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Pat_McCrotch

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I am seeing this chic I think I am going to like. Dont wanna give up AAS just yet. How did yall tell your girl or girls to be about AAS?
 
I won't. Throwing a change like that at her after 7 yrs of marriage isn't worth the hassle.
For a new girl, I'd wait until it comes up in conversation, which it will if you have any kind of physique whatsoever, then tell her the truth.
 
dude dont tell her shit people can be buff and ripped and be all natural bro
 
just be up front with her bro. if you hide it right from the start, then it is already dishonest at the start. if you like her and want to advance it at all, i would just be like, "there is something you need to know, and i dont want ot hide it from you, but i do use steroids to a degree." reassure her you know what you doing and be ready for questions. respect her response which ever way it goes
 
Ease her into in ,example : its just some extra test for the boys
not ,example :its just test ,dec ,EQ ,tren ,mast ,Dbol ,A50 ,gh
igf1 t3 ,slin, see where im going ,my wife knows about the test
but not much else ,good luck with it if,or not.
Brad.
 
misticat said:
i wouldnt say anything... to many people dont know the facts about aas


If you tell her, get prepared beforehand with info to help ease her conceerns regarding the missconceptions of AAS.....with my wife it came up one time when we were still dating when a large guy walked by at the gym, and I said something to the effect of "oh yea, hes on the sauce"...she was like "how do you know, cause your as big as he is"....I said, "THATS how I know"...led to an open discussion later about it.....

good luck...I would personally wait to make sure she is gonna be around for a long time though, you dont want that many people knowing about your private illegal shit.
 
Do not tell her!

I know too many guys who told their girl, and they were so "cool" about it. They even gave them the injections. But, when stuff went bad. They used it against them by blackmailing, etc.
 
errn247 said:
I am seeing this chic I think I am going to like. Dont wanna give up AAS just yet. How did yall tell your girl or girls to be about AAS?


tell her what??? that you inject an illegal substance into your body??

just tell her it's part of your supplement routine.. she won't be that nosy and if she is, do you really need someone that is so insecure running all up in your business..??
 
errn247 said:
I am seeing this chic I think I am going to like. Dont wanna give up AAS just yet. How did yall tell your girl or girls to be about AAS?


Dont! Its a fact of life. All relationships start out with peaches and roses and everything nice. When they end most get bitter. Dont give her anything to use as fuel or you will be quitting AAS against your will behind bars. You should wait until you get to know her real well or until you are about to marry or maybe even never. jmo
 
dont tell her anything cuz everytime you arent all smiles she will blame it on the junk. and she will follow the masses and think that you take shortcuts to get your physique. when actually we work twice as hard when we are on.
 
Its a catch 22 Bro...Ive been with my wife 4 10yrs and at Thanksgiving she blew the whole circle of trust thing...She has known the whole time we have been together and was never an issue..long story short is she is cool with it but when she smoked some strong ass purple kush she got chatty cathy and told my brother in law and about 4 other people that where at the house..Im not saying I wouldnt do it again but I would have been a little less detailed with the info..Just think hard b4 you do anything Bro...
 
i had the same dilemna when I started with my current girl 2 years ago. I was on when we got together. I told her and she decided she would give me my injections. which she is very good at, I must say. she is a body piercer, so I guess it goes with the territory.

lifthard2005 said it best "if you hide it right from the start, then it is already dishonest at the start. if you like her and want to advance it at all, i would just be like, "there is something you need to know, and i dont want ot hide it from you...""

people like wrknonit that hide it from their WIFE of 7 years are really playing with fire. you dont marry someone that you intend on lieing to for the rest of your life. it just sets up more lieing for the future. like adultery and poor gambling habits (etc) that you just opt not to mention... as your relationship gets more and more degraded. I suppose marriage for some people is just an easy way to keep that bar slut around longer.

for me any relationship.. girl.. parent... friends... its all about honesty. even my friends know about my intrigue for AAS. they will get over the initial shock pretty quickly once you tell them. and if they dont, then you know that person isnt worth having around. even a parent. and after the shock has passed... they will start to be interested or they dont care. SOOOO much better than lieing and hiding your true self.

"I wouldnt say anything... to many people dont know the facts about aas" this is true for a group of people. I wouldnt just start talking about your use with a room full of people that know nothing about the subject. but an individual... friend.. girl... parent... if they have any desire to keep that relationship with you, then the subject shouldnt upset them for long. especially when you show them all the knowledge you have on the subject... that you have really done your homework... that you are taking all the precautions necessary to stay as healthy as possible.

its a no brainer... tell her... them... anyone you care about being honest with.


sorry for the rant, but lieing to loved ones about your true self is about the worst thing you can do IMHO.

