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furious

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This has been going on about a decade, now. I must look like some easy trick, which I'm not. I'm actually a really romantic guy. Anyways, almost every girl that I meet, just wants to have sex. It happened again on Sunday.
I know this may not sound right, but I'm a brotha who can't get down like that....I like to know my lover and have an interest in them. I can hear fellas saying " Wack!", but hey, it's parents fault for giving me some values :D
Anyways, I meet a lot of women, meeting them is not the problem. Neither is getting a date, but finding one who wants to develop something is. Before anyone goes into the what type of girl are you going out with spiel: Every girl I have dated in the last 2 years has at least a 4 year degree, intelligence is my weakness, a good job and a supportive family. I always chose the ones that "look" like good girls, the family type girls. Bah! they are the worst freaks around, it seems.
Any other fellas have this problem? I know the ladies have to deal with it a lot, but as a man, I don't know any other man who has had the same problem.

Peace
 
same here. In college, girls just want to fuck as many guys as possible and then settle down after they are in a job and financially stable.

These are girls i've met in classes and through mutual friends, but after i wouldn't give them the one night stand they wanted - they drop me. I can get that anywhere, i want someone i can get to know, trust, and care about.

Apparently there is no such thing as dating in college - it's just fuck whoever you can take home that night.
 
Bro...i so hear you on this...last chick i dated was like that...i didn't hit it quick enough...so she was gone.
 
Those girls should definitely hook up with the guys I meet! ;)


You must seem like the type of guy that can keep a secret. That's what us good girl/bad girl types look for. A hot sexy guy who we can unleash our passions to who won't go around telling others that we are actually bad bad girls... ;) lol.
 
furious said:
This has been going on about a decade, now. I must look like some easy trick, which I'm not. I'm actually a really romantic guy. Anyways, almost every girl that I meet, just wants to have sex. It happened again on Sunday.
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When you pay money for a hooker, what do you expect. They figure you're not there for the 'get to know you'.
 
polarpixie said:
Those girls should definitely hook up with the guys I meet! ;)


You must seem like the type of guy that can keep a secret. That's what us good girl/bad girl types look for. A hot sexy guy who we can unleash our passions to who won't go around telling others that we are actually bad bad girls... ;) lol.
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Polar, i can keep a secret:p
 
Jimsbbc said:
same here. In college, girls just want to fuck as many guys as possible and then settle down after they are in a job and financially stable.

These are girls i've met in classes and through mutual friends, but after i wouldn't give them the one night stand they wanted - they drop me. I can get that anywhere, i want someone i can get to know, trust, and care about.

Apparently there is no such thing as dating in college - it's just fuck whoever you can take home that night.
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and get as many diseases as possible in the process
 
I have the same problem. I have to put bars on the windows. The women are camped outside my front door as I speak.

"Look can't you just accept that I am gay".

Actually I think the gay thing is what really turns them on. I have to carry a stick around so that I can beat them back. Can't women just control themselves!
 
Once they realize that you have a small dick, and you are both a loser and a bum, why would they want to stay with you? That doesn't just go for the guy who started this thread, i have seen some of the others on this threads pics and you are ugly as nads. I wonder how you find thise sluts, face it, girls are dirty sluts and all they want to do is fuck that is why they are worthless and they will die of the STD's they get.
 
Lumbuss said:
Once they realize that you have a small dick, and you are both a loser and a bum, why would they want to stay with you? That doesn't just go for the guy who started this thread, i have seen some of the others on this threads pics and you are ugly as nads. I wonder how you find thise sluts, face it, girls are dirty sluts and all they want to do is fuck that is why they are worthless and they will die of the STD's they get.
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hhmmmm, so tell aunty Hans, do you feel that you have a healthy attitude towards women???
 
I should have known better then to ask for advice from this f*** up board. For the real people who answered truthfully, many thanks. For the majority, our future is screwed if the "well-thought out" replies are any indication of were we are as a society...bah!
Is it me, or are people getting dumber and ruder? Thank you, cable tv!!
 
HansNZ said:


hhmmmm, so tell aunty Hans, do you feel that you have a healthy attitude towards women???
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You aren't my aunt. And my attitude toward women is fine. THe girls he is speaking of are dirty sluts and they are ripe with STDs. I dont know any women like that, the girs i assosiate with are not sluts, they are classy. I dont like sluts, i like nice girls.
 
