Is no one telling the truth anymore?

[hellorhih2o]

Paulos playing his juvenile games. Guys with 12 alter egos. Everyone lives in the richest neighborhood in the country. Everybody is 260# and have 6% bf.

WTF? Sure, a hoax now and then can be fun but when the whole thing becomes Fantasy Island, what's the point?

I'm not saying that I haven't told a white lie to either protect my own identity or someone else's. And I have not shared EVERYTHING about my life (at least not publicly), but I sure as hell haven’t told any serious lies or played any nasty games.

Can't we restrict this board to people who've actually gone through puberty? It should be mandatory to send in at least 50 pubic hairs to EF before you're accepted as a member. All DNA has to match. Red pubic hair will automatically disqualify you.

 

[HumorMe]

Can't we restrict this board to people who've actually gone through puberty? It should be mandatory to send in at least 50 pubic hairs to EF before you're accepted as a member.

I agree but then Elite's membership would be reduced to about 8 total members.

 

[flexed1]

i always do

 

[The_Ghost]

i always do

Me too, why lie? Seems to much like work to me.

 

[HumorMe]

Well, at least 4 of the 8 are on this thread now.

 

[plornive]

I see the future.... ... everyone posting "I'm always sincere."

That being said, I always tell the truth on Elite... I reveal enough information for people actually locate me. LOL

 

[The_Ghost]

I see the future.... ... everyone posting "I'm always sincere."

That being said, I always tell the truth on Elite... I reveal enough information for people actually locate me. LOL

Hell some people on here know where I live and work so why lie.

 

[Cuthbert]

no bor i'm 240@7 percent

 

[hellorhih2o]

Re: Re: Is no one telling the truth anymore?

I agree but then Elite's membership would be reduced to about 8 total members.

hmmm... got a point... damn. can we just have 'em post on some other EF chat & conversation board? Called Juvenile Delinquents or something like that.

 

[hellorhih2o]

I see the future.... ... everyone posting "I'm always sincere."

That being said, I always tell the truth on Elite... I reveal enough information for people actually locate me. LOL

Well... that's sort of where I draw the line. Sorta. If you've read enough of my posts, you can figure it out, but I haven't spelled it out in one single thread I don't think. I'm just paranoid about that. And I HAVE lied to protect someone else on EF. So I'm no saint, but I sure as hell don't make up shit for no reason (which seems to be the norm).

 

[BonerBoy]

So I'm no saint, but I sure as hell don't make up shit for no reason (which seems to be the norm).

wtf do you mean by "seems to be the norm" ???

so what if you think Paulos is a jackass, why try and make it sound like we're all jackasses

if you dont like it here, why stay and bitch?

 

[biteme]

Honesty, it's such a lonely word
Everyone is so untrue
Honesty, it's hardly ever heard
but mostly what I need from you.

 

[pitbullstl]

It's not the lies that bother me as much as the tough guy internet persona's.......

I mean what's the point???

I'm still calling for an E.F. meet-up.....somewhere concentric to everyone ( St. Louis). That way we can clear the air about a lot of stuff. Ya know, like is Raina's ass really that nice?? Does AAP really wear a Tiara?? Is AnabolicMD really a chick??? Is Wodie that old??? Plus, if anyone's in the market for a car, I'll give em the ol' 10% Elite Discount.....

Honestly it would be cool to put a face to a lot of these people....

 

[hellorhih2o]

wtf do you mean by "seems to be the norm" ???

so what if you think Paulos is a jackass, why try and make it sound like we're all jackasses

if you dont like it here, why stay and bitch?

it's not just paulos. what the hell is up with all the alter egos?

i guess i am bitching but what the fuck...?

 

[hellorhih2o]

It's not the lies that bother me as much as the tough guy internet persona's.......

I mean what's the point???

I'm still calling for an E.F. meet-up.....somewhere concentric to everyone ( St. Louis). That way we can clear the air about a lot of stuff. Ya know, like is Raina's ass really that nice?? Does AAP really wear a Tiara?? Is AnabolicMD really a chick??? Is Wodie that old??? Plus, if anyone's in the market for a car, I'll give em the ol' 10% Elite Discount.....

Honestly it would be cool to put a face to a lot of these people....

See you're one of those guys who's always real (or one hell of an actor ).

I'd LOVE to put a face to a lot of EF people. I BET you both you and I would be VERY surprised (both in a good and a bad way)

 

[OMGWTFBBQ]

I lied about being fat.
I'm not at all fat.
Really quite slim.

Other than that, can't think of any lies here.

 

[pitbullstl]

it's not just paulos. what the hell is up with all the alter egos?

i guess i am bitching but what the fuck...?

