This Guy wont fuck off,what to do

[theoak01]

my girlfriend and I have been together for almost 2 yrs, before that she went out with a guy I was friends with for 9 months, now he treated her like shit and they split up, he dumped her, anyways 6 months later me and her hook up, and ever since this guy has been a real prick to me, but at a party last year I thought we buried the hatchett. well lately he has been running his mouth to everyone I know about me and saying how he wants to kick my ass because I took the only thing he ever had, and now his life is going nowhere so he wont let this die. and this asshole keeps coming into the bar I work at with friends trying to get me to fight and other bullshit. no I dont want to fight this guy, Im going to be taking police foundations and cant afford a record, but he is insistant on fighting, what do you guys reccomend?

 

[The Terminator]

I recommend the same thing I tell everyone when someone is harrassing them. File a police report with the local authorities (they don't even have to take action, just get it on record). (this could save your ass if anything does transpire...they will be more likely to believe he was the aggressor, and you were only defending yourself) Or you could always just let the authorites handle it by having them discuss it with him downtown (people may think you are a pussy for doing this but trust me fighting proves very little in the end, even if you mop the floor with this guy)

 

[bwood]

arent you a bouncer there???

and he is in your bar where
you have a possessory interest
as granted by the owner???

ban his ass...make him leave...
if he refuses...bounce him...as
far as the cops are concerned,
he is just another rowdy drunk
that fell...

 

[theoak01]

ya he is barred but he keeps hanging around waiting for me to get off work and shit like that.

I am thinking def about the police report as I dont need the trouble at all if this goes to blows,and quite frankly if it did I would be conerned as he was the canadian ufc type fighting champ for his age and weight class

 

[The Terminator]

and quite frankly if it did I would be conerned as he was the canadian ufc type fighting champ for his age and weight class

Well then you probably don't want to fight against a guy who makes his living by fighting...

 

[big_bad_buff]

if he comes into your working place Harassing you, call the police and press charges. Do this every time he does. put a restraining order on him if you want as well, on you and the bar. you could call the police right now if you wanted to do so

 

[theoak01]

he use to be in the fighting,now he is just a lazy fat fuck but I am sure he still knows what he is doing,Im trained to fight aswell but not to such a degree.

as for calling right now,I wont but the next time he comes to my work I will,aslong as the owner doesnt have a fucking fit,he hates cops being involved at the bar

 

[presguy]

im serious.........just smack him once. you'll never be dissed again.

 

[Imnotdutch]

Dude get some big ass friends. Or make friends with bikers.

Get all yoru buddies there -- and invite this fuck over. Nothing like a good POUNDING by 10 guys to wake this sorry ass up.

Hate to say it -- but some jerks DON'T learn until they're put into a fucking coma. Bullies are bullies until they get their ass handed to them. It's called a "reality check".

-= nav =-

He said something about not wanting trouble because he is doing police foundations..........jumping the guy with hismates ishardly going to help him.

Irish........do as Terminator said and get this on file. That is the professional way of doing things. At least then if it does come to blows you have some leverage.

 

[coder]

What a loser! Get that shit on file, then the next time he comes running his mouth, take a hit... then slam his head into something.. self defense man.

You tried to run! He caught you, Punched you in the face.. when he went to take another shot you hit him multiple times to disengage him from striking you again.

 

[p0ink]

i wouldn't get in a fight with him, because once he kicks your ass, which he will, your girl will have even less respect for you than she does already.

p.s. thanks for the bad karma.

 

[Imnotdutch]

Bad karma? Why and who?

i wouldn't get in a fight with him, because once he kicks your ass, which he will, your girl will have even less respect for you than she does already.

p.s. thanks for the bad karma.

 

[p0ink]

Bad karma? Why and who?

http://boards.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?postid=2864705#post2864705

Yesterday 12:46 AM IrishMobBoss arent you a clever little cunt,grow up

 

[Imnotdutch]

Ah the thread where everybody was laying into BM..........well some people went way to far on that thread (I really dont get why people get on BM's back. She's cool IMO).

 

[KillahBee]

why don't you just send the IRA after him?? lol

 

[theoak01]

well considering everyone I know in the IRA lives in ireland its quite the trek.

I will be doing the police report the next time he comes into the bar ,Im not worried about getting beat just dont need problems at all,and as for bikers his uncle is friends with some angels,and I have met them so I know he isnt full of shit.

 

[HighIntensity]

stop being a pussy, man the fuck up.

 

[Imnotdutch]

stop being a pussy, man the fuck up.

It is kinda a weird post coming from somebody who likes to spout on about bouncing and the IRA

 

[KillahBee]

It is kinda a weird post coming from somebody who likes to spout on about bouncing and the IRA

word.

