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ok, need help bagging this gal at the gym

Crying Brian

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I am looking for a relationship. There is this girl at the gym that i have noticed for a while, she doesen't seem to talk to anybody i have noticed. A couple weeks ago i approached her and made small talk and we exchanged names and handshakes. THen i run into her again last week and i jumped onto the treadmill next to her. She said hi brian, so that was good that she remembered my name. We talked for a bout 10 minutes about where she's from and our backgrounds, then i said i had to go and left. So now i am contemplating what to do. I want to ask her out but i am afraid i would scare her off she seems shy. So i figured i would ask her to help me workout cause i need more cardio, and doing it with her makes the time more enjoyable. I think i can do that once or twice to make her more comfortable with me thaen ask her out. What you guys think?
 
Just ask for her number. Say "Hey, give me your number and I'll call you sometime". Has never failed me.
 
If she's not single (and you want a relationship, as you said) leave her alone. If she deny's you that would suck, if she cheats on her boyfriend to hook-up with you then she'll do the same later to you and that too would suck.
 
seriously, just ask her to go to dinner or something...the worst that could happen is she would say no. i know it is alot easier said than done, but once you ask you will feel 100% better.
 
Well i talked to her mon.night. We were talking about work and i asked her if she found time for a bf. She said she dates but she didn't have a bf, then she asked me if i had a gf. I then told her that i was sure she had plenty of options, and she just laughed and asked me the same thing. We made small talk for a while and then i asked for her # and she gave it to me. She said she liked meeting new people, i don't know if was saying that cause she gives her # out to everybody or she was trying to ease the tension.

Now i have her # now what do i do?lol. She seems so shy and everything i don't want to fuck anything up because i think she's a great girl. I want more than just a quick lay from this girl.
 
well bro, if you don't want to fuck anything up you'd better call her. She asked if you had a GF? That seals the deal bro. Now she gave you her number and you'd better call her or she's going to wonder why you haven't then she's going to think you're a player (which you're not otherwise you wouldn't be asking these "what should I do" questions on EF) that doesn't have time to call her. Call her, tell her you've been dying to ask her out since the moment you saw her and she'll melt bro, trust me. These shy girls (really all girls) go for this kind of shit. They've heard all the lines so sometimes the uncool, honest approach turns out to be the "coolest" approach afterall. Then, and this is the most important, PIITB.
 
You're thinking about this too much - she's yours. Play it cool, don't make any sudden movements to scare her away, like saying "I love you" on your first date, and you should be fine.
 
i agree with calling her, but not to much. she obviously is interested in you, so call her whenever you feel you should and go from there.
 
well i saw her at the gym tonight. So i went up to her and asked her out for friday. She said she was going back to her hometown for christmas. So i was like for two weeks? She said she wouldn't be back to jan. I was like what the fuck. So anyways i feel like i struck out, but i will ask her back out when she gets back, or should i call her sometime while she is out of town?
 
You did not strike out. Not even close. So she's going home for a couple of weeks--big deal. She's not going to suddenly lose interest. She'll probably even miss you while she's gone. Just be persistent and ask her out again when she gets back.
 
Crying Brian said:
well i saw her at the gym tonight. So i went up to her and asked her out for friday. She said she was going back to her hometown for christmas. So i was like for two weeks? She said she wouldn't be back to jan. I was like what the fuck. So anyways i feel like i struck out, but i will ask her back out when she gets back, or should i call her sometime while she is out of town?

You struck out because the girl has a life of her own? Come on, bro - she gave you her #, she's obviously interested. So just play it cool and you're money.
 
You either haven't had a girlfriend in a long time or you're really infatuated with her. Whichever is the case just relax and get her when she comes back. Think of every girl you meet as a learning experience till you meet the right one.
 
thanks guys. I am just used to dating slutty girls because i was just wanting sex. This is a great girl that i want to start a relationship with, yeah oh well. There are still plenty like her, i will see if she's still interested when she gets back, or oh well, her loss!
 
its been over 2months and he hasn't kept EF posted on it..maybe the personal that originally started this thread got hit with dumbell up beside the head lol
 
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