So This is Why I havent been around...

[DiamondCutCows]

Well my wife of 4 years suddenly decided one day that she is too young (24) to be married and wants to start going clubbing and meeting new people.

We did get married very young, but Im mature enough for it, where she obviously is not.

Her reasoning is suspect if that. She told me she goes to lunch with a dude at work. I asked if he had her #, she said NO. Sure enough he calls five minutes later while she is in the shower and his # is already programmed in the phone.

Anyways, she has changed very much in the last few weeks and my marriage is over. I love nothing more than coming home to the same girl everynight and holding her while we sleep. Im just now trying to move on with my life...

FWIW, this has ruined my cycle. About a month ago I tore my deltoid and held weight (239) while I didnt lift, but in the last two weeks I have fallen down to 220ish. I cant eat or sleep, but I continue to hit the weights a few times a week.

She has been very mean to me also. She even admits that I did nothing to deserve this.

So why treat me like this???

Please dont move this MODS. C+C guys dont know me and wont give a crap...

 

[RADAR]

That sucks!
I have been wondering where you were!


RADAR

 

[Advisor_x]

Hold on bro....nothing more I can say.........

 

[~Lexy~]

Ohhh, That Is Real Sad. It Is The Bordom In The Relationship That Made Her Do It And She Seeks Adventure And Found It With Someone Else. Very Tough Situation. Try Working It Out Or Else Take A Break From Your Wife For A Little While, Give Her Time To Think. She Is Having Doubts About The Marriage B/c She Is Getting Attention From Others And Wonders If The Grass Is Greener On The Other Side, Which It Isn't Always.

 

[DIVISION]

Well my wife of 4 years suddenly decided one day that she is too young (24) to be married and wants to start going clubbing and meeting new people.

We did get married very young, but Im mature enough for it, where she obviously is not.

Her reasoning is suspect if that. She told me she goes to lunch with a dude at work. I asked if he had her #, she said NO. Sure enough he calls five minutes later while she is in the shower and his # is already programmed in the phone.

Anyways, she has changed very much in the last few weeks and my marriage is over. I love nothing more than coming home to the same girl everynight and holding her while we sleep. Im just now trying to move on with my life...

FWIW, this has ruined my cycle. About a month ago I tore my deltoid and held weight (239) while I didnt lift, but in the last two weeks I have fallen down to 220ish. I cant eat or sleep, but I continue to hit the weights a few times a week.

She has been very mean to me also. She even admits that I did nothing to deserve this.

So why treat me like this???

Please dont move this MODS. C+C guys dont know me and wont give a crap...

Here's my take on this, CowCutter.....


Anytime a woman cheats it's because she not being fullfilled in some way in her relationship. In this case, she feels that this guy at her work can give her something that you are not giving her. Her age is a big reason why she has decided to do this, women in their 20's aren't that mature relationship-wise and perhaps she feels that she is too young to settle down. That doesn't mean she didn't love you and have the best intentions when you first met. Things change, people change; her feelings for you have changed.

The reason she is being "mean" as you put it is because she feels some guilt because she's cheated and she doesn't like it, therefore her way of acting out is to be "mean" and treat you like shit. A woman in a relationship is like a soldier in war, it's kill or be killed and she has decided to kill you. There's nothing more for you to do and you don't owe her anything as she is the one who ended the relationship. In the future make sure any woman you commit to has some degree of maturity, or you may fall victim to the same fate.

One last thing: In relationships, women tend to be very self-protective, they think of their own emotions first and they will hurt you to avoid being hurt. Keep that in mind and you will be trouble free.



Sorry if this all seems blunt, but it's the only way I can be. I hope you understand.





DIV

 

[DiamondCutCows]

Here's my take on this, CowCutter.....


Anytime a woman cheats it's because she not being fullfilled in some way in her relationship. In this case, she feels that this guy at her work can give her something that you are not giving her. Her age is a big reason why she has decided to do this, women in their 20's aren't that mature relationship-wise and perhaps she feels that she is too young to settle down. That doesn't mean she didn't love you and have the best intentions when you first met. Things change, people change; her feelings for you have changed.

The reason she is being "mean" as you put it is because she feels some guilt because she's cheated and she doesn't like it, therefore her way of acting out is to be "mean" and treat you like shit. A woman in a relationship is like a soldier in war, it's kill or be killed and she has decided to kill you. There's nothing more for you to do and you don't owe her anything as she is the one who ended the relationship. In the future make sure any woman you commit to has some degree of maturity, or you may fall victim to the same fate.