BE HONEST>>> BE HAPPY!
 
ud have to be nuts to say anything.. All women are crazy to a certain degree. i could see my gf using it against me in soo many ways
 
dawg4life said:
Its a catch 22 Bro...Ive been with my wife 4 10yrs and at Thanksgiving she blew the whole circle of trust thing...She has known the whole time we have been together and was never an issue..long story short is she is cool with it but when she smoked some strong ass purple kush she got chatty cathy and told my brother in law and about 4 other people that where at the house..Im not saying I wouldnt do it again but I would have been a little less detailed with the info..Just think hard b4 you do anything Bro...


wow thats rough. but is it really? are these inlaws hating you now? or are they just alittle more in the know about you? has there been reprocussions from her spilling the beans?

My Ex told my parents about ALL the 'less than legal' areas of my life when I kicked her out for stealing form me and doing blow behind my back. I was horrified to even see my parents afterwards, but you know what? they didnt care. its my life and Im hurting no one. Im well educated, financial stable and happy as ever....

Honesty is an amazing thing.
 
tupac said:
ud have to be nuts to say anything.. All women are crazy to a certain degree. i could see my gf using it against me in soo many ways


u would have to be nuts to be with a girl that would use anything against you. thats a one night stand kinda of slut/bitch. definately not one to have around for any length of time.. or to even have a conversation with.

I dont even have people around me that would info against me. crazy world.. with crazy people. stupid people
 
Ive been with my wife for a little over 10 years. We have only been married for about 15 months now.

I hid my use from her up until very recently.


The reasons behind me telling her were, A) I got tired of hiding things from my wife... going into the bathroom and hurrying through injections... hiding gear etc, and B) I had to explain the reason(s) why I was feeling a certain way.

Recently I went from a big bulker of 550Test/500Deca for about 15 weeks... and shortly after that went into a LONG cutter with Test/EQ/Winny, and I got my first gyno symptoms ever from that cutting cycle. I jumped on some letro, and it DESTROYED my sex drive. I dont know if the winny shut me down hard also, but I could care less about sex at that point.

Well my wife started making comments about how she didnt think I found her attractive anymore etc. So I felt like I needed to clear the air, because it got really bad there for a while.

I sat her down and I told her something like "Look baby, I never lie to you about anything, but there is something that I have NEVER told ANYONE, that I am tired of keeping from you and I feel that you really need to know".

Then I told her how many cycles I had done, and when... and explained to her why my sex drive was rediculasly low etc and made her feel a lot more comfortable about HERSELF. She also knows that I am a very smart individual and if I am going to do something like that, she knows I am going to be very safe about it. So she was really cool with it.

Now, my wife is bi-polar. We've had tons of problems in the past, which is really why I didnt ever want to tell her. Since I told her, we have gotten in a few verbal confrontations and she has thrown my use in my face 3 times. Each time I told her that my mood is not affected by what I am putting in my body, and that she will not throw it in my face again if she respects me and respects the fact that I told her something that NO ONE else knows. The 3rd time it happened I told her again, and I told her that I was "on" all last year and she never said ANYTHING about my mood or anything like that, so what she was saying now was rediculas and she needed to quit.

Since then she hasnt brought it up again, but she has made so many comments about my body. I get the feeling shes really happy now, and happy with what I am doing with myself. So I am not concerned with the fact that I told her.

I dont recommend telling a girl that you are JUST getting involved in, for reasons stated in previous posts. ALL women are fucking crazy. They will twist shit and use information against you if they feel the urge. So I would wait until a GOOD amount of time passes and you are both comitted to each other before i even CONSIDERED telling her. In short, make fucking SURE you can trust her... :jenscat
 
ok, here's the answer.. tell her it's HRT, you don't need to use the word steroids, just go about your business..

my wife has stuck me in the past, did it like 4 times, she just doesn't like to do it, but she 'll do IGF in my rear delts..

love that..

as long as i look good and the coppers don't come to the door, i'm golden..
 
looking to lean said:
wow thats rough. but is it really? are these inlaws hating you now? or are they just alittle more in the know about you? has there been reprocussions from her spilling the beans?

