I'm jsut a weak and horny man

[SoreArms]

So I have an ex that i just recently started talking to agian, I didn't want to talk to her during the whole healing process. Anyways, she has a new bf and from the sound of things he treats her much better than i ever did (my opinion not her words) so I'm happy for her. He apparently is not the jealous type and he has no problem with the both of us hanging out. We decide that even though we're not a couple anymore we still have a lot of common interests and it would be cool to hang out as friends.

Saturday night, I'm just sitting here watching a movie and she calls saying she's had a bad day and would like to hang out and have a drink to get her mind off things. I tell her that I'm tired and bumming it so if she wants she can come over and have a drink here. She agrees. A few drinks later, and late into the night she starts falling asleep on my couch. I wake her up and ask her if she is goign to go home or if she wants to stay here, she says she doesn't want to drive and asks me for a cover so she can crash on my couch. "I won't hear of it, you will sleep in my bed!", "but we can't sleep together, I have a boyfriend", "don't worry, I totally respect that" (mwahahaha!). Immediately she strips to her bra and panties, my spidey senses told me she wasn't too worried if something might happen, but then again she was buzzed so I didn't want to assume it either. Anyways through out the entire night I kept spooning up to her, getting hornier than ever, fingering her for a bit until she would feel guilty and tell me to stop, this happened about 4 times during the night. We didn't have sex, but she didn't slap me or run away either. The next morning before she left I said "sorry, I hope I didn't repulse you with my busy hands and fingers" she replied "did I seem repulsed?"

I am 100% positive that if we hang out again we are going to have sex. Although I still love her, I have no desire to be with her again (exclusively) and I am afraid that the lust will cloud her thinking and she will wind up breaking up with her boyfriend because of what will happen or what she wants to happen between us. I am a weak and horny man, if she is here all my senses will go out the door and I will bang her on the spot, but would feel bad about it later. I hope she has the sense to understand the consequences and not call me again, or atleast come over and give me home court advantage.

 

[n0th1ng]

She knew what she was doing. I feel sorry for the sap she is dating. I would never trust a girl that wanted to spend time alone with an ex.. you always know whats going to happen eventually.

 

[PBR]

She knew what she was doing. I feel sorry for the sap she is dating. I would never trust a girl that wanted to spend time alone with an ex.. you always know whats going to happen eventually.

i agree 100%....wow, whatever.

 

[Lestat]

wow man, she is interested.. but probably in the same boat as you, doesn't want anything exclusive.

i say go for it

 

[Gymgurl]

She must have like your butt too....

 

[BUBBLES]

Why did you guys break up?

 

[RottenWillow]

So I have an ex that i just recently started talking to agian, I didn't want to talk to her during the whole healing process. Anyways, she has a new bf and from the sound of things he treats her much better than i ever did (my opinion not her words) so I'm happy for her. He apparently is not the jealous type and he has no problem with the both of us hanging out. We decide that even though we're not a couple anymore we still have a lot of common interests and it would be cool to hang out as friends.

Saturday night, I'm just sitting here watching a movie and she calls saying she's had a bad day and would like to hang out and have a drink to get her mind off things. I tell her that I'm tired and bumming it so if she wants she can come over and have a drink here. She agrees. A few drinks later, and late into the night she starts falling asleep on my couch. I wake her up and ask her if she is goign to go home or if she wants to stay here, she says she doesn't want to drive and asks me for a cover so she can crash on my couch. "I won't hear of it, you will sleep in my bed!", "but we can't sleep together, I have a boyfriend", "don't worry, I totally respect that" (mwahahaha!). Immediately she strips to her bra and panties, my spidey senses told me she wasn't too worried if something might happen, but then again she was buzzed so I didn't want to assume it either. Anyways through out the entire night I kept spooning up to her, getting hornier than ever, fingering her for a bit until she would feel guilty and tell me to stop, this happened about 4 times during the night. We didn't have sex, but she didn't slap me or run away either. The next morning before she left I said "sorry, I hope I didn't repulse you with my busy hands and fingers" she replied "did I seem repulsed?"

I am 100% positive that if we hang out again we are going to have sex. Although I still love her, I have no desire to be with her again (exclusively) and I am afraid that the lust will cloud her thinking and she will wind up breaking up with her boyfriend because of what will happen or what she wants to happen between us. I am a weak and horny man, if she is here all my senses will go out the door and I will bang her on the spot, but would feel bad about it later. I hope she has the sense to understand the consequences and not call me again, or atleast come over and give me home court advantage.

I have to be straight with you, if you didnt want to get a literary bitchslap for this, you shouldnt have posted where women could read it. You tried hard to have sex with a girl that already has a bf, and that's seriously messed up.

"Weak and horny man" is bullcrap. You have a brain, use it. If you want to be with her again, say "hey I want to be with you again". If she says no, I only want you to be my friend, then you say either "ok, let's be friends", or "No I'm afraid I wont be comfortable with that since I still have feelings for you and am very attracted to you".

 

[Fajitas]

She's cheating on you.

 

[Cutiebaby]

i think that for her to have a b/f and to want to spend time at you the ex's house than say she wanted to spend the night that points out right there that she wanted some....i am thinking she is in the same spot as you..where she wants to keep the relationship with the b/f but have a "friend" on the side where she can go to!

 

[SoreArms]

I have to be straight with you, if you didnt want to get a literary bitchslap for this, you shouldnt have posted where women could read it. You tried hard to have sex with a girl that already has a bf, and that's seriously messed up.

"Weak and horny man" is bullcrap. You have a brain, use it. If you want to be with her again, say "hey I want to be with you again". If she says no, I only want you to be my friend, then you say either "ok, let's be friends", or "No I'm afraid I wont be comfortable with that since I still have feelings for you and am very attracted to you".

yes I have a brain, but lets say this chick is like my kryptonite. It's the best I've ever had, as far as knowing each other sexually goes. There is still a big physical attraction there on both sides, coupled with the fact that we have a mental and spiritual connection only strenghthens the attraction. All that said, having been through a relationship with her, I already know that it's not something I want again. Not that she was a horrible person, I jsut don't feel we're right for each other in the long run. I normally stay away from women that are taken but I just couldn't resist this time and probabyl wont be able to resist if it happens again. Although I fully understand the consequences, all the blame can't be placed on me since it seems that this is a mutual exercise in skankitude.

Do I know it's wrong? Yes. Do I wnat ther to throw her relationship away for a few sessions of raunchy, sweaty sex with me? No. Will I do anything to stop it if seems like a possibility? Probably not. It's just the devil in me telling me to do what is best for carnal satisfaction.