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foreigngirl
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what is so appealing about those damn strip clubs? I heard guys say that its relaxing. Is it relaxing staring at those women or just relaxing atmosphere so you can chat with your friends?
I want to understand something better:
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needtogetaas
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strip clubs in the us suck,3 yoears in italy stip clubs spoled me.
GrandMaster
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have some beers talk about whatever.. and enjoy the sight of a sexy girl dancing infront of you willingly taking her clothes of trying to seduce u... thats y!
lol
lol
foreigngirl
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needtogetas said:
what are they like in Italy?
GrandMaster
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needtogetas said:
they're good in canada... well.. most in my area.....hmm... deffinatly have to remember the scene in italy if i ever go... fuck... just need to go to them whenever i enter a new country lol
foreigngirl
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GrandMaster said:
no smoking there anymore, huh?
GrandMaster
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we have smoking rooms... glass walls...they dont wanna loose their buisness
foreigngirl
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GrandMaster said:
when hubby was in Toronto last January he said there was no smoking.
But, back to topic: why you guys buy those lap dances?
1_more_rep
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i'll tell you why fg:
if you're a single guy: feels great...going to get a few beers and hang out watching nude girls seduce you and make you think they want you (making you think you will get laid that night for sure which you probably wont) so basically you leave with a smile on your face
if you're dating/married: feels great...a few beers not worrying about the wife/kids for once. Just sit back and relax and watch some nude ladies. And then go home to have sex with the wifey while they imagine the nude ladies.
. So that puts a smile on their faces
this is my theory on why guys like strip clubs...i may be wrong though...i've only gone twice to the same one because they don't card
if you're a single guy: feels great...going to get a few beers and hang out watching nude girls seduce you and make you think they want you (making you think you will get laid that night for sure which you probably wont) so basically you leave with a smile on your face
if you're dating/married: feels great...a few beers not worrying about the wife/kids for once. Just sit back and relax and watch some nude ladies. And then go home to have sex with the wifey while they imagine the nude ladies.
. So that puts a smile on their facesthis is my theory on why guys like strip clubs...i may be wrong though...i've only gone twice to the same one because they don't card
foreigngirl
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1_more_rep said:i'll tell you why fg:
if you're a single guy: feels great...going to get a few beers and hang out watching nude girls seduce you and make you think they want you (making you think you will get laid that night for sure which you probably wont) so basically you leave with a smile on your face
if you're dating/married: feels great...a few beers not worrying about the wife/kids for once. Just sit back and relax and watch some nude ladies. And then go home to have sex with the wifey while they imagine the nude ladies.
this is my theory on why guys like strip clubs...i may be wrong though...i've only gone twice to the same one because they don't card
good that you said that. That thing has always bothered me. Thats why I DONT have sex if my husband just came back from titty bar
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foreigngirl said:
but you're pretty stacked and hot. He might want to bone YOU. But then again he might think of other gals too. it's ok fg, you're a hottie
foreigngirl
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1_more_rep said:but you're pretty stacked and hot. He might want to bone YOU. But then again he might think of other gals too. it's ok fg, you're a hottie
it still bothers me. I cant help it. I dont know whats in his head. I dont like thinking that someone else got him all riled up and he dont have any choice, but comes to me, thinking of them. Thats a bad thought there
GrandMaster
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my G/f didnt care about me going to strip clubs... i'd even ask her first.. if she didnt want me to go, i woudlnt,
i dont buy dances or antyhing, i dont spend money on peelers... just beer and watch the show. i've only got up on stage ONCE and it was because it was my best buds b-day and we all were out to have a good night.
i dont buy dances or antyhing, i dont spend money on peelers... just beer and watch the show. i've only got up on stage ONCE and it was because it was my best buds b-day and we all were out to have a good night.
