Ive never had sex with a Virgin.

[KINGKONG69]

I first had sex at 13, and my girlfriend wasnt a virgin. then i had no sex till i was 19, i had always thought i would find some sweet inocent girl, who was a virgin, and then marry her. well at 19 i got engaged, im now 21, and still with that girl, she wasnt a virgin when i met her, she has had sex with 3 different guys. i feel like i really missed out, i always wanted to be a girls first. to be the first man to pull her panties off, and steal that cherrrrry. anyone else feel this way.

 

[frorider6]

it's not that great. I've been with one. My second. She was so nervous and tight that I strained a back muscle the first time we did it.

 

[RealDeal]

it's not that great. I've been with one. My second. She was so nervous and tight that I strained a back muscle the first time we did it.

LOL! Pulled a muscle...must've been forcin' that thing.

I've never had one either...damn women always gettin' around! j/k My 1st had been with one other guy, that's as close as I've gotten. Part of me feels like I'm missing out on something, but the other part considers the reports of most girls' 1sts being unpleasant and sometimes downright painful. Unless you're gonna be with them for a while longer to when they really start liking it, I wouldn't wanna be the guy they remember as their "first and hurt". I'd see the attraction of being with a virgin for a while afterward and showing her all the possibilities.

Oh well, I'm satisfied with what I've got now...though I wanna hunt down and kill every mofo she's been with before. Oops, bit of rage slipped out there.

 

[hardbody_jr]

Sorry dude, keep lookin

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[bb4life]

I had well kind of had one could not get it in. I tried and tried even ate her out but there was no getting in. Sucked bad, needless to say I did not go out with her again. LOL WHAT I was like 19 or 20.

peace

db

 

[KINGKONG69]

god i would do anything to fuck a virgin

 

[jja]

I have to say that I HATE that attitude. I've always thought that guys who want their wives to be virgins are a) very religious, in which they'd better be virgins as well, or b) very insecure in their own sexual prowess and like the idea of an innocent gal who doens't have anything to compare them with. Maybe you don't fit into those categories, but then what is it about an innocent girl that intrigues you so much?


Its sooooo ridiculous for men to think they'll find some "sweet innocent girl" to marry, when they're out screwing around themselves....

 

[Test boy]

I agree with jja. There is a double standard with feminine sexuality that I find annoying and I'm a guy. Guess I have a strong sense of fairness. Why is it that guys are often respected for being whores and women who like to sleep around are denigrated (looked down upon)? Women are supposed to be virgins but guys are supposed to b experienced. I would worry about a female virgin over a certain age. Unless she masturbates about every day. My big concerns are: Does she have a history of cheating on boyfriends? Does she secretly prefer vagina over dick? Is she capable of having an orgasm when not alone? Does she give good head and enjoy it? Does she like to have sex several times a day when time affords it? Screw the virginity...you are living in the stone age if you expect a virgin over the age of 21. My 02.

 

[sfbebe]

There are a few floating around still....the problem is guys think of virgins as a conquest...throw all your assumptions about virgins out the door...if a girl chooses to wait it's for the right reasons not b/c she "can't get laid" or "is gay", at least in most cases...it's sad that it's actually more common for a woman to be "promiscuous" than abstinent

 

[bigpimp]

i guess i got lucky.....i met a 21 year old virgin......fits me like a warm glove.....and i am still with her
the trick is to go to church...thats where they are all at...
just find and turn'em into sex crazed nympos.....i have done it many times

 

[big4life]

Its sooooo ridiculous for men to think they'll find some "sweet innocent girl" to marry, when they're out screwing around themselves....

Good point.

I'm not worried about a woman's past. I just want to get to know her for who she is now, not what happened in the past.

Keep looking if that is your goal, but you could end up missing out on a great lady if your not careful.

 

[jja]

...it's sad that it's actually more common for a woman to be "promiscuous" than abstinent

Why? I think its an amazing thing that women are starting to have/want sex as much as men. Sex is wonderful, and why shouldn't we all enjoy it?

Do you think its sad that more men are promiscuous than abstinent?

 

[jja]

and steal that cherrrrry.

why any virgin would give it up so someone who wants to steal something from her is beyond me...... Man that's an archaic attitude!

When are you marrying your gf?

