This is girl is my girlfriend and claims we don't go out often enough. She is always telling that wants to go on vacation all the time. The truth is that I need to save money, because I partied when I was younger and I am trying to pay off my credit card debt and other debt so we can preparing for our future. Meanwhile, she wants a future. However, she wants both. I don't have the money to do both. Shouldn't this girl be willing to work with me?