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Holding a Girls Purse

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Sup y'all!

Hope errybudy's weekends went well.

just wanted to vent a little bit.

My buddy started dating this girl, and she's fairly attractive.
The only problem is, she keeps answering every question for him, and controlling him.

For example, when I asked him if he was drinking or not, she replied to me that he wasn't.

So, we went up to the bars, and his girlfriend says, "hold my purse", and gives it to him. She went to the restroom, did some talking, then finally came back. My buddy was holding that purse for over a good five minutes.

Was this some kind of test the girl gave him? Or is she just one of those people that really wants to control the person they're dating?

If he's happy this way, i'll let it slide, but I don't want another "Saving Silverman" movie re-inacted in real life here.

Chris, does smurf every make you hold her purse?

discuss.
 
LMAO this is so funny. No, I would never ask him to hold my purse like that out in public. That girl sounds like a real bitch.

BUT, we have this thing where when we are shopping together (grocery store, Costco, etc) he won't push the cart and especially if my purse is in the cart - no way Jose. It's so funny to me. I love to tease him about his aversion to cart pushing and purses. IN fact, the other day at Costco, i was pushing the cart, my purse was in the child seat spot and I say ;hey I gotta go pee, here push the cart while I'm gone: and he says ok/ So when I get back, he had moved my purse to the bottom of the cart so no one would see him pushing a cart with a purse in it. I cracked up. He's so cute and funny.
 
Smurfy is right, the girl is a bitch. Your buddy is a swv...no balls...clearly wants to be dominated; she prolly bends him over and fucks his ass with a strap-on too.

Tell him what Smurf and I said word-for-word, because it sounds like he needs a wake-up call.
 
I know Smurf is right. Smurf is always right. I know that my buddy is whipped too. I even joke around with him about it. We all do. But I don't want her trying to turn him against us all. He's been hanging out with us less and less lately....
 
Sounds to me like a bunch of insecure guys.

Then again I don't know this girl and can't see how she acts while asking him to hold her purse.

If I was with any girl and she politely asked me to hold her purse as a matter of convenience while she used a public restroom I would do it np.

It all really depends on the girl. Just because a girl asks you to hold her purse while she uses the restroom does not mean she is dominating you. That sounds like male insecurity. It all depends on the context. Plenty of guys think they are masculine, but real masculinity isn't worried about holding a purse for someone for a couple of minutes.

Now this "particular" girl sounds like she just might be a real bitch speaking for him and taking control of him. In that case he needs to man up to her and if she doesn't like it, ditch her.

Any man that has a problem pushing a cart with a purse in it is a real candy ass imo. It's not cute and funny. It's pathetic and insecure.
 
the last girl i "dated" asked me to hold her purse at ihop while she put her coat on. i just looked at her and calmly said "no".

she got all flustered and set her purse on the empty bench that was right next to us (what a problem solver!).

later she said "i am kinda pissed at you for not holding my purse for me while i put my coat on"

and isaid "and im kinda pissed thatyou would ask me to do that"

im not dating her anymore, mostly because she was overweight, but partially because she was a fuckin annoying retard
 
Sounds to me like a bunch of insecure guys.

Then again I don't know this girl and can't see how she acts while asking him to hold her purse.

If I was with any girl and she politely asked me to hold her purse as a matter of convenience while she used a public restroom I would do it np.

It all really depends on the girl. Just because a girl asks you to hold her purse while she uses the restroom does not mean she is dominating you.
That sounds like male insecurity. It all depends on the context. Plenty of guys think they are masculine, but real masculinity isn't worried about holding a purse for someone for a couple of minutes.

Now this "particular" girl sounds like she just might be a real bitch speaking for him and taking control of him. In that case he needs to man up to her and if she doesn't like it, ditch her.