 

[Frackal]

Oh well, I'm satisfied with what I've got now...though I wanna hunt down and kill every mofo she's been with before. Oops, bit of rage slipped out there.

Word...

 

[TheSalami]

i heard kartchick screwed a lot of guys back in the day.

 

[Mandinka]

Virgins

I've been with two , and unless you're on the small side it can be very very painful for the girl , I don't know how it is in America , but I know a few girls (non-virgins) who also like to be with virgin guys so I don't think it's so confined to guys. In fact I used to see a girl who boasted (amogst female friends when drunk) of how many virgin guys she'd been with.
I don't like it , to be honest , I sometimes wish I was a virgin , it's something very special to give to the person you wanna spend the rest of your life with. Sure sex is great , but if modern society seperates completely sex from love then that's where it's pretty fucking lame.

 

[KINGKONG69]

Re: Re: Ive never had sex with a Virgin.

why any virgin would give it up so someone who wants to steal something from her is beyond me...... Man that's an archaic attitude!

When are you marrying your gf?

im sorry, that wasnt what i meant exactly, i had a hell of a buzz last nihgt. my thing is a virgin is fresh, like a new car, 0 miles, she has never had a man stick his penis in her, and blow a load .
i just dont like the idea of there being other guys out there, who can say they have fucked my women. i love sex so much, but when i look at my girlfriends puss, i dont want to think about how many other penis's have been there. im wierd about it i know, she has told me, but let me tell you, even though a mans considered a stud if he's experianced, and a woman a slut, there are a shit load more virgin guys out there then girls.
so whatever.

 

[Mandinka]

she has never had a man stick his penis in her, and blow a load

KingKong , you're a real romantic , I think you're right on the money with there being a lot more virgin men out there though. Trust me pal , when you're there the next morning and she's covered in blood then you'll wonder if it's really so great. It'd be nice if everyone only got one virgin though , if ya know what I mean.
Jja , I think you'll find that being promiscuous has little to do with actual quantity of sex and a lot to do with the quantity of sexual partners.

 

[Hindustan]

You guys have a wonderful question: why is it that men are considered studs if they have sex and wonen are considered hoars?

My answer: I think its partly because of our "male" society. Males were the ones considered to be in charge, and lead the pack. Even though women have taken such a leadership position, it has not been that often to regulate such a change in sterotype. Secondly, I think truth-be-known, the males have incrediable amounts of testostrone during their youth and up, and are constatnly wanting sex. It is very diffucult for men to fight this craving for sex. The women on the other do not having such a large biologically (lack of test) drive , and therefore have the ability to avoid doing this dastardy dead. Those men that are successful in loaring the girls into submition are considered stalions, because that is after all what all men are desiring. The women that were not able to defend their virginity have always been looked at as whores .

I think these type of sterotypes are horrible. I feel women and men should be held to the same standards on every single issue. On sex is not superior or inferior to the other. Its ridiiculas!


Hindustan

 

[KINGKONG69]

You guys have a wonderful question: why is it that men are considered studs if they have sex and wonen are considered hoars?

My answer: I think its partly because of our "male" society. Males were the ones considered to be in charge, and lead the pack. Even though women have taken such a leadership position, it has not been that often to regulate such a change in sterotype. Secondly, I think truth-be-known, the males have incrediable amounts of testostrone during their youth and up, and are constatnly wanting sex. It is very diffucult for men to fight this craving for sex. The women on the other do not having such a large biologically (lack of test) drive , and therefore have the ability to avoid doing this dastardy dead. Those men that are successful in loaring the girls into submition are considered stalions, because that is after all what all men are desiring. The women that were not able to defend their virginity have always been looked at as whores .

I think these type of sterotypes are horrible. I feel women and men should be held to the same standards on every single issue. On sex is not superior or inferior to the other. Its ridiiculas!


Hindustan

i agree 100%, i just think loosing your virginity should be special, and only with a very special person, and i will never have been able to the man who first deflowered my future wife. i feel as if her virginity was meant for me, since i will spend my life with her, and another man has taken it.
i really wish alot of these teens would wait till they get married before having sex, and im not a real religious person, just tired of seeing 12-13 year old girls geting taken advantage of.

