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Question for all you swingers out there
- Thread starter Benzi
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i'm not a swinger, but know two. almost by definition, swinging is a very relaxed attitude toward the whole scene by both partners. so it's basically impossible for someone to say that they're a swinger unless both them and their partner is cool with it. i'm sure that there have been problems in the past with someone or another. this is the just the feedback i get.
solidspine
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This answer is not going to make any sense, but anyway I will explain,
I am divorced, but when I was married I would have enjoyed joining a swinger group or being in that scene, it turned me on, especially to see my wife dressed ultra sexy in that environment, and what ever happens happens,
On the other hand I can’t see how two people can remain committed to each other when they are having sex with multiple partners every week. I would assume natural jealousy would start a split that could not be repaired.
I am divorced, but when I was married I would have enjoyed joining a swinger group or being in that scene, it turned me on, especially to see my wife dressed ultra sexy in that environment, and what ever happens happens,
On the other hand I can’t see how two people can remain committed to each other when they are having sex with multiple partners every week. I would assume natural jealousy would start a split that could not be repaired.
I have seen couples that let swinging tear their relationship apart,,,,, but it sucked to begin with. They should have NEVER started doing it. I have seen couples with very strong relationships that only got better when they were swinging. You have to be VERY comfortable with your relationship AND COMFORTABLE with YOURSELF. Self doubt or insecurity and swinging DO NOT MIX.
smokinghawk
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I am, in the soft-swing category.
And no, it has not messed it up. But be careful, because a lot of couples do indeed get traumatized by it when it's done improperly. If you can't handle jealousy, keep away.
For me, it's an amazing experience.
And no, it has not messed it up. But be careful, because a lot of couples do indeed get traumatized by it when it's done improperly. If you can't handle jealousy, keep away.
For me, it's an amazing experience.
luv2workout
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My best friend and her husband started swinging after 8 years of marriage....when they started swingin the marriage was OVER already - which is why they started to begin with - It only took a few different couples till she fell in love w/the guy and they left their spouses for each other
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