Maybe your problem is that you are still looking for "girls." People are going to act the way that you address them and make them feel. I don't know any women that act like this, but many girls that do. Maybe your standards are too high. You are basically saying that you are looking for a beautiful, intelligent, well brought up girl, that is pretty much perfect, and wants to have a long relationship with you. A large percentage of the girls I know that would meet this criteria, have been either really responsible their whole life and now want to party, or have been handed things and don't recognize or appreciate a good thing when they see one. You seem like a wonderful guy, but maybe you should broaden your horizons or where you meet these people. Maybe you are just one of these great guys that is completely irresistible. Either way, most women just don’t jump you without any signs. Try playing the friend game for a while and learn what these women want before asking them out. Or maybe just try to date women that have a good heart instead of a good resume. Just a thought, I am sure you guys will burn me for this one, but what do I know, I am just a women.
 
The thing is... when you sit down and really think about it, I mean REALLY think...you come to the unavoidable conclusion that you are, indeed, gay.
 
SmegmaSoldier said:


i am trying to make a check list for girls here to see which ones i want to have a meaninful relationship. i just have an additional question for you if you dont mind. do you enjoy anal?
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Giving it? Hell yeah, come over! Which color vibrator do you prefer, I am thinking you are more of a glow in the dark guy, multi-speed?
 
Lumbuss said:


You aren't my aunt. And my attitude toward women is fine. THe girls he is speaking of are dirty sluts and they are ripe with STDs. I dont know any women like that, the girs i assosiate with are not sluts, they are classy. I dont like sluts, i like nice girls.
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I rest my case.
 
I think one of the number one problems so many straight guys have in their relationship to the opposite sex is their preoccupation with women as sex objects.

If you want to be a casanova then don't approach women from the first second you meet them as a potential mates. Treat them as people.

I am a gay man. 60% of my friends are straight men, another 35% are straight or lesbian women, and maybe 5% at most are gay. The reason for this is that I am a person to the first 95% of those people. For the gay guys, 90% of them can't seem to get beyond my pecs and arse, so it creates friction in our interactions.

So many of my straight male friends are as jealous as hell about my ability to get on with women. I'll be in a nightclub with a group of straight guys. They'll be in a group together and i'll be off with a group of maybe 5 or more of the sexiest women in the place crowded around me chatting away.

The straight guys tell me that i'd be a legend if I was straight. But they are wrong. The reason the women are crowded around me is because I treat them as people. They don't feel they have to be on guard with me all the time. Most of the time they don't even know I am gay. These women just feel a sense of comfort with me because I don't view them as sex objects, which otherwise would affect my whole demeanour towards them.

It is no coincidence that so many women complain that the best guys are either married or gay. Why don't you strike up an acquaintance with a gay guy (assuming you are secure enough in your own sexuality to do this). Observe the way he behaves towards women. If you learn from this then you may discover a positive transformation in your own relationships.

Just my 2 cents.
 
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HansNZ said:


I rest my case.
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What the hell are you talking about? So its wrong for me to like nice sweet girls my age over dirty sluts who fuck every guy they see? I would never want to go out with a girl who was so dirty she fucks tons of guys, i have no respect for those girls. I might fuck them, but as far as giving a shit about a slut why should I? Im not talking about prude, ugly or fat girls, but i dont like sluts as girlfriends. If a girl fucks every guy at college she is a dirty slut and she probably has STDs that are no ones fault but hers.
 
Man, I really know what you mean, heres my problem: Any woman who has graced a magazine cover or had top billing in a major motion picture just wont quit demanding that I fuck her six ways from Sunday. I mean Im a pretty good guy, but this is getting rediculious! All Im looking for is one woman who I can connect with all of my heart and soul, but whenever I meet someone they start telling me they posed in this magazine, or this swimsuit issue, or this pin up calendar, or starred in this movie, blah blah blah. The next thing to come up in the conversation is how she really likes to give head or her favorite sex positions or something stupid and immature like that. All I wanted to do was have a good conversation and really get to know her on a spiritual level, but then she had to ruin it all by acting like her drinking straw was a phallic symbol, or start rubbing my crotch with her foot from underneath the table, or whatever. They usually always bring the magazines they posed in or the calendars they were in and show it off to me, but I tell ya, Im just not interested in a woman that gives me strong sexual innuendos right off the bat. What I strongly desire is a perfect little princess whom I can put on a pedestal and shower with love, affection, gifts, and simply become each others soulmate. But nooooo, they have to start in with the lustful actions and things like "after this why dont we go to my place", talk like that puts my red flag up and tells me she only wants to fuck. Or theres always "my neck is tight from the photo shoot, would you give me a rubdown?" I cant stand it when they want to get physical like that, Im trying to get to know you better! Movie stars are the worst though, usually after our date she wants to wisk me away to some fancy hotel in an exotic city for God knows what. I just cant win
 