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foreigngirl said:
yeah i'm sure it does. i can completely understand where you're coming from that it's frustrating that other girls can turn em on so fast. sorry if i said anything to make you sad, didn't mean it - just exposing guys' true animal instincts
GrandMaster
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i think FG is right not to have sex with her hubby after he comes back from the peelers.
i can understand where u coem from babe. i completely agree with your decision on that one.
i find the best sex is after a good time at the club lol dance club not strip club
i can understand where u coem from babe. i completely agree with your decision on that one.
i find the best sex is after a good time at the club lol dance club not strip club
foreigngirl
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buffer1 said:
I dont think so. He goes maybe once a year, thats if. He used to go a lot few years back.
1 more rep - you didnt make me sad, I wanted to know what is really going on in your guys's heads.
GrandMaster - thats really nice of you. There is no need of buying lap dances when your girl can do it for you for free
ziggyziggy
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Did someone say lapdance??
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1_more_rep
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foreigngirl said:I dont think so. He goes maybe once a year, thats if. He used to go a lot few years back.
1 more rep - you didnt make me sad, I wanted to know what is really going on in your guys's heads.
GrandMaster - thats really nice of you. There is no need of buying lap dances when your girl can do it for you for free
that's it i'm gonna get with a redhead next time. I
blondes SO much so we'll see if i can supress the temptation and try redheads. They seem great .
GrandMaster
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1_more_rep said:that's it i'm gonna get with a redhead next time. I
lol now u see y i love them!
ever since i was a small lad! lol
plus i think reds are more attractive and stuff but thats just IMO
foreigngirl
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1_more_rep said:that's it i'm gonna get with a redhead next time. I
lol...lap dance at some belly dance music
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foreigngirl said:
sounds like heaven. DAMNIT! where are all the single redhead ladies that listen to arabic music and belly dance?! they're so rare. 
GrandMaster
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can we get off the redhead talk
??? plz! lol
i've just told my buddy that
A. im going to practice at the pool hall tues
B.my beautiful red is going to be there
c. im broke till friday
d. i need to bum money from someone till i get paid.... im fuckd! lol
??? plz! lol
i've just told my buddy that
A. im going to practice at the pool hall tues
B.my beautiful red is going to be there
c. im broke till friday
d. i need to bum money from someone till i get paid.... im fuckd! lol
needtogetaas
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no rules like they have in the us.foreigngirl said:
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GrandMaster said:
really? You agree with that? And, yeah, the best sex is when you come back from a dance club together
1 more rep - LOL
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foreigngirl said:
i agree with your decision too fg. If he is just going to be thinking of other girls let him beat the meat in the bathroom or something. Give him sex when you and him are alone, the arabic music is bumpin
, and the mood is right. that way he deserves you and you are both happy and wanting it badly
foreigngirl
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1_more_rep said:i agree with your decision too fg. If he is just going to be thinking of other girls let him beat the meat in the bathroom or something. Give him sex when you and him are alone, the arabic music is bumpin
but thats the reason I posted this - I wanna know what is going on in the guy's head after he leaves and stuff. Does he think of HIS girl after he comes home....
GrandMaster
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foreigngirl said:
ofcourse!
he might be thining of some ripper when he's stuffin u... thats not kool no respect there
or, he's gettin excited looking at other girls .. which is kind of normal...
but u should bethe one hes getting excited over and wanting to pack u, rather then seeing and wanting to pack some other girl
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foreigngirl said:
simple answer is gonna be no
if he REALLY wanted to just have some passionate sex with you or whatever (hot stuff
) then he would probably stay home and have a few beers with YOU and cuddle up and then start getting frisky . but if he's going to the strip club and coming home right after with a hard-on ready for action, he is thinking with his dick and not with his heart. ...and they say women are much more complicated than guys. We are very complicated beings. kind of.
some of us are at least (me!)
foreigngirl
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GrandMaster said:
thats what I wann know - if a guy comes back from there and gets to have sex with his girl, does he think of HIS girl or those girls in there?
