VDL - I decided more than a year ago that I wanted to do the Gay Games, so I set about trying to find out EVERYTHING I could about contests - I spent hours on the internet, read anything I could get my hands on, engaged a trainer back home (we worked via e-mail for a while but it just didn't work, although she got me on the right track, anyway), and I read read read, trained trained trained.
Then I realised I didn't want to go in front of thousands of people if it was the first time, so decided to do this local show for practice. I watched 3 shows in the same venue I will be in in May over the course of last year, visited some of the affiliated gyms, joined one of them (you have to be a member of a JFBB-affiliated gym to enter the contests), and through my gym owner am getting to know some of the people in the sport here.
I think going to watch the comps gave me the best idea of what I need to know. It makes a huge difference when you actually see people running through the poses, the individual routines, etc. Just how the whole thing works.
I will be visiting the chairman of the JFBB to ask him about various rules etc. (he coaches at one of the core gyms - it's a small world here) and if there's anything special I need to know about what EXACTLY will happen on the day, and will be looking up one of the competitors who knows someone I know to get more "female" info - posing, colour, make-up, hair. One of the guys at my gym has competed, and is friendly (he said he'll come watch and cheer me on
), and he kicks my butt sometimes when training, and helps me when I'm posing during sets.
Still scouring the internet, and I found Elite - Elite has been a rock-solid base of support for me - I've learnt an amazing amount here in a short time, "met" fantastic people - this is a great forum - particularly for those up us who are relatively isolated for whatever reason.
I also have watched some videos for posing ideas - I'm going to try and order "Perfect Posing" - don't know if it's any good ... but I have a lot to learn, so ...
Anyway, just thought I'd add another few cents on your topic here.
I have been completely and unwaveringly focussed on this for more than a year - once you've made the decision it just means wading in, girl.
Go for it!