Needhelp said:


Call it, "The Gay Man's Guide to Getting Women".
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I think someone has already written something like that. Or was that the gay man's guide to oral sex for women, hhhmmmm?
 
Furious i hope you havent left the board permamently. I know what you are talking about. I actually want to find a true girlfriend to share myself with and be close with but i seem to only find girls who want to "throw down". I know it is a bit my fault because i am very flirtatous, but i am also becoming rather lonely and want someone special.

I do hope you find someone! :D Perhaps try one of those date phone line services where there are catagories for long-term relationships. There are 2 or 3 big ones like this here in Atlanta. Perhaps there are some where you live as well?
 
HansNZ said:
I think one of the number one problems so many straight guys have in their relationship to the opposite sex is their preoccupation with women as sex objects.

If you want to be a casanova then don't approach women from the first second you meet them as a potential mates. Treat them as people.

I am a gay man. 60% of my friends are straight men, another 35% are straight or lesbian women, and maybe 5% at most are gay. The reason for this is that I am a person to the first 95% of those people. For the gay guys, 90% of them can't seem to get beyond my pecs and arse, so it creates friction in our interactions.

So many of my straight male friends are as jealous as hell about my ability to get on with women. I'll be in a nightclub with a group of straight guys. They'll be in a group together and i'll be off with a group of maybe 5 or more of the sexiest women in the place crowded around me chatting away.

The straight guys tell me that i'd be a legend if I was straight. But they are wrong. The reason the women are crowded around me is because I treat them as people. They don't feel they have to be on guard with me all the time. Most of the time they don't even know I am gay. These women just feel a sense of comfort with me because I don't view them as sex objects, which otherwise would affect my whole demeanour towards them.

It is no coincidence that so many women complain that the best guys are either married or gay. Why don't you strike up an acquaintance with a gay guy (assuming you are secure enough in your own sexuality to do this). Observe the way he behaves towards women. If you learn from this then you may discover a positive transformation in your own relationships.

Just my 2 cents.
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Good advice, but don't you think that the same could be applied to gay men? You should pay careful attention next time your straight male friends strike up a friendly conversation with an attractive gay man. I'm sure you will learn how to handle hot, sexually appealing gay men by watching your straight male friends treat them as people.
 
Gubernatorial Goosefish said:


Good advice, but don't you think that the same could be applied to gay men? You should pay careful attention next time your straight male friends strike up a friendly conversation with an attractive gay man. I'm sure you will learn how to handle hot, sexually appealing gay men by watching your straight male friends treat them as people.
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Yeah literally! it could be called "The Straight Man's guide for gays guys who want the extra edge when meeting new boyfriends"


No really though, College is the definition of " High School Girls gone bad"

Everytime an older female friend is flirting with me and getting touchy feely, they get pissed when I don't grab their ass back or flirt back.

THe reasoning: I have respect for them, should I have to justify myself everytime.
 
Gubernatorial Goosefish said:


Good advice, but don't you think that the same could be applied to gay men? You should pay careful attention next time your straight male friends strike up a friendly conversation with an attractive gay man. I'm sure you will learn how to handle hot, sexually appealing gay men by watching your straight male friends treat them as people.
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But I do treat gay men as people and that's why I run into trouble. They think that because I am being friendly that I want to have sex with them. Women tend not to jump to such conclusions to nearly the same extent, and even if they do, there isn't the same social conditioning telling them they have to score all the time. Guys - be they gay or straight tend to view women/other gays as potential mates and interpret things in these terms.

btw, there are no hot, sexually appealing gay men where I live, just waif queens and slob queens, lol.