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foreigngirl said:
explained it all in the post right above yours
GrandMaster
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foreigngirl said:
that COMPLETELY depends on the individual
bigmann245
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my wife goes to thge strip clubs with me.... its the best. then we both get turned on like you wouldnt believe... and you get way more attention when you bring your wife. i just love watching the wife go up to the stage and give the dancer a dollar or 2. she loves it and i love to watch.... you should go with him at leased one time.... just to see what its like..
foreigngirl
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1_more_rep said:explained it all in the post right above yours
that made my dessicion even stronger
foreigngirl
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bigmann245 said:
I've been there once. I hate it. Its stupid
1_more_rep
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bigmann245 said:
a dollar or 2? cheap. Where are the 5s and 10s at?! lol jk i'm cheap as hell the two times i went i had like 6 or so bucks and had to use them very slowly and wisely
while the ugly fat rich men have like 4 ladies on them when they throw out 10s
GrandMaster
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bigmann245 said:
your not allowed to respond to anything anymore!
reason being,.. because your wife is too kool! lol
bigmann245
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1_more_rep said:a dollar or 2? cheap. Where are the 5s and 10s at?! lol jk i'm cheap as hell the two times i went i had like 6 or so bucks and had to use them very slowly and wisely
yea but when her and i go up 20 or so times it adds up..... i dont throw my money away i make them earn it..... lol
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foreigngirl said:that made my dessicion even stronger
i can only imagine how you feel fg. I think you feel like crap because when he goes to the strip club it makes you feel like he'd rather be with other women and get turned on by THEM and it doesn't make you feel special like a man should make his woman feel. Well at least he only goes once a year like you said. that gives those homewreckers 1/365 days and you get 364.25/365 and 1/4 (labor day)
personally i would never go to a strip club if i was with a lady. The two times i went i was single and of course i enjoyed seeing nude women but i wouldn't do it with my wife/gf at home while i was out. I wouldn't feel right even if i had their consent. But every guy is different, as grand has said.
GrandMaster
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its just the fact that, (mostly) hot girls are getting nekkid FOR FREE! INFRONT OF YOU!!
u cant go up to any chick and tell her to get naked and she will!
girls getting naked for free all night... thats the hype about it... period!
u cant go up to any chick and tell her to get naked and she will!
girls getting naked for free all night... thats the hype about it... period!
tits and ass sweetie... tits and ass
I go about 4-6 times a year. I'll stop in for a beer on the way home from work. I can go in, sit down, ignore everyone else, & watch the pretty ladies dance. Or I'll go out with some buddies & shoot some pool & finish the night with a coupla beers at the rippers. The thing is, it's a place where guys go to be guys. We can sit & stare at the women, which we can't do at the mall. We can talk with our buddies about how hot the lady in accounting is without offending the group at the next table. We can talk about sports, use foul language & fart without offending our delicate partner's sensibilities. I may get a little aroused, but when I do it's because I want to go home & smell, taste, & feel wifey. It whet's my appetite for sex, not for sex with the tart. Sure, the twenty something tart was hot, but it's wifey that I want.
GrandMaster
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hidngod said:
lol nice post
I've only been to a stripclub once with my buddy when I had girl trouble. It was cool, I probably spent about $120 on lapdances (fully nude )but that was like three years ago and I couldn't care less if I went back to another one. I realized later that it didn't make me feel all that much better. Kinda depressing spending money when it's not even gonna go anywhere. (ohkay you're taking off your panties right in front of me...niiiice, as I just sit here with my hard dick in my pants ) A hooker would be a better investment and I wouldn't even do that. I'd rather jerk off by myself, at least I'd be with someone who really wanted me. I'd only go to another one to simply watch and if lapdances were free. But then again you should be going there to spend money, almost like a casino, except the payout is a hard-on with maybe a little bit of precum.
)but that was like three years ago and I couldn't care less if I went back to another one. I realized later that it didn't make me feel all that much better. Kinda depressing spending money when it's not even gonna go anywhere. (ohkay you're taking off your panties right in front of me...niiiice, as I just sit here with my hard dick in my pants ) A hooker would be a better investment and I wouldn't even do that. I'd rather jerk off by myself, at least I'd be with someone who really wanted me. I'd only go to another one to simply watch and if lapdances were free. But then again you should be going there to spend money, almost like a casino, except the payout is a hard-on with maybe a little bit of precum.Similar threads
