Prostatitis Penis

[Anonymous803]

I have chosen to post this as anonymous.

I am 22 years old. My boyfriend is 35 years old. We have been together for 4 1/2 years. I am still a virgin. We do not have sex at all. We have fooled around a couple of times. I gave him a blow job a couple of times, he fingered me a couple of times. But thats it. We do not make out at all. We have gone on vacation a few times and stayed in a hotel and all he wants to do is sleep. I am beginning to get frustrated with him. I feel that I am wasting my life. I am so young and want to have a good time.

I know that it is not me that does not turn him on. I have a lot of guys wanting to go out with me. I have a pretty nice shape-big tits nice smile and face. He does not get into sex at all. He was in jail for 6 weeks and when he got out it was the only time in 4 years that he seemed horny. We went to atlantic city in june and all he did was sleep. I got so mad I left him in the room at night and went to go gamble for 6 hours.

He claims all this is from a disease called prostatitis. It is a form of infection that is in the prostate that causes back pain, and burning pain in the penis. He claims that his penis feels numb and he does not get that horny feeling anymore. He went to the doctor to get medication, also viagra but he does not take it consistently. Does anyone know if this can be cured or can the urologist give him testosterone shots to make him get horney?

I am about fed up with this already. Whoever said that sex is not important in a relationship is crazy. I am amazed that I am 22 and I am with him for so long and I have not cheated.

I feel very upset and I dont know how much longer I can take this. I keep thinking out of all the guys in the world I had to meet him.

Thank you for letting me post this. If you have any advice or suggestions please let me know. Thanks

 

[Digimortal]

It's pretty sad that is going on with him, but still, he should still show affection and stop acting like you don't exist. It sounds like he has no interest in you at all. I don't think this guy knows the first thing about how to treat a woman. If you do decide to break it off with him, do it for the right reason, which is because he doesn't treat you right. There are many other forms of sex that can pleasure a woman rather than just sex.IMO Yall don't even make out? That's insane.

 

[DJ_UFO]

girl!..that's fucked up!!...just go away!!...sex is the most important thing on a relationship....at least for me..i can't resist without sex more that 3 days...just left away and get wild!...maybe he's bi...that dude is a wacko

 

[the crypt]

definitely not normal. even good kissing chemistry is huge in a relationship. i wish there were more girls like you out there who don't cheat, ESPECIALLY under these circumstances. consider yourself a saint. my advice: he doesn't appreciate you, otherwise he would try to please you in other ways. dump the poor bastard and go get yourself railed! you are so young and you are not going to get younger from here on, TRUST ME... enjoy YOUR life!

good luck

 

[Riker29]

This post would be better on the Chat Board or the Elite Between The Sheets board. You wil get better help there.

 

[Syntax325]

Anonymous803,

I have to say that you're a very powerful woman for being faithful under the circumstances. I give you much credit. My only (optional) advice to you is seeking professional help again for his disease, and I suggest searching for counseling from a prominent psychologist in your area. I’d rather not make opinions on him or suggest that you remove yourself from a relationship that could very well work out for you. 4.5 years is an investment. Considering he has a condition that can psychologically affect himself, his health insurance should help alleviate some of the costs. If he does not have health insurance or a well-rounded health insurance policy, I’d look into different counseling options via non-profit groups in your area. It’s not going to be as topnotch as a professional psychologist with a PhD, but he’d be able to afford it.

If your significant other treats you correctly (i.e: how a platonic friend should treat another platonic friend), my statements above are options to you. I really wish you the best of luck.

 

[GrowthHor]

Dear Anonymous803,

I had prostatitis in my early/mid 20's and with medication it can be greatly reduced or eliminated all together. It didn't deter my sex drive though or my ability to treat someone I care about with love and respect.

If you're that good looking and faithful to that extent why don't you PM me and we'll talk.