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My wife and I don't do it as often as I would like. When we do it though, I have been having difficulty and wonder if I should go to a doctor. The problem I have is fitting my penis in my wife. I'm a bit above the average and I think she is uncommonly small. Insertion is the most difficult part of sex for me. I'm not as straight as an arrow which makes it even harder. I know I am hurting her, so when she says no to sex, I accept it (ever so difficultly). Because of the pain I have caused her in the past with trying to get it in (and the accident with her cervix on one attempt) I know she is oppossed to sex. It takes alot of good behavior on my part to get the green light. The default answer is "no" to sex and it bothers me. I want to loosen her up with a little manual stimulation and she lets me do that, but then she won't let me get any pleasure after and I am sure I would fit better (she's juicy). I want to take it to the next phase and see if I will fit in more easily without causing pain. She is also grossed out by my jizz and any lubrication on the penis itself.. says it feels all gooey and disgusting. Lubricated condoms are ok, but now I have a problem. As soon as I put a condom on, my soldier goes to sleep as I am trying to force it in.. I can't keep him up and he gets soft. This is apparantly painful to my wife. Without a condom this does not happen at all. I never had condom problems until my first few times of never using one. Now my dick outright opposses condoms.. won't function sexually with one. I've tried several brands/types of condoms. Ultra-sensitive my ass!
I think I scarred my wife for life. My penis is either big and angry (and therefore painful to my wife) or pissed off that I put a condom on it, so it won't maintain regimen. Would viagra fix me up, so I could use a condom at least? I am worried because we want to have children someday and I want to conceive them the traditional way. It's not always a good thing to have a big dick. I think if I had a smaller one, I would get sex more often. Help!
I think I scarred my wife for life. My penis is either big and angry (and therefore painful to my wife) or pissed off that I put a condom on it, so it won't maintain regimen. Would viagra fix me up, so I could use a condom at least? I am worried because we want to have children someday and I want to conceive them the traditional way. It's not always a good thing to have a big dick. I think if I had a smaller one, I would get sex more often. Help!