When an attractive gay man comes out of the closet here, he usually takes one look at what's on the local market and sprints onto the first airplane to Sydney. If not, he usually thinks "if I am going to have sex with people I find completely and totally unattractive, I may as well go back to my girlfriend/wife".
:bawling:
 
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vinylgroover said:


When you pay money for a hooker, what do you expect. They figure you're not there for the 'get to know you'.
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:D
 
HansNZ said:
I think one of the number one problems so many straight guys have in their relationship to the opposite sex is their preoccupation with women as sex objects.

If you want to be a casanova then don't approach women from the first second you meet them as a potential mates. Treat them as people.

I am a gay man. 60% of my friends are straight men, another 35% are straight or lesbian women, and maybe 5% at most are gay. The reason for this is that I am a person to the first 95% of those people. For the gay guys, 90% of them can't seem to get beyond my pecs and arse, so it creates friction in our interactions.

So many of my straight male friends are as jealous as hell about my ability to get on with women. I'll be in a nightclub with a group of straight guys. They'll be in a group together and i'll be off with a group of maybe 5 or more of the sexiest women in the place crowded around me chatting away.

The straight guys tell me that i'd be a legend if I was straight. But they are wrong. The reason the women are crowded around me is because I treat them as people. They don't feel they have to be on guard with me all the time. Most of the time they don't even know I am gay. These women just feel a sense of comfort with me because I don't view them as sex objects, which otherwise would affect my whole demeanour towards them.

It is no coincidence that so many women complain that the best guys are either married or gay. Why don't you strike up an acquaintance with a gay guy (assuming you are secure enough in your own sexuality to do this). Observe the way he behaves towards women. If you learn from this then you may discover a positive transformation in your own relationships.

Just my 2 cents.
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Maybe you didn't read my OG post, I'm not the one treating them as sex objest, it's the other way around. I always look women in the eyes, I live in LA, nice bodies are everywhere. When I go out dancing, women approach me, because I'm dancing and having a great time.
I chose the ladies who I think are the 'good girls'. Case in point: my last date is a senior at an Ivy League school, athletic, but in no way a beauty queen. I asked her out because she had a nice smile and liked house music. Her friend tells me, "She is a good girl." So we go out 3 days in a row, day 1, we make out like demons, day two, she tells me she wants to slow down, day 3 she is on my couch asking to go to my room. :rolleyes:

Bah! For now I will enjoy the attention and wait till a real woman comes a long.

As far as a gay men and relationships with women, well, that's fine and dandy, but you will still have problems with gay men. Attraction doesn't follow rational thought.
 
furious said:
Maybe you didn't read my OG post, I'm not the one treating them as sex objest, it's the other way around.
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What I am saying is be mindful of your demeanour towards them. Some guys lack self-awareness and are oblivious to many of the signals they give out. I am not saying this applies to you, I am saying give some thought to the possibility.

As far as a gay men and relationships with women, well, that's fine and dandy, but you will still have problems with gay men. Attraction doesn't follow rational thought.
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Yes, that's my point. They approach me as a potential mate, so it contaminates everything.
 
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I don't know what you look like. But if you are exceptionally attractive women will want to have sex with you.

I realise that I can't write what I am about to write without sounding like an egomaniac - but here it goes...

Where I live the gay guys are not renowned for their looks. Because people consider me good looking and I have developed my body I am told I stand out when I am in a crowd of gay men, i.e. in our ONLY gay nightclub for instance. If I was in Sydney things would be different because there is a lot of eye candy. But here I get constantly hit on. It drives me CRAZY. I wish people would leave me alone.

If people perceive you as unusually good looking then you're going to get hit on A LOT! Another problem is that people won't like you either - even though you've done nothing to them. You'll arouse their insecurities so they'll project their hang-ups on to you. People will also resent you for not being attracted to them. If you are avarage looking you don't have these issues to face.

But if Mr Furious, you are a HUNK, this is just the price you'll have to pay. No one said it was easy being at the top.
 
Greek by Injection said:


Everytime an older female friend is flirting with me and getting touchy feely, they get pissed when I don't grab their ass back or flirt back.

THe reasoning: I have respect for them, should I have to justify myself everytime.
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Obviously they don't want to just be your "friend", hehe.
 
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