I need some advice???? on PORN....

[want2bhot]

How do you handle your husband looking at porn on the computer, while you are not home?

I am not a figure model or even close to getting there yet, but I am working on it. I have changed my body in the last year, started out a size 18-20 and am now a size 14. I know that I am not by far drop dead gorgeous, but I believe I can still turn a head. My point is that when I find out that he is looking at porn on the computer while I am not at home, makes me feel like shit....I feel like he isn't interested in me, and wishes that I looked like those girls on the porn site.

Should I let this get to me, or should I just ignore it?

First of all I am not changing my body for him at all, but it doesn't help me when I know he is surfin to look it some T&A....

I DON'T KNOW????????????

 

[momsgettinfit]

How do you handle your husband looking at porn on the computer, while you are not home?

I am not a figure model or even close to getting there yet, but I am working on it. I have changed my body in the last year, started out a size 18-20 and am now a size 14. I know that I am not by far drop dead gorgeous, but I believe I can still turn a head. My point is that when I find out that he is looking at porn on the computer while I am not at home, makes me feel like shit....I feel like he isn't interested in me, and wishes that I looked like those girls on the porn site.

Should I let this get to me, or should I just ignore it?

First of all I am not changing my body for him at all, but it doesn't help me when I know he is surfin to look it some T&A....

I DON'T KNOW????????????

My hubby will look at it and use to alot. I didn't say anything about it unless it started to get out of control. Heck I even watched or looked at it with him. LOL

 

[Gymgurl]

I don't really care if he looks at it...I join him once in awhile....but you have to feel good about yourself first and know that men are just visual creatures....now if it is out of hand that is different

 

[want2bhot]

Thanks guys....I guess its not out of hand, I just feel like he is being sneaky about it..I guess thats what really pisses me off....Hey, I am up for trying new things, and looking at it with him, WHATEVER....Why is it a big secret...

 

[momsgettinfit]

Thanks guys....I guess its not out of hand, I just feel like he is being sneaky about it..I guess thats what really pisses me off....Hey, I am up for trying new things, and looking at it with him, WHATEVER....Why is it a big secret...

Maybe he's not including you or telling b/c he's not sure what your reaction is going to be. Try talking to him and let him know you cool with it and that's you'd like to join. Some very fun times can come out it

 

[Gymgurl]

Tell him you might like to rent a dirty movie just to see how long you can watch it with him before you want him....this will get him thinking!

 

[scorpiogirl]

I'm sorry, but I see enough T & A in my face on a daily basis just on REGULAR tv. If I'm going to look at porn, he's going to have to watch what "I" want to watch. Men get it everywhere they look - we don't!

Of course, women also have more to think about than men anyway. Screwing a hot dude doesn't usually enter my though pattern on any given day - unlike men (with women, of course!).

 

[skittles]

Don't worry

It has nothing to do with his interest in you. Like the other girls mentioned, maybe you could watch it with him? Then it wouldn't seem like he was being 'sneaky'.

Congrats on your weightloss