Any man that has a problem pushing a cart with a purse in it is a real candy ass imo. It's not cute and funny. It's pathetic and insecure.


this.........

actually, your whole post is on point.
 
the last girl i "dated" asked me to hold her purse at ihop while she put her coat on. i just looked at her and calmly said "no".

she got all flustered and set her purse on the empty bench that was right next to us (what a problem solver!).

later she said "i am kinda pissed at you for not holding my purse for me while i put my coat on"

and isaid "and im kinda pissed thatyou would ask me to do that"

im not dating her anymore, mostly because she was overweight, but partially because she was a fuckin annoying retard


*applauds*

Not only should your man-card be renewed, it should also be upgraded to a gold card.
 
the last girl i "dated" asked me to hold her purse at ihop while she put her coat on. i just looked at her and calmly said "no".

she got all flustered and set her purse on the empty bench that was right next to us (what a problem solver!).

later she said "i am kinda pissed at you for not holding my purse for me while i put my coat on"

and isaid "and im kinda pissed thatyou would ask me to do that"

im not dating her anymore, mostly because she was overweight, but partially because she was a fuckin annoying retard

Lololololol
 
Sounds to me like a bunch of insecure guys.

Then again I don't know this girl and can't see how she acts while asking him to hold her purse.

If I was with any girl and she politely asked me to hold her purse as a matter of convenience while she used a public restroom I would do it np.

It all really depends on the girl. Just because a girl asks you to hold her purse while she uses the restroom does not mean she is dominating you. That sounds like male insecurity. It all depends on the context. Plenty of guys think they are masculine, but real masculinity isn't worried about holding a purse for someone for a couple of minutes.

Now this "particular" girl sounds like she just might be a real bitch speaking for him and taking control of him. In that case he needs to man up to her and if she doesn't like it, ditch her.

Any man that has a problem pushing a cart with a purse in it is a real candy ass imo. It's not cute and funny. It's pathetic and insecure.
I feel ya bro.
But "asking" and "telling" are two different things.
 
why carry a purse if your not gonna carry it? Why go to the restroom without ur purse, besides the obvious fact that one would need access to it for makeup freshening/touchups before leaving the RR. There's also purse hangers in stalls also shelves or seats/couch in ladies roomies where you can hang/leave purse from.
 
lol renewed? did i lose it at some point? :(

It's like a professional license; it has to be renewed every year, and can be subject to a tribunal of good bors should worthiness come into question. No worries, my man...you're a credit to the gender; your worthiness has never been in doubt. Some of the SWVs around here ,on the other hand...:)
 
Sounds to me like a bunch of insecure guys.

Then again I don't know this girl and can't see how she acts while asking him to hold her purse.

If I was with any girl and she politely asked me to hold her purse as a matter of convenience while she used a public restroom I would do it np.

It all really depends on the girl. Just because a girl asks you to hold her purse while she uses the restroom does not mean she is dominating you. That sounds like male insecurity. It all depends on the context. Plenty of guys think they are masculine, but real masculinity isn't worried about holding a purse for someone for a couple of minutes.

Now this "particular" girl sounds like she just might be a real bitch speaking for him and taking control of him. In that case he needs to man up to her and if she doesn't like it, ditch her.

Any man that has a problem pushing a cart with a purse in it is a real candy ass imo. It's not cute and funny. It's pathetic and insecure.

Your right but from the description it didnt seem polite and/or asking.....obviously if it was nice there are no issues with it. Sounds like shes just a bitch
 
I think the whole bitch part is completely independent of the purse thing.

she's a bitch, but saying here hold this while i go to the bathroom isn't emasculating in itself.

having your girlfriend answer questions for you is
 
I feel ya bro.
But "asking" and "telling" are two different things.

lol yeah i honestly dont hear the difference between a question and a statement when it comes to being someones personal coatrack/purserack

like if someone says "will u hold my purse" i still hear "hold my purse" and visa versa.
 
who fucking cares about holding a purse; rummage through her shit and have fun with it

LMAO i was just going to post this.

if shes asking you to hold it it gives you free reign to search through her shit, cellphone too even

when drunk youre the type to take this TOO far though and empty everything out on to the bar and walk away
 
Frankly, I think it's a lovely example of how rude people have become to each other, in general. Compound that with a general trend I've observed over the years, which is that a lot of couples start to forget the basic niceties and decorum of good manners, i.e., please, thank you, excuse me.

