When I look at people, the first thing I notice is there smile. Then there eyes. I am the arms and shoulders person, sometimes its just so nice to have strong arms wrapped around me and solid shoulders to lean on.
I notice the way a man dresses and the way he carries himself...but if I HAD to pick a part...arms and chest. I do not think men need 6 packs...although they do look good, I think a little chub around the waist is SOOOO cute on a guy. But he has to have arms and a chest though or he looks like a little boy.