Question on approaching hot girls

[alex2678]

I just got big over the last year and a half and I'm having some problems asking out good looking girls. When I was skinny most attractive women wouldn't even give me the time of day, now that I'm big/tan, I get eye contact and smiles from good looking girls, but I still feel like "a deer in the headlights" when I make an approach. It's like I'm still acting like the samel skinny kid I was last year!
For example, there's this secretary that workings in my college that I see every week. (She's on the same floor as my class) We've been smiling and saying hi for the last few weeks now and I'd really like to ask her out. I've gone out with a lot of "average girls" before when I was skinny, but now that I'm able to get better looking females I'm stuck. (The big arms and chest aren't gonna get me anywhere without good game!)
It feels kinda awkward asking out a girl who works at my school, if she said she has a boyfriend I would still have to walk by her everyweek until the end of the semester. Would it be better to give her a call in her office and ask if she's free or is asking in person better?(As long as I don't freeze up! Uh, uh, hey, uh uh....) I think this could be a good Dr. Phil show in itself. Bodybuilders who still act like they're skinny"! Anyways thanks for any advice on this embarassing little situation I'm in. Post a relply if you could. Not sure who reads my email!

 

[concordsize]

When a girl thinks you look hot that is deff a plus but when you open your mouth and you have nothing then you are gonna blow it. You need to find out something that youall have incomon. If i am at a bar and see a girl that I know who may work out I will just go up to her and introduce myself and buy her a drink, usually they will want to feel my arm or chest and if the girl is not a slut or something like that you can ask her if she would like to train with you some time. Most hot fit girl work out lol... And if you are a stud with some muscle that is your way in.

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