I've been with my husband 17 years now. We are extremely polite to each other, to the point of sounding old fashioned (anymore). Let's take the example of holding my purse while I go to the lady's room (I can think of many reasons NOT to take a purse into a lady's room, not all stalls have hooks and sometimes they don't have proper toilets but flushometers, then where do you put the damned thing?). I would say "Excuse me, honey," (wait until I have his attention, he has ADD) "would you please watch my purse for me?"

As to why watch the purse, every fucking thing I own is in there! Would you place your wallet on a bench while you're arms are tied up putting on a coat? Replacing credit cards and ID is an enormous hassle. It is so easy for someone to grab a purse and walk off with it, especially if the guy's attention is distracted say, talking to a buddy.
 
It's a purse, not a vial of anthrax.

As long as she's not asking you to carry it around while she's shopping, I dont see why anybody would refuse.
 
Fuck that shit. The only women that can make me do that is my mom and that's like just handing it over to her. That's some fruit loop crap. Like say, if they don't want to take it to the restroom, i'll tell them to drop that shit right next to me on the floor. I'll stand there guarding it, but I won't hold that, hell nah!
 
Fascinating to see so many young men so secure in their masculinity. My ex was like that, wouldn't buy me tampons, either.
 
wouldn't buy me tampons, either.

Nor should any man buy a woman tampons. Even if she's laid up with an injury or a flu, really...come on...it's not like it's a surprise that sprung up at the last minute unexpectedly; it comes every godddamned month around the same time, and has done so ever since the first one. There's no excuse for not being prepared with proper supplies.
 
Nor should any man buy a woman tampons. Even if she's laid up with an injury or a flu, really...come on...it's not like it's a surprise that sprung up at the last minute unexpectedly; it comes every godddamned month around the same time, and has done so ever since the first one. There's no excuse for not being prepared with proper supplies.

You'd be surprised at how many women have very irregular cycles. Everyone isn't on a 28 day routine.


But either way, once you've been together a while, buying tampons or whatever for your SO shouldn't be/won't be an issue. Sure, most all single guys say "eww no way, no how" but reality is, things change over the years.
 
Nor should any man buy a woman tampons. Even if she's laid up with an injury or a flu, really...come on...it's not like it's a surprise that sprung up at the last minute unexpectedly; it comes every godddamned month around the same time, and has done so ever since the first one. There's no excuse for not being prepared with proper supplies.

Wad up a shop towel and toss it to her if she asks u to get some tampons.
 
Nor should any man buy a woman tampons. Even if she's laid up with an injury or a flu, really...come on...it's not like it's a surprise that sprung up at the last minute unexpectedly; it comes every godddamned month around the same time, and has done so ever since the first one. There's no excuse for not being prepared with proper supplies.
Plenty of reasons, not excuses, I'll just pass on going into details. First thing that comes to mind is your period came a week early and you were going to pick up stuff at the store when you went shopping tomorrow.

Expecting a woman who is either ill or injured (or doubled up with cramps and flooding) to go out to go get feminine hygiene products when you are her (perfectly healthy) s/o is a dealbreaker in my book.
 
Fascinating to see so many young men so secure in their masculinity. My ex was like that, wouldn't buy me tampons, either.

I have bought tampons many times. It used to emberass me when I was in my 20's but now I am like what-f*cking-ever.

I do have one rule, I only go to the grocery store if I can go to the 10 item or less check-out. So if the wifey is calling for a tampon pickup, it better be before I hit 10 items.
 
I'm sorry...I'm just not buying any excuse...unless you are a shut-in for a very extended period of time (pun...lol), you should have PLENTY of tampons on hand. If I were a woman, I'd be picking up the super duper pack at Costco or whatever the hell...no reason not to have a full extra box in the on-deck circle in the cabinets under the bathroom sink, just like you'd have other items you KNOW you will be needing like toothpaste and soap. If you've been LAZY...you've PROCRASTINATED...I'm not going to reward that by doing your errand for you. I always have an extra bodywash, soap, shampoo, toothpaste, box of Q-Tips, mouthwash, razor blades, and dental floss on hand. Hell, I always have a new tootbrush in the on-deck circle too...JUST IN CASE I end up laid up and unable to leave the house for awhile, I will not have to ask somebody else to buy such items for me. Like Charlie Sheen was saying...PLAN BETTER.
 
