Pretty much works without me trying to make anything work. If I get approached I'm all good. If I approach I'm all thumbs. My kid is the ultimate wing midget. She's cute as hell, loves me to death, and there are a bunch of little things she only does around me, so womins see that as awesome. The thing they don't realize is that the only time they'll see my daughter is if they saw me in the store or at the park with her that one time. I'm a mama bear when it comes to that little critter.