People with lot's of time.....

On a sidenote; my promo guy keeps jacking me around, but I didn't forget.....

If ya know anyone in the Midwest who wants to be a money man, let me know......this whole business is going to the dogs....

 

[pitbullstl]

I lied about being fat.
I'm not at all fat.
Really quite slim.

Other than that, can't think of any lies here.

I changed my mind, my vote is for Slutty McHobag........

Or, Big Dick McGhee......

 

[hellorhih2o]

People with lot's of time.....

On a sidenote; my promo guy keeps jacking me around, but I didn't forget.....

If ya know anyone in the Midwest who wants to be a money man, let me know......this whole business is going to the dogs....

No worries about the promo thing. It would be really cool, but definitely don't kill yourself over it.

Explain money man. Might know someone...

Oh... and by the way, it just dawned on me that I've got a face to match your name... I know YOU are real.

 

[pitbullstl]

No worries about the promo thing. It would be really cool, but definitely don't kill yourself over it.

Explain money man. Might know someone...

Oh... and by the way, it just dawned on me that I've got a face to match your name... I know you're real.

P.M.'s.....

 

[hellorhih2o]

P.M.'s.....

ok

 

[BonerBoy]

it's not just paulos. what the hell is up with all the alter egos?

i guess i am bitching but what the fuck...?

people with alot of free time use alters to try and be amusing

nothing wrong with bitching about shit you dont like but imo its wrong to say most people here are dishonest or "its the norm"

if someones posting bs, call them on it but you dont have to accuse the rest of us of being frauds

 

[hellorhih2o]

people with alot of free time use alters to try and be amusing

nothing wrong with bitching about shit you dont like but imo its wrong to say most people here are dishonest or "its the norm"

if someones posting bs, call them on it but you dont have to accuse the rest of us of being frauds

You're probably right about that but i guess i got a tad cynical after the whole paolo thing. Damn it, I worried about the guy and I tried my best to help him (even though I didn't have much to add).

Ignore that "it's the norm" comment. It's probably not the case. And there definitely ARE good guys (and gals) on the board. No doubt.

 

[HumorMe]

Honesty, it's such a lonely word
Everyone is so untrue
Honesty, it's hardly ever heard
but mostly what I need from you.

Nice Billy Joel song.

That song says a lot about what is missing these days.

 

[BonerBoy]

You're probably right about that but i guess i got a tad cynical after the whole paolo thing. Damn it, I worried about the guy and I tried my best to help him (even though I didn't have much to add).

ok excuse me for being offended

I would of been pissed to, if I would of taken the time to try and help the bastard

Ignore that "it's the norm" comment. It's probably not the case. And there definitely ARE good guys (and gals) on the board. No doubt.

yeah there def. are good guys here you just got to sift through some of the bs to find out who

 

[hellorhih2o]

yeah there def. are good guys here you just got to sift through some of the bs to find out who

yup

 

[rnch]

i always do

YOU i believe!

 

[WODIN]

288 @ 14% right here!

So PFFT!

I have about 250 alters and account for about 4% of all posts made to date on EF. I'm being sincere here. I am Bipolar suffering from manic depression so here in one of my rare lucid moments of clarity I say FUCK YOU ALL.

my geuss....33.25% of the people that read this will accept it as the truth.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

im useless at lying cause i forget the bullshit that i spin

so i save it for special occasions

on a serious note though, people usually only take people seriously if they have a good body/good stats. fact is a lot of people here are noobs and want acceptance, hence the lies.

personally i dont give a toss either way, im here for the 3% of topics that are actually good, and to keep me motivated.

cheerios

 

[Bikini Mod]

Lying is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too much mental effort and I am no rocket scientist. LOL

 

[hellorhih2o]

Lying is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too much mental effort and I am no rocket scientist. LOL

I've lied and covered up so much shit in my life myself that I got to the point where I needed a notebook to keep track of all the stuff I had dreamed up. It took me into my late 20'ies to figure out that it's a hell of a lot easier to just tell it like it is. Doesn't mean that you have to tell EVERYTHING but if you tell the truth about what you tell people, it can't come back and bite ya in the ass.

THAT'S liberating.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I am way too old for BS drama (even though there never seems to be a lack of it here on elite LOL).

One thing I can not tolerate is A LIAR. I get myself into a lot of trouble because of it. But it is better being honest than holding your tongue because even a lie of ommission is still a lie.

Case in point: back in the day I had two friends, one was stepping out on the other and begged me not to tell. I believed this person when they told me that the consequences would be SEVERE if I told what was going on, besides they said they ended "the side-stepping" and began to gradually withdraw from me so I had no idea just how much that persons behavior was out of control. Besides I had my own serious issues at the time. Eventually the side-stepping party got nailed and I got my head handed to me BECAUSE I LIED. Now everyone is hunky-dory and I was shunned. Makes a lot of sense don't it?