My Ex told my parents about ALL the 'less than legal' areas of my life when I kicked her out for stealing form me and doing blow behind my back. I was horrified to even see my parents afterwards, but you know what? they didnt care. its my life and Im hurting no one. Im well educated, financial stable and happy as ever....

Honesty is an amazing thing.

Yeah it's cool but I just didn't want anyone else knowing...They don't look at me diffrent or anything but I guess in some ways it kinda destroys the myths people have..They see me taking care of my wife and kids and being a loving dad kinda blows the whole " roid rage " theroy out of the water...
 
roid rage is nearly a myth. of course if you are an uncentred angry person, then the increased aggression from the juice is going to inflate that aspect.

if you are like myself, a centred, happy individual, AAS use will not make you angry at your loved ones. yes, you can become edgy, but who doesnt? AAS or not.

immortalis.... what a great post of real world application. thats exactly what Im talking about! if you care enough about them, then being honest (although hard to break the ice on the subect) is so much easier. K to you sir! but marrying a bi polar woman... sheesh... you do have alot of stength. my bipolar ex was the one that spilled the beans on my dark secrets to my parents.

since then I told myself I wouldnt have a serious relationship with any more uncentred woman. Centred one's are few and far between, but right after that I found my current girl friend. 2 years coming up in may...longest relationship ever (yay me). and I have never been happier with someone. and truthfully, we may not be together forever, but I can assure you that we wont if I was lieing to her.
 
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i made it alot simpler guys.. my gf already suspected for a while and told me that if she ever finds out i use she'll never forgive me and that only morons use gear.. so what i did was just break up with her.. a few hours later she came back and as far as she was concerned i could have been a heroin addict and it would still be ok.. (all this was last year in israel.. now i live in LA and after i have enough sex and do enough gear here i plan on going back and marrying her.. :Chef: )

im not sure this could happen with a girl u just met though.. it has to be a girl that loves u
 
BOOEY said:
you think you're going to like ?????

don't tell her shit.

LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HAHAHAHAHA!!! not sure yet
chics start to wear on me after a few weeks so i gotta cut'em loose. You know if treat a girl like dirt they stick like mud. lol
 
I dont plan on telling her anytime soon. Just preparing myself for the conversation. Im the type of person that before i do something I like to think about it ask questions and research.
 
errn247 said:
I dont plan on telling her anytime soon. Just preparing myself for the conversation. Im the type of person that before i do something I like to think about it ask questions and research.


good plan man. but do tell her if she is the right girl.... if not... "cut her loose" as I just read. tons of girls that want a ripped guy to fuck. that is what you want right? you arent with her for a serious relationship, correct? otherwise honesty would come naturally. you will never seen a guy be more honest or more of a liar when he wants something ;)
 
I am honest with girls...I tell them the shit at GNC is so close to the real thing, and I take injectables to spare my liver...Also the only reason people get grossed out is the word "steroids" I like to refer to them as "Performance enhancing supplements" hahah...also if a chick has small tits they always want implants, they dont NEED them just want...just like juice you dont NEED it but you WANT it...
 
..also if a chick has small tits they always want implants, they dont NEED them just want...just like juice you dont NEED it but you WANT it...[/QUOTE]

I like this one to.
Brad.
 
Id just say, look this is part of my life, its comes with the package.
 
looking to lean said:
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immortalis.... what a great post of real world application. thats exactly what Im talking about! if you care enough about them, then being honest (although hard to break the ice on the subect) is so much easier. K to you sir! but marrying a bi polar woman... sheesh... you do have alot of stength. my bipolar ex was the one that spilled the beans on my dark secrets to my parents.

since then I told myself I wouldnt have a serious relationship with any more uncentred woman. Centred one's are few and far between, but right after that I found my current girl friend. ...


I hear ya man. That's the reason why we dated off and on (many many offs, lol) for pretty much 10 years before I finally did it. I wanted to make sure that this was something I A)could handle and B)was just plain ready to deal with for the rest of my life. It took quite a long time, and a lot of work on both of our parts to get to the point where I felt comfortable taking it to the next step.

In all honesty, I should have left her alone after the first month. But my main problem (and also biggest asset) is the fact that I give up on NOTHING. I work hard at everything I do. Its my biggest pro, but yet my biggest con at the same time hehe.

:jenscat
 
My GF of 7 years recently found out about my gear use last month. She was looking through my work bag to find a pen and found a syringe. I walked in to the room, and she's holding up the syringe and says "what's this?..." At this point, I'm thinking to myself "f-u-ck me..ok this it...I'm going to tell her." So I took her by the hand and walked her to our bedroom and sat her down to talk.

