Need help from the ladies on this about 3sum

[birdstang80]

I asked my girlfriend to doa 3sum with me earlier this year and she got mad. How shold I aproah her about it. I think she will but I dont no how to ask her.

 

[Frackal]

In my eyes, you are everything that she is looking for but she has such low self-esteem that she beleives that you are too good for her and that you will eventually dump her and leave her alone...so she avoids you altogether. Your best bet is to let this volcano sleep... try to contact her again after a few months and if she is receptive then go for it. Right now, with the new job and the new school, she does not have time to give you the attention you need and deserve.

 

[rnch]

get her a lil' drunk first then pop the question.

 

[birdstang80]

get her a lil' drunk first then pop the question.

LOL already tried it and shes on to it. I was just wandering if any of the ladies new a good way to approach her wher she might at leasy give it some thought.

 

[Alkybanshee]

I think either they're into it or they're not. My ex would have slapped me if I brought up a threesome one more time for the fact that she was insecure (she always thought I was looking at someone or wanting to hook up with someone) and she would act like thats gross. Okay, so she doesn't like the thought of being with another chick, I understand because I would never think of being with a guy. Fine. She doesn't have it. My current GF (you read about it in another thread; 3 some question) IS a little curious, not all out bi, but she thinks women are sexy and would dabble if the situation arouse. She has kissed other chicks and she likes it when I do, she said it turns her on to see someone want what she has.

So see my point is..... Either they have it or they don't....

If you care about her, stop bringing it up, it WILL cause problems (it did with my ex)

 

[anfstud]

i don't get it. you said you think she is up for it but obviously she isn't if she keeps saying no. if she was she would have said yes when you asked her. just tell her you'll break up with her if she doesn't do it or "if you really loved me you would do it". lol.

 

[birdstang80]

What I mean is that i think she will eventully give in and do it. She just laughwhen i talk about it with her and she never gets mad. But when it comes to it she will not do it. I just want to know if there is a suttle way I can put it to her. What would a ladt want to here. I wony break up with her cause she is a good girl. If she wony do it then fine but I want to try again.

 

[THeMaCHinE]

A 3some is something *all* parties involved have to be into; if you're trying to sell her on the concept or nag her into doing it, it is a losing situation.