 

[dragon183]

I have been with 2 virgins and it isnt a picnic....trust me. The first time you even attempt to do anything it takes about 2 hours just to get the tip in (if you care about the girl, then you go gentle), once you get that in.....you just leave it there until she says it hurts too much. My last g/f was a virgin, and it took four 2 hour sex sessions before I could even fuck normal. Hopefully I dont have to go through all that again with my next g/f.

 

[KINGKONG69]

dragon, how old were these girls

 

[jja]

Re: Re: Re: Ive never had sex with a Virgin.

im sorry, that wasnt what i meant exactly, i had a hell of a buzz last nihgt. my thing is a virgin is fresh, like a new car, 0 miles, she has never had a man stick his penis in her, and blow a load .
i just dont like the idea of there being other guys out there, who can say they have fucked my women. i love sex so much, but when i look at my girlfriends puss, i dont want to think about how many other penis's have been there. im wierd about it i know, she has told me, but let me tell you, even though a mans considered a stud if he's experianced, and a woman a slut, there are a shit load more virgin guys out there then girls.
so whatever.

That's jealousy pure and simple. I hope you can get over it, or its gonna be a tough relationship. "my women" ??? Oh good lord.... She's not with the other guys any more. She's with you. I'm not exactly sure why, but she is.

 

[TheSalami]

i busted jja's hymen.

 

[RealDeal]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Ive never had sex with a Virgin.

That's jealousy pure and simple. I hope you can get over it, or its gonna be a tough relationship. "my women" ??? Oh good lord.... She's not with the other guys any more. She's with you. I'm not exactly sure why, but she is.

I disagree. Maybe he offended by saying "my women", but don't women refer to their boyfriends as "my boyfriend" or "my man". Everyone has at least a touch of possessiveness with their significant other (if you have one).

I do agree with some of what Kingkong is saying. I feel the same as you bro. A number of my g/f's exes are guys she knew in high school or just afterwards and she's lived in the same city since junior high. Sometimes we see one or two of these guys when we go out and it pisses me off. I can't help but think that this guy standing over there has screwed my girlfriend...then I get pissed off even more and part of me wants to kick the living shit out of him. Most women just don't understand that feeling and say we're being possessive or jealous or whatever. Maybe territorial is better, and most every species of male has this natural instinct. I know my g/f wouldn't like it either if one of my exes was around. I just can't help getting this mental picture in my head...makes me physically sick at my stomach and I want to kill the mofo. OK, so maybe I have a problem, but I think there are lots of guys out there that would feel the same way.

Frackal knows what I mean...

I wish my girl hadn't been with as many other guys as she has...probably a lot of us guys do, and women may wish their man wouldn't have been with as many other women (if they're telling the truth!). I just deal with it, try to tell myself it's in the past so let it be. But that doesn't keep me from disliking it.

Like someone said above, if women didn't fall for some asshole guys advances and pleas for sex when they were 15 or 16 or whatever, then maybe all this shit wouldn't be such a pain. I've known other girls who have "done it" when they were freshmen or sophomores in high school because some guy said "I love you" or whatever, then he screwed 'em and left. That royally fucks up some chicks, then they don't give a damn so go on through college screwing their brains out until they finally meet someone they want to marry and end up having been with like 15-25 people.

Like Mandika said, "I think you'll find that being promiscuous has little to do with actual quantity of sex and a lot to do with the quantity of sexual partners." You can have lots of sex without having lots of sexual partners. Though, back to the point of this thread, there's something to be said for a tight (not virgin) pussy. And when you've had tons of guys ramming their rod in the same girl, that shit ain't gonna be tight when she finds a man she wants to marry. Guys, on the other hand, don't have any significant physical change from the same activity. Just something to consider....

 

[Test boy]

I think girls can take on lots of rods and still be tight. Unless they take a liking to monster dildoes or Test boy.

 

[Jax]

Just wanted to chime in with my other jealous and raging brothers. Every time I think about my girlfriend with another dude I see fucking red . I'm always mystified when that thought doesn't bother people. My friend's girl has been with @ 22 guys, and he tells me it honestly doesn't bother him. To each his own.

 

[manny78]

dude you didnt miss a lot.....sex virgin isnt that good. At least from my experience they complain for anything....