To make a long story short, she is dissapointed in me for hiding it from her, but she says that I can make my own decisions. So basically she is O.K. with it. I opened the discussion to her and answered all her questions about my use and the risks/benifiets of AS. We then agreed that I need to go see a doctor to have blood work doen to ensure her that my body is ok. I also asked her to do some research on the internet and read up in it. (She did and read a bunch of negative stuff about it, which didn't help). We are going to have another sit down talk about my use lafter I finish my current cycle.

So anyways, I feel sooo much better now that she knows. I hated hiding that sh!t from her. It was always a pain to have to cover up any suspicions. Keep in mind, I plan on marrying this woman, so she is my future wife. I was planning to tell her soon, so I am glad I got caught.

If you two are just dating, then there is no need to tell her. If she is "the love of your life", then it's best to tell her.

Good luck!
 
fbodyguy02 said:
So anyways, I feel sooo much better now that she knows. I hated hiding that sh!t from her. It was always a pain to have to cover up any suspicions. Keep in mind, I plan on marrying this woman, so she is my future wife. I was planning to tell her soon, so I am glad I got caught.

If you two are just dating, then there is no need to tell her. If she is "the love of your life", then it's best to tell her.

Good luck!


HERE HERE!

awesome to hear. went about the same for my girl and I. altho I did not hide it from her for very long. I dont like to hide things. Im a terrible liar.... wanna play poker? :P
 
yeah but remember in canada it's not a social or legal issue the way it is in the states. they have a culture thats subtly different in many ways, they have a war on juice as a distraction policy, a rabid media jumping all over 'disgraced' athletes, a government who wants to legislate over grown men playing ball games and all the rest of the shit.

here you could pop dbol in the gym locker room and not get in trouble.. there if you did that, you'd be treated like a pedophile by LE.

it's understandable that something that's viewed by the average american idiot as shameful, morally repulsive and a disgusting act against God and the US way of life would be harder to share with your GF...
 
Don't mention it.
If she does, then say "it's something I've done, and I'll tell you more about it later, if we become closer".
I'll lie to save my job, save my life, or to stay out of jail, otherwise I keep it real.
 
Besides, it sounds like you haven't even been seeing this girl for very long. She has no business knowing at this point. Nothing good could come of you telling her. If you get engaged or something, then consider telling her. Definitely not at this point or she could fuck you over.
 
Tweakle said:
yeah but remember in canada it's not a social or legal issue the way it is in the states. they have a culture thats subtly different in many ways, they have a war on juice as a distraction policy, a rabid media jumping all over 'disgraced' athletes, a government who wants to legislate over grown men playing ball games and all the rest of the shit.

here you could pop dbol in the gym locker room and not get in trouble.. there if you did that, you'd be treated like a pedophile by LE.

it's understandable that something that's viewed by the average american idiot as shameful, morally repulsive and a disgusting act against God and the US way of life would be harder to share with your GF...


oh man... I really didnt even consider that. no kidding.

where I live, the cop that took my chronic last month at a road block (no fine, no nothing, just thanx for the good weed), is at my gym in the morning on a cycle that he got from his dealer with the buds that he took from me! ~hypothetically of course~

in the US... I probably would have been shot for pulling out the bag of weed to hand over to the cop.. when he 'thought i was going for a gun'
 
jochensa said:
dont tell her anything cuz everytime you arent all smiles she will blame it on the junk. and she will follow the masses and think that you take shortcuts to get your physique. when actually we work twice as hard when we are on.


that's so true, my girl knew I was using gear when we first started going out, then, due to personal reasons, I got depressed, quit juicing, started using a lot of recreational drugs and got really strung out,. She blamed it all on the steroids, go figure. So now, I just tell her I'm all natural and take a lot of prohomones which are legal and she doesn't say anything. Not worth the bullshit I'd have to put up with if I told her I was back on the stuff.
 
fbodyguy02 said:
My GF of 7 years recently found out about my gear use last month. She was looking through my work bag to find a pen and found a syringe. I walked in to the room, and she's holding up the syringe and says "what's this?..." At this point, I'm thinking to myself "f-u-ck me..ok this it...I'm going to tell her." So I took her by the hand and walked her to our bedroom and sat her down to talk.