One last thing: In relationships, women tend to be very self-protective, they think of their own emotions first and they will hurt you to avoid being hurt. Keep that in mind and you will be trouble free.



Sorry if this all seems blunt, but it's the only way I can be. I hope you understand.





DIV

Div, if you werent blunt, I'd be dissappointed. Its just strange to me. I basically fight girls off with a stick when I go out, so I feel Im attractive and I do treat her like a queen...You're right that I should be "trouble-free"

I just really love being married (If that makes any sense) and I really hate coming home to an empty apt. I cant explain it.

I feel like I should find a better girl ASAP so I dont have these lonely, depressing feelings, but I think I should be alone to straighten out my head/heart...

 

[~Lexy~]

Here's my take on this, CowCutter.....


Anytime a woman cheats it's because she not being fullfilled in some way in her relationship. In this case, she feels that this guy at her work can give her something that you are not giving her. Her age is a big reason why she has decided to do this, women in their 20's aren't that mature relationship-wise and perhaps she feels that she is too young to settle down. That doesn't mean she didn't love you and have the best intentions when you first met. Things change, people change; her feelings for you have changed.

The reason she is being "mean" as you put it is because she feels some guilt because she's cheated and she doesn't like it, therefore her way of acting out is to be "mean" and treat you like shit. A woman in a relationship is like a soldier in war, it's kill or be killed and she has decided to kill you. There's nothing more for you to do and you don't owe her anything as she is the one who ended the relationship. In the future make sure any woman you commit to has some degree of maturity, or you may fall victim to the same fate.

One last thing: In relationships, women tend to be very self-protective, they think of their own emotions first and they will hurt you to avoid being hurt. Keep that in mind and you will be trouble free.



Sorry if this all seems blunt, but it's the only way I can be. I hope you understand.





DIV

I agree with many points which you have raised in your post but I would not rule out a reconciliation between him and his wife. He shouldn't give up on the relationship so easily. In his situation I would go and talk to the guy who is making a move on his wife. Alert him to back off. There is a huge possibility that he doesn't know she is married.

 

[growthspurt]

I was wondering where you been hiding out Bro! Fucking women. I was married and had a kid young with my High school sweet-heart and I always thought I was more mature than her(she liked to pull alot of shit like your woman). We ended up getting divorced for more than a year but recently got back together. She finnally got her shit together and her priorities straight.
If it is meant to be, your girl will do the same. If not, Fuck Her! Keep your head up and keep on training! Watch you gear situation too(just in cse she is a little shit). Can't be too careful in situations like divorce or break-ups.
Feel free to drop me a pm if you ever need to B.S., I've been there Bro!

 

[DIVISION]

Div, if you werent blunt, I'd be dissappointed. Its just strange to me. I basically fight girls off with a stick when I go out, so I feel Im attractive and I do treat her like a queen...You're right that I should be "trouble-free"

I just really love being married (If that makes any sense) and I really hate coming home to an empty apt. I cant explain it.

I feel like I should find a better girl ASAP so I dont have these lonely, depressing feelings, but I think I should be alone to straighten out my head/heart...

Listen, bro.

Sounds to me like you were too nice and accommodating to your wife and she took it for granted. Women who are immature don't appreciate a nice guy and the way he treats her, thus they cheat. That goes along with the true saying that women love guys who treat them like shit. Immature women need the drama in order to validate themselves in a relationship.

I've seen this before in many relationships. It's up to you obviously whether you want to salvage your marriage, but for your own sense of pride I would drop the bitch like she's hot and enjoy being single again. I know you seem like the type of guy who feels somewhat incomplete without a woman, but trust me there are plenty of women who WILL appreciate the love and companionship you have to give.

Let her deal with the choice she's made and move on with your life. Things will never be the same, and there's no turning back. Trust me on that, man.

When you give a woman your heart and she tramples on it, there is no coming back from that type of betrayal.

I wish you the best and if you want to talk or have questions, by all means PM me.






DIV

 

[rodneyabs]

1. she's a lying whore. This affair has been going on behind your back for quite some time now, and it is NOT new.

2. you can do better

3. go to NoMarriage dot com. American women are lying, cheating, scandilous whores. They get rewarded for cheating (divorce settlement) and their role models are paris hilton and "desperate housewives". No wonder divorce is at record highs, and the women here suck.