The Whores Vs Real Man Debate

[DepressiveJuice]

I was GENERALIZING about the fact that males have more sex drive, that doesn't mean some guys are not selective.

brace yourself here comes another shocker. women have a high sex drive like guys do

 

[b fold the truth]

I think the same about men as I do women. They should both treat themselves with respect.

I know women who have have intercourse with MANY men even at a young age...and it baffles me to think about WHY they would treat themselves in this way. I look at men the same way.

I could not imagine having a one night stand...ever. I do not see the point. I could not imagine having sex with someone that I could not see myelf marrying in the future.

Just my opinion though...

B True

 

[jubei]

I think I have held the "sexual advantage" over most of the women I have enountered so far. Keep your generalizations and stereotypes to yourself.

"cause if you don't know, now you know,nigga"-BIG

 

[ANABOLICK1]

brace yourself here comes another shocker. women have a high sex drive like guys do

Fact: Men masturbate 10 (maybe 9) times more often than women

Fact:women would never pay for sex

Fact: women hardly ever watch porn

Fact: 99 times(maybe 98) out of a 100 men make the first move


You were saying... ?

 

[ANABOLICK1]

"Society brainwashing women into not expressing their sexuality because it's degrading? What fucking rock are you living under? This is 2003 ! and you're not living in Afghanistan !"

Where have you been? Yes I know what year it is and things have improved for women sexually somewhat but is it near equality? No I didn't think so. If a woman is dressed provocatively, what do people call her? Yea a slut. If a woman vocally expresses how much she likes sex with men (oral, anal, vaginal etc.), she is called a whore. If a woman likes to flirt and dance sexily she is called a tramp. If she has one night stands or has sex with men who are not her boyfriend/husband she is looked down upon. How many more examples do I have to give so you'll see straight? You are the one who is naive if you think women's sexuality is accepted in society equally as a man's. It's just like when some people say we don't have racism anymore. Bunch of bullshit!

"I was GENERALIZING about the fact that males have more sex drive, that doesn't mean some guys are not selective"

Well so you can generalize that most males have more of a sex drive than most women but there are still exceptions to the rule right? Well how come you can't make exceptions when it comes to women? Just like men, not all women are exactly the same. This might surprise you but some women can actually separate sex with love. Some women only want sex with a man and nothing else. And this might really shock you but some of these women are confident, smart, beautiful, women that just are really horny and want some dick and no talk. So if a man doesn't go by what he's biologically programmed to do it's ok but if a woman goes against her biological programming she's looked down upon?! That makes absolutely no sense!

So the point is why are women looked down upon for having sex or being sexual? Is it because sex deep down inside is still looked upon as something dirty and bad if done by a woman not within the confines of a relationship? I think so.

Women shouldn't be so concerned about what people think of them dressing provocatively, sex talk, flirting..
Honestly. Who gives a shit?
I don't think any woman who does these things are considered sluts, whores, tramps.. and most MEN don't either.

It's my belief that women who do these things, do it to look good, to express themselves, be admired, get some attention (although some go as far as teasing- women love doing that), and possibly to attract a potential mate.

And your thoughts on the women who separate sex from love...VERY RARE ! Truthfully, they have great difficulty with that one !
It never lasts long if they do. That's why there are so many one night stands..


Why can't you just face the facts that the sexes are different?

 

[DepressiveJuice]

Fact: Men masturbate 10 (maybe 9) times more often than women

Fact:women would never pay for sex

Fact: women hardly ever watch porn

Fact: 99 times(maybe 98) out of a 100 men make the first move


You were saying... ?

the third one isnt really a fact. women dont need to do the second one and the fourth one really doesnt relate to a high sex drive. women's sex drive is as high as a males

 

[bananamilk]

Haha those are not facts. I masturbate a shit load and since I'm a woman I can do it over and over again without waiting in between. I've been doing it since I was seven too. Women don't need to pay for sex since we can get some dick anywhere. I love watching porn and have watched porn since I was a kid, and it's not the softcore shit you're thinking. Men make the first move because that's culturally learned even in this day and age.


"Women shouldn't be so concerned about what people think of them dressing provocatively, sex talk, flirting..
Honestly. Who gives a shit?"

Of course a boy would say that. But anyways most girls go through that name calling thing when they're still in junior high and high school where they're still at that impressionable age. It affects them psychologically.

