Info/tips on swingers party

[manny78]

So next month me and my GF we'll be going to our first ever swingers party. It's with invitation only and they pick people from 18-35/good looking (you need referrals). The party is held at well known lounge. It's actually the most serious organization around. According to the person who referred me there, there's no sex on premises, just flirting and stuff.

So here's my question: what should I expect in terms of "good etiquette" ? How are you suppose to act there ? Are these places like a meat market in terms of ambiance ? From what I was told there're only couples and females, no single males at all. What is a good strategy, active or passive ?

 

[pdaddy]

You're willing to watch your gf get t-boned by some other dood?

 

[manny78]

You're willing to watch your gf get t-boned by some other dood?

Well it goes both way you know ? Yeah she gets t-boned but I also get to poke some other girl too.

 

[Longhorn85]

I have no idea, but since it's based on referrals and there is no sex on the premises I guess they are looking for mature behavior. No blatant tongue-wagging on the part of males, I would guess.

Is this in Montreal?

 

[justinjones1963]

All groups have different, and sometimes, very specific rules. From my experiences the general guidelines are: be polite, do not drink too much, if someone (male, female or couple) says 'no' that means 'no'. The biggest complaints I usually hear about are people who are persistent and clearly do not catch the drift is a couple/person is not interested.

Also, if it says no sex on the premises then do not have sex on the premises! Breaking that rule is the easiest way not to get asked back.

My best advice is to just watch, chat casually and just be yourself. Looking nervous and feeling out of place is actually a very good way to get people to walk up and talk to you. The majority of people I have met at parties are very open and welcoming.

Good luck and enjoy.

 

[manny78]

I have no idea, but since it's based on referrals and there is no sex on the premises I guess they are looking for mature behavior. No blatant tongue-wagging on the part of males, I would guess.

Is this in Montreal?

yup it is. Since the Supreme Court stated that these clubs/parties were legal, everything is going on !

 

[KD1]

You going to take some cialis just in case? I dont know if I could do it with a bunch of people standing around watching. Either way good luck, im sure it will be something to remember!

 

[vansmack2000]

keep us updated

 

[manny78]

You going to take some cialis just in case? I dont know if I could do it with a bunch of people standing around watching. Either way good luck, im sure it will be something to remember!

Just received my order from AG-guys last week so of course I'm going to be fully loaded (Cialis + proviron + C..... whatever)....

 

[Sanel27]

Listen, since you're going there for the first time you want to make the best impression you can.

Be approachable, but dont approach everyone, act casual as if this wasnt your first time, dont just walk up to girls, chat with guys...................its their girlfriends and wives you're going to be fucking after all.......

Dont appear to eager to jump on topic about sex, relax you will get to it eventually as this is a swingers meeting (not a party, but a casual meeting)

Have a drink before you get there to relax you up a bit, have sex with your girl before you go and make sure its a good romp to reassure her you still are the best choice, but thats all you are.........a choice.........she picked you out for a reason didnt she?

Have fun, and take it as a social meeting it is, and since you are the "fresh meat" and all will be sizing you and your girl up be cool as in act cool and not like some "know it all", listen more than you talk, as that will give you some input about their ways.....

Have fun bro, i know i would've.................even though NYC is crazy, especially where i live at all are uptight and not too many swinger parties, not that i could talk my girl into going to one of those, but i would love to......