 

[talonracer]

Jax you may not admit it but its all about confidence.....if you are obsessed with how many lovers your woman has had you are always thinking "were any of them better" or "did she ever have any bigger than mine" . Its all bullshit....first I WANT my woman to have been a whore, no training needed and she can usually fuck like a minx. Second its a massive ego trip to KNOW your better than all those guys before you. I mean what do you want some puritan who thinks sex is for breeding only (about 80% of women sadly) or a women who simply loves sex and gives you as much as you want? Sorry to say if a women is a prude and she suddenlt becomes a slut for YOU.........well its called "I want a husband". When that wedding cake is cut the prude comes back. Two divorces already I should know.......*sigh*

 

[buksoon]

I can not believe I'm posting this... I confess this to no one.

But I am one of these older female virgins (28). I am totally paranoid that men will find this repellent (Is she frigid? Why did no guy prior to me ever want her? Will I fit in her hole? Dude, will there be cobwebs down there?)

None of the above. I'm just shy, okay? I see a guy who is beautiful and virile and smart and funny and nice and just get fuckin' bashful, okay? Start shaking and everything.

If I'd been sexualized earlier (as a teen), I'm sure I'd be fucking up a storm now. But since I waited this long, the waiting becomes easier.

Anyway, my question is: Is this really such a turn-off? All opinions welcome, thanks.

 

[HYOOGEMOFO]

I havent had sex with a virgin either, and what is sad i dotn think that I'll find a virgin

 

[KBgrl]

i "devirginized" a guy once.... and it was ---- ummmm, nothin to write home about.

 

[Mandinka]

Buksoon

Buk ,
Is you being a virgin a turn-off ? Hell no girl but I'll put it to ya like this. Whenever men and women meet in social gatherings and sex ensues , it's always the woman who GIVES herself to the man , otherwise we commonly refer to the act as rape i.e. the man has taken the woman.
The fact that you have never given yourself makes you precious , I don't consider Jess Simpson to be the most insightful of social observers , but she was right on the money when she said that this was the greatest gift she could give her future husband.
Not that I'm advocating that you wait that long , but if I was ever going to be with a virgin I gotta ask myslef a few questions first:
1. Do I care about this person?
2. Am I gonna take care of this person after the act (cos it's a big step make no mistake), and if she ever needs me , be prepared to help her and comfort her.
3.Do I deserve this gift - Am I worthy of it?

The answers all gotta be in the positive - so if I blew you off , then it would be because I didn't think I was ready to make the kind of commitment that SHOULD come with that responsibility.
The fact that you made it this far makes you special , make no mistake.

 

[Adaptek]

I can not believe I'm posting this... I confess this to no one.

But I am one of these older female virgins (28). I am totally paranoid that men will find this repellent (Is she frigid? Why did no guy prior to me ever want her? Will I fit in her hole? Dude, will there be cobwebs down there?)

None of the above. I'm just shy, okay? I see a guy who is beautiful and virile and smart and funny and nice and just get fuckin' bashful, okay? Start shaking and everything.

If I'd been sexualized earlier (as a teen), I'm sure I'd be fucking up a storm now. But since I waited this long, the waiting becomes easier.

Anyway, my question is: Is this really such a turn-off? All opinions welcome, thanks.

Do you have a Hymen to prove you are still a virgin? If not, no one is going to believe you anyway.

But what you have done is admirable. I know a girl who is 22 and a virgin and wants me to take her virginity but i will not do it, because i do not like her that way. Also i know if i hit it she will not leave me alone and pester me and I really dont want to have to HIT & RUN but that girl is a pest. So I have opted not to hit it, so she cannot say I owe her something and make my life a living hell.

 

[buksoon]

Adaptek,

Probably smart then, to let some other guy have the honors. Especially if you don't appeciate her. You're doing a good thing.

Also: I'm not sure another virgin (I can only speak for myself here) would want her first to be with a guy who refers to the act as "hitting it."

Um, hitting what ?

 

[Hotdad]

Been there done that..not worth it. They do experience pain and don't relax and get into it so it's really no fun..I prefer a woman who knows how to fuck like crazy and is experienced enough to be over the shyness and will scream and get after it. Bring me a expert and lets get it on....I think that it should also be equal standards for guys and women...Are you a virgin?..No..then don't want what you can't give.