Lesson learned: If you are involved with people that are capable of treating each other in such a fashion REGARDLESS OF THE REASON - STEP OUT. People like that can bring no good to your life.

It still hurts though because all I was doing was trying to protect someone that I believed was being hurt. It's all good though and I only wish them well, honestly.

This is just how I am. I can bear no ill will towards people regardless of how much they hurt me. Unless they are hurting my children.... That is an issue that I don't want to think about much less care to discuss.

 

[hellorhih2o]

I am way too old for BS drama (even though there never seems to be a lack of it here on elite LOL).

One thing I can not tolerate is A LIAR. I get myself into a lot of trouble because of it. But it is better being honest than holding your tongue because even a lie of ommission is still a lie.

Case in point: back in the day I had two friends, one was stepping out on the other and begged me not to tell. I believed this person when they told me that the consequences would be SEVERE if I told what was going on, besides they said they ended "the side-stepping" and began to gradually withdraw from me so I had no idea just how much that persons behavior was out of control. Besides I had my own serious issues at the time. Eventually the side-stepping party got nailed and I got my head handed to me BECAUSE I LIED. Now everyone is hunky-dory and I was shunned. Makes a lot of sense don't it?

Lesson learned: If you are involved with people that are capable of treating each other in such a fashion REGARDLESS OF THE REASON - STEP OUT. People like that can bring no good to your life.

It still hurts though because all I was doing was trying to protect someone that I believed was being hurt. It's all good though and I only wish them well, honestly.

This is just how I am. I can bear no ill will towards people regardless of how much they hurt me. Unless they are hurting my children.... That is an issue that I don't want to think about much less care to discuss.

Agree with everything you said, EXCEPT the part about "even a lie of ommission is still a lie". I'm not sure about that. If you decide that there are things or thoughts in your life that you want to keep private, are you lying?

 

[anabolicmd]

it's not just paulos. what the hell is up with all the alter egos?

i guess i am bitching but what the fuck...?

Yeah dude, take a chiller, relax, get a life, its going to be ok just dont take it so serioso bro.

 

[hellorhih2o]

Yeah dude, take a chiller, relax, get a life, its going to be ok just dont take it so serioso bro.

took a chiller, have a life and have relaxed completely. over it.

 

[Bikini Mod]

No, no I didn't mean it that way at all.

We are all entitled to our privacy. How much of ourselves we choose to "give" is strictly up to us. I was refering to situations like the one that I sighted: I had two friends. One was stepping out on the other. That person TOLD ME (because otherwise I would have remained as clueless as everybody else) and I didn't tell the other party. So even though the one who was being stepped out on didn't come and ask me, "Hey - is so and so stepping out on me?" I was STILL LYING. I was withholding important information from someone who was my friend at the time even though I was doing it for what I thought was a VERY GOOD REASON - I WAS STILL LYING.

What I should have done was told the side-stepper - either you confess within X amount of time or I can't continue to be friends with either one of you. It isn't fair for you to put me into this position and I dont want to lie to my other friend.

But hindsight is 20/20. I could say that I was never faced with such a situation but that wouldn't be 100% correct.

There was a time many years ago when my ex and I had another couple that were best friends with us. They were godparents to one of our children - THAT IS HOW CLOSE WE WERE. All of the sudden the guy started BLATANTLY hitting on me. (This was after a friendship of MANY MANY YEARS). I was terrified because I didn't know what to do. I told my then-husband immediately. THAT FUCKER BLAMED ME AT FIRST! Then after he pulled his head out of his ass and I peeled him off the ceiling for wanting to do bodily harm to the guy (the way he hit on me was sooooooo disgusting that I can hardly believe it myself) we talked about what should be done. Obviously the friendship was wwwwaaaaay over, but should we tell the wife? We both told the couple. She chose to ignore THE TRUTH and that was the end of that. They moved away and we never heard from them again.

I wish them well.

The difference between these two situations is that even though the end result was the same, my consciense is clear because in the first case I DID THE RIGHT THING. In the second case I clearly DID NOT and this is why I am still hurt over the situation I guess. But everything happens for a reason, I guess. C'est la vie!

(Now I am REALLY REALLY TIRED LOL)

 

[anabolicmd]

Bikinimom, this is way OT but how come you dont do more stuff with bikinis, like pics, avatars etc? I have never, ever seen you in a bikini.

 

[hellorhih2o]

No, no I didn't mean it that way at all.