To make a long story short, she is dissapointed in me for hiding it from her, but she says that I can make my own decisions. So basically she is O.K. with it. I opened the discussion to her and answered all her questions about my use and the risks/benifiets of AS. We then agreed that I need to go see a doctor to have blood work doen to ensure her that my body is ok. I also asked her to do some research on the internet and read up in it. (She did and read a bunch of negative stuff about it, which didn't help). We are going to have another sit down talk about my use lafter I finish my current cycle.

So anyways, I feel sooo much better now that she knows. I hated hiding that sh!t from her. It was always a pain to have to cover up any suspicions. Keep in mind, I plan on marrying this woman, so she is my future wife. I was planning to tell her soon, so I am glad I got caught.

If you two are just dating, then there is no need to tell her. If she is "the love of your life", then it's best to tell her.

Good luck!

"So I took her by the hand and walked her to our bedroom and sat her down and fucked her in the ass hole"
 
My ex-girlfriend was cool with it, I sat her down and had her watch the HBO Real Sports special on it, and encouraged her to do some of her own research. Surprisingly, she never blamed any of our arguments on the juice. I told her that if my personality changed at all, to let me know and I would just get off the cycle. It never did. The only catch is, she was a headcase and had anorexia/bulimia, which might have been part of the reason she "understood" my reasons for use.

The only problem is after we broke up, she decided it would be neat to tell all of her friends that I dumped her because she was "too fat" for me, and that I was insecure, and that's why I took AAS. All of which was completely untrue.

I guess the bottom-line is, I would not tell anybody about it unless I planned on spending the rest of my life with them, or if they straight out asked me. If you really think about it, the benefit of "coming clean" does not outweigh the risks/costs that may be associated with it. I just hope it doesn't come up with the girl I'm with now. She notices that all my shirts have suddenly gotten a lot tighter in the past 3 weeks, but I attribute it to food and extra protein/creatine, and she hasn't gotten the least bit suspicious.
 
Never tell a girl anything they are all to immature to handle this type of information,besides who wants a girl when they could have a women?!
 
errn247 said:
I am seeing this chic I think I am going to like. Dont wanna give up AAS just yet. How did yall tell your girl or girls to be about AAS?


Try this..while doggy style..stick it in her ass...HARD...then tell her, she wont really care...honestly..
 
CO B-man said:
Dont! Its a fact of life. All relationships start out with peaches and roses and everything nice. When they end most get bitter. Dont give her anything to use as fuel or you will be quitting AAS against your will behind bars. You should wait until you get to know her real well or until you are about to marry or maybe even never. jmo


AMEN!
 
Don't tell a g/f or anybody ur doing steriods, growing pot, cheating on ur taxes, doing insider trading ,or doing anything illegal at all. WTF, i never could understand why someone wants other people knowing that they are commiting crimes. there's allways a chain reaction to this shit .nobody(men or women) can keep a secret.
 
don't listen to this "don't lie if she asks" bs. they would rather not know shit like this EVEN IF THEY ASK. i repeat: they would rather not know. so oblige them. keep it to yourself. i have the coolest woman who i'd trust no matter what, but would i ever tell her? no. she's got enough shit to worry about.
 
CO B-man said:
Dont! Its a fact of life. All relationships start out with peaches and roses and everything nice. When they end most get bitter. Dont give her anything to use as fuel or you will be quitting AAS against your will behind bars. You should wait until you get to know her real well or until you are about to marry or maybe even never. jmo


Bitches are psycho. I try not to tell them my last name or let them know where I live until I'm sure they're trustworthy. This could take anywhere from 1 month to a year.

Don't even get me started on the wussy guys that hide their gear use from their wives/serious gf like I used to hide my nickle bag of ditch weed from my parents at 14 yrs old. Especially if I'm paying the rent, I'm gonna bring anything I want home-even if it's Anthrax or the Ebola virus and my old lady better not say jack shit!!! These guys living their secret juicer life are betraying their spouse or significant other by lying -or at least lying by ommission. I've said this a bazillion times here before-Another guy's dick in her ass that you don't know about or a needle in your ass that she doesn't know about. It's all the same shit-it's outright deceit no matter how you spin it or what your excues are. Simply put, betrayal comes in many forms and life is always a two way street.

And furthermore, if your game is so lame that you can't get a chick that accepts you as-is, bad habits and all, then you are a fucking chump(or you're unemployed, really ugly, or all 3). Karma is a boomerang guys. Don't forget it!!!
 
my girl stopped caring when i started fucking her for 6 hours at a time. after my cycle was over and i dropped back down to 7 minutes she was begging me to get back on the gear.
 