 

[theoak01]

just because I support a free ireland and bounce as a job doesnt mean all I want to do is fight. I bounce because it gives me money and the social environment is great. fighting gets you nowhere in life and I want to be a cop not some burned out security guard because I was a hot head and couldnt keep my hands to myself

 

[Big Jroy]

File a report then bro, but if he attacks you first then kick his fucking ass. Who cares if hes a UFC fighter, if you weigh anywhere close to him wrestle his ass to the ground and use your elbows and keep your face as guarded as possible. He obviously thinks you are a pussy and he's just trying to scare your. wrassle him for a bit and he'll probably respect you again. I doubt he would try to kill you in a fight, bloody noses/lips are no big deal, it's worth it to have your pride back and not have to live in fear of some dildo smoker IMO.

Good luck

 

[spin721]

This fucking guy is still stuck on a chick who dumped him over two years ago?! What kind of fucking moron is he? I know you could hand him his ass...but putting that shit on file is a good idea. Another suggestion I thought of, go get a restraining order on his sorry ass. Then if that sack of shit shows up at your job, he goes to pound me in the ass prison. If he wants to fight so bad, I am sure he will have plenty of opportunities in there.

 

[bwood]

i have to believe...from my years on the
force and memories of the hiring process...

that getting a restraining order against
another guy looks worse than kicking a
guy's ass and then going to court and
kicking his ass there too...

it really depends on whether the hiring officers
are old hands or college degree having pussies
that could never "make it" on the street...

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Right, file a restraining order on him, and have your girl do the same. This guys is a loon. In any event, once you have the restraining order, its going to go very bad for him if he picks a fight with you. ANd it will make you look alot better if you do jack him up and it goes to court. He showed up at YOUR work and started a fight when a judge told him he had to stay away from you.

 

[-SD-]

Heres an idea: Dont get involved with women that your friends have already had.

 

[Imnotdutch]

Heres an idea: Dont get involved with women that your friends have already had.

Wheres the fun in that??

Ok, ok I agree.........

 

[theoak01]

I didnt plan this,it just kinda happened and we are together but fuck after 2 years its time to let it go

 

[Aussie Juga naught]

Why are you taking shit from this punk, kick his ass. Its that simple.

 

[Mandinka2]

just because I support a free ireland and bounce as a job doesnt mean all I want to do is fight. I bounce because it gives me money and the social environment is great. fighting gets you nowhere in life and I want to be a cop not some burned out security guard because I was a hot head and couldnt keep my hands to myself

Ok Oak , a few things here:
1. The provisional IRA are a now hibernating organisation (from a violence perspective) and have invested drug money and other crime related funds into hotels and other property in the North. The "real IRA" and "the continuity IRA" are plain old organised criminals who were not properly disciplined within the previous organisation. They have created misery for many people in the North. Furthermore the IRA in its current guise is a heavily socialist organisation with many views inconsistent with the way people in the "Free" South live currently. Amongst its ranks it counts many individuals bordering on the psychopathic. Please change your avatar as it could give offence. Dont change your views just yet , come over ,spend some time in Cork , then head up to South Armagh (IRA stronghold), find out who these people really are who you support, observe and learn - your views will be changed for you.
2. You need to make this person respect you - he is not doing that , find a way , dont get into a fight - one solid punch was all it ever took from my experience Stateside.

 

[theoak01]

I know I should kick his ass but doing so could get me a record and that is the last thing I ever need.


as for the IRA Im up to date on happenings,but would like to come for a visit and observe,out of respect for you I will change my avatar when I find a new one,but still support a united Ireland

 

[geoffgarst]

I think I would such file a police report...otherwise, if you beat the shit out of him or theaten him, then he will likely be the one filing the report! Get your girlfriend to file the report!

PS: I could sure use some KARMA! All will be paid back!

 

[Mandinka2]

I know I should kick his ass but doing so could get me a record and that is the last thing I ever need.


as for the IRA Im up to date on happenings,but would like to come for a visit and observe,out of respect for you I will change my avatar when I find a new one,but still support a united Ireland

Thanks Oak , I would never ask u to change your views about a united Ireland , that often lies inside the heart of all Irishmen but there are many ways to skin a cat y'know? The Unionist folks up North have been left behind economically by the South in the last 10 years or so , they're beginnin to realise that it might not be such a bad idea for them after all to just STFU and get their asses into gear rather than bein bitter 24/7. Bouncer is still there , I go home every now and again and there's piles to see and learn.
As for ur friend , use ur brain , im sure u can think of some way 2 put the fear of God into him , why not send him a pigs head in the mail or something , get ur woman in on the act so that it will bring u closer? Just get off ur ass and do it.

 

[theoak01]

I agree bro something must be done,and in time it will,I will wait until the next time he comes to the bar and file the report then,and once that is filed I will tool his ass,but until then I wont do anything as a clean record is imparative.