"I don't think any woman who does these things are considered sluts, whores, tramps.. and most MEN don't either." That's nice that you don't think so but like you said in the first post you put in this thread you explained why men call women those names so you do know that they do and think that way. Stop contradicting yourself.

"And your thoughts on the women who separate sex from love...VERY RARE ! Truthfully, they have great difficulty with that one !
It never lasts long if they do. That's why there are so many one night stands.."

Haha it's equally VERY RARE for men to only have sex with women they love and care about. But that doesn't matter. What matters is why should someone be insulted and judged if they don't live by their "biological duties"?

Oh and another thing since you're all into this whole biological reasoning, how come if men are supposed to spread their seeds with as many women as they can their dicks have to wait awhile to start working again, but women don't have to or not nearly as long? Biologically wouldn't that mean that women are made to sleep around with as many men while the other men recover? If all women are supposed to do is get pregnant then shouldn't they sleep around all the time to do so?


"Why can't you just face the facts that the sexes are different?"
I never said they weren't different. I said you should accept the differences but treat both genders equally. I know it's in human nature to be scared of things or people who are different but try not to be.

 

[ANABOLICK1]

the third one isnt really a fact. women dont need to do the second one and the fourth one really doesnt relate to a high sex drive. women's sex drive is as high as a males

Fourth one doesn't relate ?! It's all about THE DRIVE !!

 

[ANABOLICK1]

Haha those are not facts. I masturbate a shit load and since I'm a woman I can do it over and over again without waiting in between. I've been doing it since I was seven too. Women don't need to pay for sex since we can get some dick anywhere. I love watching porn and have watched porn since I was a kid, and it's not the softcore shit you're thinking. Men make the first move because that's culturally learned even in this day and age.


"Women shouldn't be so concerned about what people think of them dressing provocatively, sex talk, flirting..
Honestly. Who gives a shit?"

Of course a boy would say that. But anyways most girls go through that name calling thing when they're still in junior high and high school where they're still at that impressionable age. It affects them psychologically.

"I don't think any woman who does these things are considered sluts, whores, tramps.. and most MEN don't either." That's nice that you don't think so but like you said in the first post you put in this thread you explained why men call women those names so you do know that they do and think that way. Stop contradicting yourself.

"And your thoughts on the women who separate sex from love...VERY RARE ! Truthfully, they have great difficulty with that one !
It never lasts long if they do. That's why there are so many one night stands.."

Haha it's equally VERY RARE for men to only have sex with women they love and care about. But that doesn't matter. What matters is why should someone be insulted and judged if they don't live by their "biological duties"?

Oh and another thing since you're all into this whole biological reasoning, how come if men are supposed to spread their seeds with as many women as they can their dicks have to wait awhile to start working again, but women don't have to or not nearly as long? Biologically wouldn't that mean that women are made to sleep around with as many men while the other men recover? If all women are supposed to do is get pregnant then shouldn't they sleep around all the time to do so?


"Why can't you just face the facts that the sexes are different?"
I never said they weren't different. I said you should accept the differences but treat both genders equally. I know it's in human nature to be scared of things or people who are different but try not to be.

You're unbelievable.

Time and again, twisting my words.

What I said in my first post is that women are seen as whores when they SLEEP AROUND !! NOT for dressing provocatively, flirting etc.. no contradiction here. But nice try.


Your arguments are sure getting weak, but I'll address them anyway.
Yes, it's VERY RARE for men to only have sex with women they love and care about. That just strengthens MY argument. But really, I don't need your help.

And your whole PHYSIOLOGICAL comparison is just plain stupid.
The sex drive primarily begins in the brain. In men,the brain sends signals to the genitals, which in turn produces testosterone, the primary SEX HORMONE, which effects behaviour, libido(sex drive). Men produce waaaaayyy more testosterone. In women, the main hormone is estrogen.

BM, this is biology 101

 

[bananamilk]

Just answer this one simple question since it seems like if I write too much you just get yourself confused. Ok so you said women are seen as whores because they are going against their "biological duty" but it's ok for a man because that's what Mother Nature intended for males to do right? B]So my question is how come the men that do not go by their biological programming are not judged negatively, but women that do not go by their biological programming are?[/B] We have already established the fact that both of these groups are in the minority but that's not the question. Just answer it, plain and simple. Males can go either way but women have to live by a strict code?!

My whole physiological explanation is just as stupid as your reasoning for why there's no double standard. I wrote it because I thought you might have been better able to relate to that and see how dumb your reasoning is. Haha I guess it worked.=)