BigCracker said:
Bitches are psycho. I try not to tell them my last name or let them know where I live until I'm sure they're trustworthy. This could take anywhere from 1 month to a year.

Don't even get me started on the wussy guys that hide their gear use from their wives/serious gf like I used to hide my nickle bag of ditch weed from my parents at 14 yrs old. Especially if I'm paying the rent, I'm gonna bring anything I want home-even if it's Anthrax or the Ebola virus and my old lady better not say jack shit!!! These guys living their secret juicer life are betraying their spouse or significant other by lying -or at least lying by ommission. I've said this a bazillion times here before-Another guy's dick in her ass that you don't know about or a needle in your ass that she doesn't know about. It's all the same shit-it's outright deceit no matter how you spin it or what your excues are. Simply put, betrayal comes in many forms and life is always a two way street.

And furthermore, if your game is so lame that you can't get a chick that accepts you as-is, bad habits and all, then you are a fucking chump(or you're unemployed, really ugly, or all 3). Karma is a boomerang guys. Don't forget it!!!

Finally the bigcracker speaks! and with such wisdom. i feel the same way.

they dont need to know if you dont trust them.
if you dont trust them they shouldnt even be in your house.
if they are in your house and the dont trust them... get them the fuck out of there.
if you dont trust them and they LIVE in your house AND you tell her you love her AND you are lieing about juice (or anything)... YOU ARE THE PROBLEM.. not her. time for you to leave... or of course the more realistic solution... bye bye birdie....

grow a pair ladies..... or just keep them small and keep lieing to your 'loved ones'

good luck ladies.
 
errn247 said:
I am seeing this chic I think I am going to like. Dont wanna give up AAS just yet. How did yall tell your girl or girls to be about AAS?




Dont tell her shit, and i would deny it to the end. just tell her its genetics,i would down play it for life.. thats personal, i would never admit to doing it. maybe when or if i make it to 80 years old, and it still won't be to any bitch
This is funny because its like this situation comes with maturity. because when i was younger i would say in a minute especially when when i was 18. but i wisend up very quick, because i only admitted it to this one bitch. and after i did this i felt like shit wishing i kept my fucking mouth shut.
 
errn247 said:
I am seeing this chic I think I am going to like. Dont wanna give up AAS just yet. How did yall tell your girl or girls to be about AAS?


Half way through fucking ..
 
I'm in this pickle as we speak. Went I meet my girl three years ago, I was on gear and she knew about it. Well I ran into some job changing and kinda step out of working out for a year or so. In that time she told me that she never wanted me to do gear again. So recently I started taking gear again, because come on working out without it sucks!!! We are about to get married in August, there is no way I am telling her. I have no problem hiding the gear from her, my only problem is sharing the damn same checking account.
 
it's real simple. you can come clean, but make no mistake about it... IT WILL BITE YOU IN THE ASS. Now everytime my girl acts up and I get upset about it... you guessed it... "it's the steroids that's making me mad".
 
jcmule said:
I'm in this pickle as we speak. Went I meet my girl three years ago, I was on gear and she knew about it. Well I ran into some job changing and kinda step out of working out for a year or so. In that time she told me that she never wanted me to do gear again. So recently I started taking gear again, because come on working out without it sucks!!! We are about to get married in August, there is no way I am telling her. I have no problem hiding the gear from her, my only problem is sharing the damn same checking account.


Take a peak here before you walk the plank. http://www.nomarriage.com
 
simple, make sure you know that this bird is gona be around for a while then tell her if it comes up later on down the track
 
odoyal rulez said:
Try this..while doggy style..stick it in her ass...HARD...then tell her, she wont really care...honestly..


DONE!!!! thats some funny shit
 
don't say nothing, deny deny deny. my old lady found an empty wrapper of one of my terumo sticks. she has been asking me about all the steroid stuff on tv, and about greg valentino, of all people, she saw him on Tyra Banks. She makes comments that hint at her knowing. I just play dumb, and deny deny deny
 
I didn't tell my last few girlsfriends because i didn't want to discuss it or defend steroids. But they're eventually going to find a needle or a vial around the house. So my current knows, but I concentrate more on the improved sex life part of it because of Test and it works out ok. Reality is you don't want to lie, but to be fair, I did a bunch of times because I got tired of hiding shit in my gym locker or in the trunk. It does make shit easier if they know. But again as someone said, to many people don't konw the real facts and think of them as drugs
 
Really depends on 2 factors, how serious you are with the woman and how cool she is. My girlfriend has been my biggest supporter not only with gear but with life in general. Reading others experiences on here makes me realize how lucky I really am to have met someone like her. Plus during my last Test E/EQ cycle she popped out about 53 orgasms in 3 hours.. that never hurts either. hehehe :chomp:
 
Don't tell her and don't let her find out until you know her very very well and would accept it without prejudice. Otherwise it will come back to haunt you...

