this is where many men get it wrong; they set themselves these targets and think that if a woman has reached an O, then they have done their job. For women more than men the whole sensory experience can be as imortant if not more than the amount of orgasms achieved (if amount of orgasms was the be all and end all, then women would just stick to masturbation) it makes me cringe how many men there will be out there with jaw ache due to believing they have to lick and lick till they get the woman off, all the while the woman is lay there feeling like a piece of meat on a butchers counter.................men need to learn to use instinct and relax and stop worrying about the numbers game, after you learn this then your partners will enjoy it a whole lot more and will probably have more O's as a side effect