Speaking of 30 something virgins, I know a 38 year old virging (woman) who is actually really attractive, looks 30 tops. model thin. But you can tell being around her that the woman just has ZERO sex drive, and it's probably always been that way. There's something just kind of missing. I've never seen her be flirtatious or even moderately charming towards anyone. I've enver seen her talk to anyone where her eyes seemed engaged in that "I'm interested" way.