You are right. My husband has no problem holding my purse--so sweet!

Sounds to me like a bunch of insecure guys.

Then again I don't know this girl and can't see how she acts while asking him to hold her purse.

If I was with any girl and she politely asked me to hold her purse as a matter of convenience while she used a public restroom I would do it np.

It all really depends on the girl. Just because a girl asks you to hold her purse while she uses the restroom does not mean she is dominating you. That sounds like male insecurity. It all depends on the context. Plenty of guys think they are masculine, but real masculinity isn't worried about holding a purse for someone for a couple of minutes.

Now this "particular" girl sounds like she just might be a real bitch speaking for him and taking control of him. In that case he needs to man up to her and if she doesn't like it, ditch her.

Any man that has a problem pushing a cart with a purse in it is a real candy ass imo. It's not cute and funny. It's pathetic and insecure.
 
I'm sorry...I'm just not buying any excuse...unless you are a shut-in for a very extended period of time (pun...lol), you should have PLENTY of tampons on hand. If I were a woman, I'd be picking up the super duper pack at Costco or whatever the hell...no reason not to have a full extra box in the on-deck circle in the cabinets under the bathroom sink, just like you'd have other items you KNOW you will be needing like toothpaste and soap. If you've been LAZY...you've PROCRASTINATED...I'm not going to reward that by doing your errand for you. I always have an extra bodywash, soap, shampoo, toothpaste, box of Q-Tips, mouthwash, razor blades, and dental floss on hand. Hell, I always have a new tootbrush in the on-deck circle too...JUST IN CASE I end up laid up and unable to leave the house for awhile, I will not have to ask somebody else to buy such items for me. Like Charlie Sheen was saying...PLAN BETTER.
How lucky for you that you can afford to over purchase. I too am now in such a financial situation. Once upon a time I was not.

As I said before, a man who will not pick up something like tampons or hold a purse for his s/o is not relationship material and from the few comments you've made recently, you're a real charmer, extremely emotionally mature, highly supportive and a considerate partner :rolleyes:
 
Translation of this thread, is Iggy has a girlfriend, finally. Iggy is a pussy, we already knew that.
 
How lucky for you that you can afford to over purchase. I too am now in such a financial situation. Once upon a time I was not.

As I said before, a man who will not pick up something like tampons or hold a purse for his s/o is not relationship material and from the few comments you've made recently, you're a real charmer, extremely emotionally mature, highly supportive and a considerate partner :rolleyes:



I've never asked a woman to go out and buy the condoms...just sayin'

And on the flipside of what you just said, I don't see someone so scatterbrained as to be down zero tampons the day their period hits to be relationship material either.
 
I've never asked a woman to go out and buy the condoms...just sayin'

And on the flipside of what you just said, I don't see someone so scatterbrained as to be down zero tampons the day their period hits to be relationship material either.

I ask bitches to buy me beer all the time. And I will even hold the whores purse while she goes to the counter to pay. :D
 
I'm sorry...I'm just not buying any excuse...unless you are a shut-in for a very extended period of time (pun...lol), you should have PLENTY of tampons on hand. If I were a woman, I'd be picking up the super duper pack at Costco or whatever the hell...no reason not to have a full extra box in the on-deck circle in the cabinets under the bathroom sink, just like you'd have other items you KNOW you will be needing like toothpaste and soap. If you've been LAZY...you've PROCRASTINATED...I'm not going to reward that by doing your errand for you. I always have an extra bodywash, soap, shampoo, toothpaste, box of Q-Tips, mouthwash, razor blades, and dental floss on hand. Hell, I always have a new tootbrush in the on-deck circle too...JUST IN CASE I end up laid up and unable to leave the house for awhile, I will not have to ask somebody else to buy such items for me. Like Charlie Sheen was saying...PLAN BETTER.


