Question Re: Female Libido

[dr_skier]

Ok ladies, plain and simple i think the b/c pill prevents my girlfriend from getting as horny as frequently as i know she can. I think it really lowers how often her sex drive is kickin in good. Now I would like to hear from girls (or guys) about the different b/c and their effects in this dept. She is on Tr-Cyclin. Also is there any female cialis/viagra type stuff i can give her to keep her sex drive in gear? FYI i'm not some dirtball who wants his gf to be his sex slave but to be honest 3-4 times a week sucks my nut (or not!) and i'd just like to have her more turned on and eager to get it on.

***it terms of our relationship otherwise, both quite in love, great relationship, she's a bit stressed at work, im a bit stressed at school, it happens, but everything is good, no ex-bf issues of anykind, no underlying reason for a low libido.

Thanks

 

[Gymgurl]

She could chaange her pill...some are worse then others....but the b/c pill will decrease the sex drive.........There are some creams that you can buy for female arousal that work pretty well...I have heard that cialis workd for women

 

[nycgirl]

I use to take L-Arginine when I was on the patch (the worse thing in the fucking world, but I digress). I loved it. Its an amino you can get from any vitamin store. It works for men & women.

I would take that before I venture to drugs if I still had that problem (I'm off BCP for good; not fucking with that anymore).

 

[jenscats5]

I find for myself, being female, that a lot of *head stuff* can get in the way of my libido .....stress, worrying (and a lot of women are worryers!!), unresolved baggage, BCP, etc.....

I never really liked how BCP made me feel - so I no longer take it. There are a lot of diff. brands - maybe a talk with her GYN could help her find one that would work better for her.

Also - you say she's stressed. Try listening to her (ie vent) without trying to fix things . Guys have a tendency to want to fix whatever their woman is venting about, when all she really wants is you to hear her out. Now, I'm not saying you do this, since I don't know you, but alot of times men do that unconsciously.

 

[Frisky]

Has she looked in to an IUD? Copper T is great!

I always hated BCP, tried a few time and went thru so many different ones it was insane. Now I have the Copper T and there is no sides, don't have to worry about taking anything daily.. and My sex drive is insane.

 

[*MissFit*]

i dont find the birth control pill really does anything to my sex drive..

 

[Raina]

BC pills almost always kill my drive. It sucks. She can try other pills is she's set on sticking with hormonal bc.