very hurtful when you find out your S/O has been cheating on you. I do not think it is RIGHT to cheat. Morally, I could'nt cheat on my S/O. If I was really tempted, I would break up with him before I did anything. For some reason, I do not think I will ever be tempted. I love my S/O more than anything and NOONE is worth one good night when you are in love.
 
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Some people may be, some may not. I think it's too individualistic to say.

Me personally? One person. And cheating? Uch. I'll gut myself if I cheat on my baby girl.
 
No, absolutely not. It's against our very nature. It's a choice, based on religious or moral beliefs. I was married for 10 years and never screwed another woman, so I guess I did pretty good. And even if I had given in temptation, it wouldn't mean I didn't love my wife. This is where many men and women are different. Many women claim they could never have sex with another man when they are love with someone. Not so for men.
 
hamstershaver said:
ive made threads on this before, hell no we werent, males are here to spread their seed to as many kittys as possible
thats what my ex said......
i still dont buy it
 
biteme said:
No, absolutely not. It's against our very nature. It's a choice, based on religious or moral beliefs. I was married for 10 years and never screwed another woman, so I guess I did pretty good. And even if I had given in temptation, it wouldn't mean I didn't love my wife. This is where many men and women are different. Many women claim they could never have sex with another man when they are love with someone. Not so for men.

I would never marry and breed for religious belief.

If I had found the right person and the feeling were mutual why in the world would I want to screw that up? Then I'd have to go out and search all over again - OH GOD the misery in the thought of that.

I don't believe that is true for all men nor all women.
 
I'm not saying that i condone cheating, but i think if you look at the human species as a whole throughout time you will come to the conclusion that the human species were not made to be monogomus. As biteme said earlier, marriage is an idea based on moral and religious beliefs. Without these two things the world would be one big orgy!
 
velvett said:
I would never marry and breed for religious belief.

If I had found the right person and the feeling were mutual why in the world would I want to screw that up? Then I'd have to go out and search all over again - OH GOD the misery in the thought of that.

I don't believe that is true for all men nor all women.

That's why I didn't screw anyone when I was married. I truly loved her for the stupidity of me. Didn't want to risk losing her or hurting her like that. Didn't seem to bother her too much, but maybe it did, I'll never know.
 
i think we are intelligent enough to do either.

if you take a look at the middle east, youll see that polygamy has been a successful strategy for a few thousand years.

these days if youre marrying for love, unless your partner is into it, you cant but be monogamous...or the whole thing will fall apart.

or you could be like aap, who has lived a life of forced celibacy.

whatever floats your boat
 
GoldenDelicious said:
i think we are intelligent enough to do either.

if you take a look at the middle east, youll see that polygamy has been a successful strategy for a few thousand years.

these days if youre marrying for love, unless your partner is into it, you cant but be monogamous...or the whole thing will fall apart.

or you could be like aap, who has lived a life of forced celibacy.

whatever floats your boat

Don't forget Utah!
 
It depends on what you're talking about. If you're talking about being with one person your entire life and being alone after they die, then no that's not human nature. If you're talking about cheating or not cheating on your S/O, that is most often a case of lack of discipline on the part of the cheater, and nothing to do with human nature.
 
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