hmm... anal question from a chick

[wavywoman]

I've been reading a lot of posts about guys liking anal... I was freaked out when I found out how much my boyfriend liked the idea, since I had no idea guys in general were so into it!
Well, we tried it ONCE and I HATED IT. He wasn't rough or anything, and put his finger in there first to stretch it a little, we used lube... It was still painful as hell, gave me cramps, made me feel like I had to run to the bathroom and have diarrhea, I wanted to like it so much (or at least tolerate it) since he was into it. I couldn't get the idea of "eew, nasty, he has his precious thing up my disgusting germy cornhole!". Since he's a caring person he stopped, figuring that I wasn't enjoying myself.
So guys/girls, how do you make this whole anal thing enjoyable? Is it something you're born with, or do the girls (recipients) have to work on it? Am I just an analphobic with a tightass?

 

[fiatconspiracy]

try this----- Get in the missionary position, but instead of his penis going in the vagina put just the head in the anus, and use either your hand or his hand to stroke the shaft, that way there is no "in-out" this is a good and non painfull way to enter (no pun ) the world of anal sex

 

[Mtime1]

Flamming....just want to add one thing. You are right in that most women need us guys to take it one step at a time and real slow. If you start out licking for a while,(a day, week, whatever) then the next step should be rubbing with your finger. After that some insertion with the finger.

With a lot of women it has to be a slow build up. Most of the women I've been with have enjoyed it.

 

[manny78]

So guys/girls, how do you make this whole anal thing enjoyable? Is it something you're born with, or do the girls (recipients) have to work on it? Am I just an analphobic with a tightass? [/B][/QUOTE]

should ask Jenna Jameson she probably has the answer...

 

[May1010]

RE: ANAL SEX




All I can say is that I think it's THE BOMB!!!

 

[wavywoman]

Man, I just don't get it...

Man, I just don't know if I will ever "get" why guys like anal so much. I can't get over the asshole=stinky shit=bacteria thing. All it makes me think about is hemmroids, infections, aids, gay men. I'm telling you, I can't describe how shocked I was when I realised the guy I'm seeing liked it so much. He was like "It's sooo dirty/forbidden".

 

[velvett]

I had a long and rather unexpected conversation about this topic over the weekend. What we've come up with is that within straight boy/girl relationships (or flat out sex) it's more about the dominance vs. submission that the actual *sex act*. That's not to say there are variables - because there are but if you we're to give a semi-blanket statement I think that about covers it.


Kinda like - *cough* the hook and the tail - but different.



HUZAH!

 

[Ffactor]

It takes getting used to. I agree with BPB though that once a girl gets experienced she enjoys it more than vaginal sex.

 

[8pack]

I've tried it on three girls. The first two said I was too big and it hurt. The third couldn't get enough. She even wanted me to give it to her in the ass while she used a vibrator on her clit That was incredible!! so I guess it depends on the girl..

 

[Buff_Lover]

I had a long and rather unexpected conversation about this topic over the weekend. What we've come up with is that within straight boy/girl relationships (or flat out sex) it's more about the dominance vs. submission that the actual *sex act*. That's not to say there are variables - because there are but if you we're to give a semi-blanket statement I think that about covers it.

Kinda like - *cough* the hook and the tail - but different.

In my opinion, you came up with the wrong answer. Dominance vs. submission has little to do with it. My last few ladies have freaking begged for it. They all get off a lot stronger from back door sex. They tell me it feels incredible. It's all about pleasure.