The three main levels of sexual contact

[RottenWillow]

According to Annabelle Florez

1) making love- high on the emotionality, a bit lower on the hormones

2) having sex- much less emotion, likely to be friends though, much higher on the hormones

3)Fucking- I need you to fuck me hard . No emotion, may not even like the other person. Pure, unbridled lust.

 

[hamstershaver]

no emotion and pure umbridled lust in the same sentance is an oxymoron

 

[RottenWillow]

no emotion and pure umbridled lust in the same sentance is an oxymoron

Disagree. Unbridled lust would be the complete absence of inhibitions which is not the same thing as lack of affection.

BTW, people who are in love can fuck and/or have sex.

 

[strongsmartsexy]

Making love = pouring energy into each other
Having sex = Giving and taking energy
Fucking = Taking energy

 

[d3track]

i'll two orders of number 3 please, oh and a number 2





thank you

 

[The Wenis]

don't distinguish between 2 and 3. both fucking.

 

[UA_Iron]

My testosterone is too high for number 1.

I will gladly take numbers 2 and 3 though.

 

[hamstershaver]

Disagree. Unbridled lust would be the complete absence of inhibitions which is not the same thing as lack of affection.

BTW, people who are in love can fuck and/or have sex.

thats not what im saying, im saying that is is impossible to have NO EMOTION in pure umbridled lust

 

[RottenWillow]

don't distinguish between 2 and 3. both fucking.

That's really the reason I posted my own definitions cause I do make this distinction and I think most people dont.

Everything else being equal, would it mean the same thing to you in both instances if in one case a girl asked you to "have sex with her" and in another she asked you to "fuck her". Same tone of voice, same facial expressions, no other differences apart from the word choice. Is your interpretation of what she wants to do with you exactly the same in both instances or different?

 

[strongsmartsexy]

I think of a "fuck" as a wham-bam thank you ma'am kinda thing. Where having sex is more of a time duration thing, and making love is a different emotional plain.