I know it's super hard to understand but there are times where some women cannot make it through 30 minutes with one tampon - trip to the store? come on now, have some compassion
 
lol at a faggot who is unwilling to hold a purse for a minute, or buy feminine shit at a store.

i'm a little self-conscious when doing these things, but it's only conditioning, and i don't let it stop me from doing a simple task.

if you can't handle that, you are far more of a bitch (to your own personality flaws) than you realize.
 
lol at a faggot who is unwilling to hold a purse for a minute, or buy feminine shit at a store.

i'm a little self-conscious when doing these things, but it's only conditioning, and i don't let it stop me from doing a simple task.

if you can't handle that, you are far more of a bitch (to your own personality flaws) than you realize.
I 'll beat you over the head with your purse hoe. Really thou nothing wrong with holding a ladies purse, damn I agree JA. If you have such homo tendencies that holding a purse makes you unconfortable, then holding the purse is the least of your worries.
 
LOL! everyone has a choice on what they want to do and don't do for the other person. Don't get all upset cause someone dosen't accept to do the same as yourself. You paint her toe nails too? Back then men were men. Not this gay shit you see nowadays. Some men lost thier pair along the way. I don't care what an individual does in thier personal life, but if asked, I'll say what I think. Love it or hate it.
 
I know it's super hard to understand but there are times where some women cannot make it through 30 minutes with one tampon - trip to the store? come on now, have some compassion

Again...HOW is it you only have ONE on hand when it hits? That's just piss-poor planning. Are you going to tell me you didn't notice there was only one left in the box at the end of your LAST PERIOD? Was the three weeks in between periods so busy that you didn't have time to go to a store? I'm assuming you went to a store to buy food in those three weeks, no?

See how silly that sounds? I'm not saying you should have to run to the store when you're gushing blood...I'm saying that you shouldn't have to run to the store when you're gushing blood, because you should already have them on hand.
 
Jesus can we please get off the topic of period blood, DAMN
 
Don't act like you haven't had plenty of it smeared on you before. We've all been there just to say we have at least once.
Okay but I usually stuff a pack of baby wipes in the leak and do her in her ass on these special moments.
 
I'm nearing 31, but godamn do I feel old fashioned sometimes.

I see guys that lack common politeness and consideration for their girls all the time.

I remember rock climbing, bouldering specifically and this guy and his girlfriend were climbing this steep, but sorta walkable section for warmup and she had never climbed before. After a couple minutes the guy up and leaves her 10 feet up on this steep ass climbing grade and goes completely out of sight.

I'm like 20 feet away fucking around trying to figure out how to climb this short problem and like 10 minutes goes by and I notice she hasn't moved. A couple minutes later her jackass boyfriend comes by and she says she is stuck and afraid and needs help to get down. He tries to verbally coach her down for a minute or 2 and then just tells her to climb her ass down while he up and goes off to another section.

Another couple minutes go by and I can tell she is trying to come down, but is scared because she could literally faceplant her pretty face into the concrete grade if she fell down.

Long story short I fucking walk over, climb the 10 feet up the grade and physically carry her down. She looked at me thankfully and I just smiled. She probably guessed what I was thinking, but in hindsight I shoulda just said ya know your fuckin boyfriend shoulda been the one to do this.

I see guys that have no idea what chivalry or taking care of your woman is all about. I'm a firm believer in you take care of me and treat me right and I'll for damn sure do the same.

Then again I'll take a woman's coat for her and hang it up or open the car door or any door for that matter. Women almost look startled all the time when I randomly open a door for them and let them walk ahead.

Men's and women's manners typically fucking SUCK ASS nowadays. Their is alot of misinterpretation as to what is feminine or emasculating. This typically comes from people that work office type jobs and have never actually worked physical labor or been in the military or actual been in a handful of fights. Basically guys that think they know what masculine is, but really don't have a fucking clue. I'm generalizing as I know plenty of guys that are masculine that haven't worked a grunt job or been in a fight, but alot of times it's guys that think they are masculine, but don't really understand what that actually entails. It certainly isn't treating your woman bad or refusing to do very "minor" things like hold her purse.

