I'm not getting enough sex in my current relationship...

[Forge]

I used to have this rule: never date single mothers. They have a lot going on in their lives, they have a higher priority than you, they get tired by the end of the day due to fussing with the kid all the time. Not to mention that the child can be a great cock block at the absolute worst times.

Then I met my current GF, and she is just a terrific girl. We’ve fallen in love, things are going incredibly well. Except she has a young daughter in pre-school. And some nights she wants her alone time after the kid goes to sleep, so I’m only sleeping over one or two nights a week. Which means we are only having sex one or two nights a week, three at the most. And I don’t think it’s enough for me.

We’ve talked about it, she is aware of how I feel, but right now with how busy she is she just can’t give any more than this. And she has always been one of those girls who can be completely happy with two or three times a week, where I’ve always preferred it every day, even more than once a day if I could get it.

It would be incredibly selfish of me to leave her over something as stupid as not enough sex given the circumstances, and given how great the relationship is going otherwise. But I can’t get it out of my thoughts, it bothers me, and I wonder if I can truly be OK with only a couple times a week. I wonder if I can truly sleep with her and not fool around at all, if I can keep my urges in check. Do I even want to?

Fuck, I never should have broken one of my rules….

 

[the_clockwork]

i didn't read this but just jerk off

 

[jh1]

Bro are you bipolar are some shit...

Were you just going on about how you swing and how people have to many hang ups about sex and shit...

 

[blueta2]

yes, you should dump her, she sounds like a selfish person.

 

[stosstruppe]

Bring hookers back to your home. The soiled sheets, bondage gear, used rubbers and Polaroids of you smashing in the back doors of your various conquests lying about the bedroom should hopefully enlighten her of your dilemma in a gentle, subtle and most importantly non-provocative manner.

 

[blueta2]

i agree on the single moms thing
nothing kills my boner moreso than raising someotherdouchbag's kid

oh man, are you going to be in trouble for this comment

 

[digimon7068]

i understand what you're saying. . .i'd have a hard time with a relationship like that. . .plus, i don't like other people's kids much. . .that said, my wife and i have three kids (7 y/o twin girls and a 22 month old boy), we've been married 15-plus years, we both work our asses off and we still get busy 3 to 5 times per week. . .

however, if something (god-forbid) suddenly happened to my wife and i was left with the three kids, i'd probably not have chica's sleeping over. . .my kids are too young to try and understand what the hell daddy is up too. . .

you're dating a woman with a child. . .get used to it or move on. . .

 

[cindylou]

?
my personal preference, i have no kids.
why should i want to raise someone elses?

I dont think you should

I dont wanna share kids with another woman, so I never dated a man with kids. Wouldnt still today.

My personal preference too.

 

[jh1]

I dont think you should

I dont wanna share kids with another woman, so I never dated a man with kids. Wouldnt still today.

My personal preference too.

FUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Mr. Black]

The way I see it you have three options:

1) Accept that your sex life sucks and stay with her
2) Dump her ass and find a horny single 20 year old
3) Supplement with hookers for the days you aren't getting any