Any mood swings, arguments or bahavour change will blamed on the juice. Not worth the risk

Also, you guys in the US have a different law on steroids so she can rat you out (if you piss her off) and get you unwanted attention/trouble

If she suspects, deny, deny & hide the juice.. :evil:
 
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lifthard2005 said:
just be up front with her bro. if you hide it right from the start, then it is already dishonest at the start. if you like her and want to advance it at all, i would just be like, "there is something you need to know, and i dont want ot hide it from you, but i do use steroids to a degree." reassure her you know what you doing and be ready for questions. respect her response which ever way it goes

which is great till you break up and she hates you. "911, I know my ex bf uses AAS, he keeps them in his sock drawer"...happens all the time, dont tell her
 
I say don't say sh!t until you know you'll be keeping her!! if it's possibly justa short term thing then it becomes a problem as she may throw dirt on you after you break up!! so if it's a new gal just bite your tongue... there will come a time for telling secrets but the beginning isn't it!! do you know EVERYTHING about her??... then she doesn't NEED to know EVERYTHING about you!! and what she doesn't NEED to know won't hurt her and when the time comes you can explain your reasons why you didn't say it right off... and if she's cool enough to have had around long enough to drop all the truths on the table then she should be cool enough to understand!!


~Papa Lion~
 
CO B-man said:
Dont! Its a fact of life. All relationships start out with peaches and roses and everything nice. When they end most get bitter. Dont give her anything to use as fuel or you will be quitting AAS against your will behind bars. You should wait until you get to know her real well or until you are about to marry or maybe even never. jmo
thats some real advice there bro!!
 
Some good advice here so far. My chick found a receipt for my pins about 6-7 months ago. I said it was for vit B but she was suspicious ever since. I broke the news to her lightly coz i was sick of being dishonest since shes been my bitch for 4 years. I told her first I was only doing test with the excuse it is my natural male hormone and its available on precription just like the female hormones she takes every day in the pill. That did the trick!

Once she had accepted that i told her about some other gear I was on and showed her my EQ and winny. Its all about HOW you tell them and just convincing them you're responsible. Teliing your chick you use a cocktail of roids straight up is just looking for sh1t.
 
Wait until you have recorded some really filthy porn of you two having sex or maybe beating up some homeless people or something. Stuff with her face in it that would make her an internet legend in a few days, and give her dad a coronary. Then you have something to cancel out her potential future blackmails.

Or just never tell her, either way.
 
errn247 said:
I am seeing this chic I think I am going to like. Dont wanna give up AAS just yet. How did yall tell your girl or girls to be about AAS?



Wait until she asks about the raisins where your balls used to be, that's a good ice breaker.
 
Someday you lying guys will wake up and realize that your whole relationship is a facade-of course that's after you get divorced 2-3x. If you gotta hide your bad habits from your old lady you're just another statistically failed relationship/marriage waiting to happen.

Why is it guys feel that they need to have secrets??? And you wonder why the wife needs to have her girl's night out??? It's because her female senses detect your betrayal and she needs a night out to look for an upgrade.

Next time you jab yourself in secret, try to picture your lady sucking your best friend's cock. Now you know how betrayed she will feel when she finds out about your anabolic secrets. Chances are she'll suck a few cocks before she lets you know just to get added revenge.

BTW-all you guys that hide anything from your wives might as well just give me her phone number right now. After she catches you, she'll be calling a real man like myself. Why? Because I'm comfy in my own skin I'm so comfy that she'll appreciate my honesty and overlook my bad habits. She'll appreciate my honesty so much I'll have her doing ass to mouth w/o prior enema- while you're sitting home wanking to internet porn. I love being the other man. If it weren't for you pussies that lie and hide shit from your old ladies I wouldn't get laid half as much as I do. Keep it up. I've got quite a few nuts left in my throbbing love pole to force down her throat and gag her with.
 
it isnt even illegal here and I still dont come out and tell girls I date, too many misconceptions that I dont want the hassle, now if it were my wife and she asked I wouldnt lie but I wouldnt volunteer the information either. then I would hope I married someone with enough common sense to trust me
 
Just tell her the following....
Bitch you like the way I look ? So do I thats why im juicing... now go make me a sandwich.. lol
All kidding aside if u feel the need to tell her just mention ur on a small cycle thats safe and she need not worry ..
 