Masculine is being comfortable in your maleness to the point that your aren't concerned how you appear to other men and are confident in yourself. Telling your girl no to holding her purse for a couple minutes is just insecure and a misplaced idea of what masculinity is all about. You can literally be a gentleman to the extreme and still be very masculine without being machismo about it.
 
I'm nearing 31, but godamn do I feel old fashioned sometimes.

I see guys that lack common politeness and consideration for their girls all the time.

I remember rock climbing, bouldering specifically and this guy and his girlfriend were climbing this steep, but sorta walkable section for warmup and she had never climbed before. After a couple minutes the guy up and leaves her 10 feet up on this steep ass climbing grade and goes completely out of sight.

I'm like 20 feet away fucking around trying to figure out how to climb this short problem and like 10 minutes goes by and I notice she hasn't moved. A couple minutes later her jackass boyfriend comes by and she says she is stuck and afraid and needs help to get down. He tries to verbally coach her down for a minute or 2 and then just tells her to climb her ass down while he up and goes off to another section.

Another couple minutes go by and I can tell she is trying to come down, but is scared because she could literally faceplant her pretty face into the concrete grade if she fell down.

Long story short I fucking walk over, climb the 10 feet up the grade and physically carry her down. She looked at me thankfully and I just smiled. She probably guessed what I was thinking, but in hindsight I shoulda just said ya know your fuckin boyfriend shoulda been the one to do this.

I see guys that have no idea what chivalry or taking care of your woman is all about. I'm a firm believer in you take care of me and treat me right and I'll for damn sure do the same.

Then again I'll take a woman's coat for her and hang it up or open the car door or any door for that matter. Women almost look startled all the time when I randomly open a door for them and let them walk ahead.

Men's and women's manners typically fucking SUCK ASS nowadays. Their is alot of misinterpretation as to what is feminine or emasculating. This typically comes from people that work office type jobs and have never actually worked physical labor or been in the military or actual been in a handful of fights. Basically guys that think they know what masculine is, but really don't have a fucking clue. I'm generalizing as I know plenty of guys that are masculine that haven't worked a grunt job or been in a fight, but alot of times it's guys that think they are masculine, but don't really understand what that actually entails. It certainly isn't treating your woman bad or refusing to do very "minor" things like hold her purse.

Masculine is being comfortable in your maleness to the point that your aren't concerned how you appear to other men and are confident in yourself. Telling your girl no to holding her purse for a couple minutes is just insecure and a misplaced idea of what masculinity is all about. You can literally be a gentleman to the extreme and still be very masculine without being machismo about it.

i agree with you bro, its def women's fault like u said
 
LMAO i was just going to post this.

if shes asking you to hold it it gives you free reign to search through her shit, cellphone too even

when drunk youre the type to take this TOO far though and empty everything out on to the bar and walk away

see if they ever ask you to again :evil:
 
lol I'd never let a guy hold my purse...I take it everywhere with me. I'm way to private to let some dude hold my purse...my life is in there.
 
lol I'd never let a guy hold my purse...I take it everywhere with me. I'm way to private to let some dude hold my purse...my life is in there.
I'm sure it's more because of all the noodz you have of you stored on your cell phone. :D
 
lol I'd never let a guy hold my purse...I take it everywhere with me. I'm way to private to let some dude hold my purse...my life is in there.

This.

Plus, who goes to the restroom without their purse? Bathroom time is where I condense all the activities that I consider it rude to take care of in front of company - Check a message on my phone/return a text, touch up my makeup, etc.
 
I know it's super hard to understand but there are times where some women cannot make it through 30 minutes with one tampon - trip to the store? come on now, have some compassion

Nothing turns me off more than a man with no empathy...not unwilling but not capable of placing himself in another person's shoes. Too many signs that show that he has no emotion and I'm starting to eye the door.
 
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