you just need to relax.
have a glass of wine first, In a dimly candell lit bed room with me,
I start from your neck and kiss you down your body,, to your stomach, then your inner thighs.
gently I will lick you (you know where) and gentlry ease a finger in.
That would be the frst step.
I can't believe I am on this thread!
anyway give anal a chance I have converted some non believers, into believers!