If you tell her and break up what's the point of having told her. If you stay together for along time every time you get into a fight she will throw it in your face or blame your "temper" on it. She'll spread rumors about you when you break up. If you get married, then get divorced... she'll use your drug use to win custody and have you tested for illegal drugs. Or have a private eye follow you, get pictures, and use it to extort everything out of you that you ever had.

Or she'll have her brother call your ISP saying he lost his password, she'll know all your info and SS#, then she'll see all the sites like this one, find your posts about it, and submit it to Court.

Sounds like a good time.

As someone in the matrimonial law field, I can guarantee to you that this stuff can and does happen all the time.

You must be very protective of your privacy at any and all times. He who lets his guard down WILL live to regret it.
 
BigCracker said:
Someday you lying guys will wake up and realize that your whole relationship is a facade-of course that's after you get divorced 2-3x. If you gotta hide your bad habits from your old lady you're just another statistically failed relationship/marriage waiting to happen.

Why is it guys feel that they need to have secrets??? And you wonder why the wife needs to have her girl's night out??? It's because her female senses detect your betrayal and she needs a night out to look for an upgrade.

Next time you jab yourself in secret, try to picture your lady sucking your best friend's cock. Now you know how betrayed she will feel when she finds out about your anabolic secrets. Chances are she'll suck a few cocks before she lets you know just to get added revenge.

BTW-all you guys that hide anything from your wives might as well just give me her phone number right now. After she catches you, she'll be calling a real man like myself. Why? Because I'm comfy in my own skin I'm so comfy that she'll appreciate my honesty and overlook my bad habits. She'll appreciate my honesty so much I'll have her doing ass to mouth w/o prior enema- while you're sitting home wanking to internet porn. I love being the other man. If it weren't for you pussies that lie and hide shit from your old ladies I wouldn't get laid half as much as I do. Keep it up. I've got quite a few nuts left in my throbbing love pole to force down her throat and gag her with.


LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!! Well said Bigcracka! :)
 
fbodyguy02 said:
LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!! Well said Bigcracka! :)

yo you really dont want to tell her. i dont care how much you think she is down.....she isnt. the moment you argue or when the moment is right it will be used as fodder. tell her you quit taking stuff and keep around prohormine bottle.........say you are taking that cuz it is legal. any womam that allows you to continue taking the juice doesnt care about you anyway.
 
jochensa said:
yo you really dont want to tell her. i dont care how much you think she is down.....she isnt. the moment you argue or when the moment is right it will be used as fodder. tell her you quit taking stuff and keep around prohormine bottle.........say you are taking that cuz it is legal. any womam that allows you to continue taking the juice doesnt care about you anyway.

Why isn't dumping that bitch an option to find one that's more understanding??? If you've got an old lady that thinks she has a say in what you do with your body you are one hen pecked wussy motherfucker. I'd rather play leapfrog with a unicorn than be at the mercy of some overbearing closed minded twat that doesn't know wtf she's talking about.

Man, you guys protect your supply of ass at all costs-even if it means comprimising your own integrity. Pathetic! I'd rather be celibate than have to revamp my lifestyle to keep my supply of tuna in check.
 
How do you tell your girl? You tell her with her head down and her ass up...

Honestly, it wasn't easy but i let her watch a documentary on youtube.com that had Romano from MD explaining what steroids are and helped seperate fact from myth. Good stuff. Dont know where it is anymore though!! :worried:
 
jetty said:
How do you tell your girl? You tell her with her head down and her ass up...

Honestly, it wasn't easy but i let her watch a documentary on youtube.com that had Romano from MD explaining what steroids are and helped seperate fact from myth. Good stuff. Dont know where it is anymore though!! :worried:


Youtube's been under fire lately for vids on how to grow dope, make meth, etc. So naturally(no pun intended) any propaganda promoting illegal drug use got the hook a few weeks back. The stuff will resurface eventually I imagine.

I also heard that youtube modified it's search feature to pull up public service announcements pitching the dangers of illegal drug use so they place higher than other drug related vids.
 
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