ladies

[georgie24]

what do guys do to make you fall with them? explain some of the charactoristics men have that absolutley make you melt

 

[georgie24]

what kinda chat would be the best to suit the position ..eg romance, the future, ect..

 

[georgie24]

like for example should i tell her things about my personal life like my mom has depression or my father is an alchoholic to kinda break the ice? or do you prefer light chit chat? im not eager to tell my whole life story but i dont wanna act like i have something to hide

sorry i didnt word it better

 

[georgie24]

yea first date or second, i just cant come up with ANY topics of discussion that will get me to my destination

 

[georgie24]

Don’t worry about talking about yourself. That is a mistake. Tell her that you want to spend the time with her to get to know her better. Ask her what she likes to do in her free time, ask her what her ambitions are, etc. You can get much broader than that, but those are just examples.

IMO, most men always want to talk about themselves, however, that is a big turn off for most of them. I suggest you flat out tell her thank you for hooking up on the date, because you have always found her to be a smart beautiful woman and you wanted the opportunity to learn more about her.

thanks kronk,

i dont really have an angle or a aproach this made it alot clearer.
i was realy fat and depressed my whole teen life and as you can tell i have no kinda skills cause i never dated or hooked up i missed out on alot of stuff. but now im alot leaner and really curious about the oppisite sex and other things in life.

if anyone has anymore to add ill be more than happy to read

 

[Hannibal]

if anyone has anymore to add ill be more than happy to read

The eyes are the most important thing...IMO. If I were to add anything to the great advice you have already been given it would be two things. One...when you look at her...really look at her. Don't stare off at other things...if you are at a bar with a TV resist the urge...focus on her to show her you are interested. And two...when she talks LISTEN to her...don't just wait for your turn to talk. You would be amazed at how few men really listen when a woman talks, or anyone talks for that matter. And the sad thing is that most women are conditioned not to be heard...so if you do listen, and pay attention to what is important to her...she will be impressed.

Sad to think..that something you should do would impress her...but that is what women have come to expect.

 

[b fold the truth]

Wish I could help...but I am horrible with women.

B True

 

[sermon_of_mockery]

I have this problem with my eyes(and this drives my girl friend crazy)!Everytime I talk with a girl I unintentionally look at their lips.I like to see,and hear what they are saying,but most people take this flirtatiouslly.I think I scare alot of potentials this way.

 

[Night Fly]

Wish I could help...but I am horrible with women.

B True

Aww...I would hope that you weren't THAT horrible with them.

 

[Norman Bates]

How about talking about her?
Girls like talking about themselves and you get a reputation as a good listener.