We are all entitled to our privacy. How much of ourselves we choose to "give" is strictly up to us. I was refering to situations like the one that I sighted: I had two friends. One was stepping out on the other. That person TOLD ME (because otherwise I would have remained as clueless as everybody else) and I didn't tell the other party. So even though the one who was being stepped out on didn't come and ask me, "Hey - is so and so stepping out on me?" I was STILL LYING. I was withholding important information from someone who was my friend at the time even though I was doing it for what I thought was a VERY GOOD REASON - I WAS STILL LYING.

What I should have done was told the side-stepper - either you confess within X amount of time or I can't continue to be friends with either one of you. It isn't fair for you to put me into this position and I dont want to lie to my other friend.

But hindsight is 20/20. I could say that I was never faced with such a situation but that wouldn't be 100% correct.

There was a time many years ago when my ex and I had another couple that were best friends with us. They were godparents to one of our children - THAT IS HOW CLOSE WE WERE. All of the sudden the guy started BLATANTLY hitting on me. (This was after a friendship of MANY MANY YEARS). I was terrified because I didn't know what to do. I told my then-husband immediately. THAT FUCKER BLAMED ME AT FIRST! Then after he pulled his head out of his ass and I peeled him off the ceiling for wanting to do bodily harm to the guy (the way he hit on me was sooooooo disgusting that I can hardly believe it myself) we talked about what should be done. Obviously the friendship was wwwwaaaaay over, but should we tell the wife? We both told the couple. She chose to ignore THE TRUTH and that was the end of that. They moved away and we never heard from them again.

I wish them well.

The difference between these two situations is that even though the end result was the same, my consciense is clear because in the first case I DID THE RIGHT THING. In the second case I clearly DID NOT and this is why I am still hurt over the situation I guess. But everything happens for a reason, I guess. C'est la vie!

(Now I am REALLY REALLY TIRED LOL)

LOL. Can't blame ya, that story would make me REALLY REALLY TIRED too. But I see your point. I think we're saying the same thing. Sure, you have the right to privacy but you also have to "do the right thing". I sure as hell phuk up all the time, but I can honestly tell myself when I go to bed that I TRIED to tell the truth and I TRIED to "do the right thing". And then once in a whilel I lie or do the wrong thing... Oh, well...

 

[Bikini Mod]

Bikinimom, this is way OT but how come you dont do more stuff with bikinis, like pics, avatars etc? I have never, ever seen you in a bikini.

There was a time when I would put up modeling pics in every post and change them frequently. But that was when I was modeling and competing,etc. I dont anymore. And honestly I don't have the time or the desire to put that out there.

I am now trying to get my life together after my ex has tried to destroy it for the past 3 years. (That is all I can say, can't say n'more)

I have an old site (that should have been shut down) www.bikinimom.com Feel free to go take a look. The pics are about 2/3 years old but I can assure you I still hold my own on the beach! LOL

http://www.bikinimom.com/gallery/boudoir/emilia10.htm Remains one of my favorite pics.

I now write and illustrate books for children. So I am much prouder of my artwork then I am of my A$$! tee-hee (even though I am told that my A$$ is still kinda shweet).

 

[hellorhih2o]

I have an old site (that should have been shut down) www.bikinimom.com Feel free to go take a look. The pics are about 2/3 years old but I can assure you I still hold my own on the beach! LOL

Whoa. You're hot shit!

 

[anabolicmd]

Cool, those kitchen pics were fun. You look good, if I wasnt feeling so sick I would have busted one out for sure, mind if I bookmark it?

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

There is always a predisposition to exaggerate.

I've met 4 people off the board - one mod who is still active and 2 others who post a lot...one who never posts anymore....so they know who I am....

I'm always tying to meet new people - in fact, I might meet another prominent member this week...

It's like anything else - take it with a grain of salt, get to know people, you'll realize there are some cool-ass people out there, and probably some posers too.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I've met a lot of peeps from the boards in the past. All of them seemed to be genuinely nice people. Some were very close to me at one point in time.

It is so very strange how much my life has been changed by elite.

But as Matt said - it is like anything else in life.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

oooooo bikinimom you look niiiiiice in your pics

not lying either

 

[Bikini Mod]

*blush*

I don't REALLY look like that.... It's all posing and lighting.

 

[Forge]

Why doesn't anyone tell the truth anymore?

It's not just a symptom of EF, the anonymity that the internet bestows allows people act in ways they would not in real life, creating false personas and being someone they are not. It is much easier to lie in writing than it is to someone's face.

I learned when I was young that telling lies can get complicated, now I tell it like it is, which gets me in trouble from time to time but at least someone will know where I stand. The internet (including EF) will never be free from fake personas.

Oh and bikinimom, nice site!