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HELP! my gf is not sexy :(

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TheOak84

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sure she looks good, but in the sac she needs help...

shes bad with dirty talk, cant change positions gracefully, and is opposed to anal.

i can sneak a finger in once and a while, or a quick rim job, but no penis in the butt...

also she hate rough sex, this past weekend we did it for a long time, i was super drunk but nailing her at a consistant rate of HARDCORE... thje next morning she said it was 'ok'... im like wtf, other women would kill for that...

she said it was like jackrabbit sex, some kind of Sex in the City lingo...

please help, she needs a sexual make-over...
 
TheOak84 said:
sure she looks good, but in the sac she needs help...

shes bad with dirty talk, cant change positions gracefully, and is opposed to anal.

i can sneak a finger in once and a while, or a quick rim job, but no penis in the butt...

also she hate rough sex, this past weekend we did it for a long time, i was super drunk but nailing her at a consistant rate of HARDCORE... thje next morning she said it was 'ok'... im like wtf, other women would kill for that...

she said it was like jackrabbit sex, some kind of Sex in the City lingo...

please help, she needs a sexual make-over...
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sounds like you need to hit it harder
 
Well, you should try something different...

Maybe she likes slow and sensual, maybe being drilled from behind makes her feel cheap.

I would ask her what SHE like and what she gets hot off of - please her and she'll be more interested in trying other things.
 
Is there 4-play involved, if so what kind, how long and include techniques that are used....we'll go from there.
 
much foreplay... in this story we came home from a party, all i remember is walking in my house and we were both naked... fucked for what seemd like hours, then talked about it.

when sober, there is much caressing, kissing and rubbing, no problems there, im sure she would have said something..

maybe shes just not dirty?
 
TheOak84 said:
much foreplay... in this story we came home from a party, all i remember is walking in my house and we were both naked... fucked for what seemd like hours, then talked about it.

when sober, there is much caressing, kissing and rubbing, no problems there, im sure she would have said something..

maybe shes just not dirty?
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I think you just answered your own question. I had an ex that was the exact same, the really shy and embarresed easily type. Do you know of how many partners she's had before you?
 
velvett said:
Well, you should try something different...

Maybe she likes slow and sensual, maybe being drilled from behind makes her feel cheap.

I would ask her what SHE like and what she gets hot off of - please her and she'll be more interested in trying other things.
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Slow and sensual sucks. I mean it's okay for a change of pace and when you want to be a little tender, but I can't imagine having to screw like that all the time. I'd rather get a fuck doll.
 
go soft and push it super deep, then do the hip thrust where ur pelvis rubs against hers, then pretned like ur going nice and slow and then BOOM!!!! really fucking hard and bruise the SHIT out of her hips and then start going super fast and so shell be screaming in pain and pleasure and itl be funny as shit
 
pdaddy said:
I think you just answered your own question. I had an ex that was the exact same, the really shy and embarresed easily type. Do you know of how many partners she's had before you?
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im her first, its been about 2 years now.
 
nycgirl said:
Sounds like the two of you are not sexually compatible.

Can she cook?
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Sex is all that matters. Everything else will fall into place. LOL
 
nycgirl said:
Sounds like the two of you are not sexually compatible.

Can she cook?
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It wouldnt matter if she could cook..what good is a nice steak dinner if you cant have hot rough monkey sex afterwards
 
the first guy I had sex with, we dated for 3 years. It was probably the most boring sex ever. She's had no experience other than you, so she's going to be shy in bed. It took me a few years and a few partners to actually figure out what was going on, what I really liked, how I liked it, what guys liked, etc.

I NEVER even considered anal with my first. It was totally out of the question. doggy style seemed kinky at the time. lol She just has to be TOTALLY comfortable in bed to try anything new. Don't push it with her, take it slow, and talk to her about it. tell her it's something you REALLY want to try with her because it's just that more intimate, and you want that with her. Then tell her if she doesn't like it, then you won't bother her again about it.

Make it about her in bed, and you'll eventually get anything you want :) Make her feel special, that you love her, and that you don't just want a quick fuck out of her whenever you have the urge. The last thing she wants to feel, is cheap... you'll NEVER get anything else out of her if she does.

And when you do... invest in an economy size of lube, and make sure she's COMPLETELY comfortable, otherwise she'll tighten up, and it will hurt like a MOTHER FUCKER, and you may as well join the priesthood. haha
 
TheOak84 said:
sure she looks good, but in the sac she needs help...

shes bad with dirty talk, cant change positions gracefully, and is opposed to anal.

i can sneak a finger in once and a while, or a quick rim job, but no penis in the butt...

also she hate rough sex, this past weekend we did it for a long time, i was super drunk but nailing her at a consistant rate of HARDCORE... thje next morning she said it was 'ok'... im like wtf, other women would kill for that...

she said it was like jackrabbit sex, some kind of Sex in the City lingo...

please help, she needs a sexual make-over...
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Either get a new chick or start screwing whores ..............................
 
Ask her if she'd like to start exploring other areas...

...like the ear canal.

It's pre-waxed, so that's a plus....
 
TheOak84 said:
sure she looks good, but in the sac she needs help...

shes bad with dirty talk, cant change positions gracefully, and is opposed to anal.

i can sneak a finger in once and a while, or a quick rim job, but no penis in the butt...

also she hate rough sex, this past weekend we did it for a long time, i was super drunk but nailing her at a consistant rate of HARDCORE... thje next morning she said it was 'ok'... im like wtf, other women would kill for that...

she said it was like jackrabbit sex, some kind of Sex in the City lingo...

please help, she needs a sexual make-over...
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ROLE PLAY RAPIST ;)
 
So I'm assuming she's sort of young? Seriously most girls either do everything under the sun because that's what they've come to "learn" that this is what "makes them popular w/ the guys", i.e. sluts who have sacrificed self-esteem to peer pressure, or are raised as "good girls' and even if they've seen stuff like anal & what not on the internet, probably consider it what hookers do.

And maybe the rough stuff is really uncomfortable for her. And maybe she's not comfortable w/ it. Or she may be responding relative to what is her ideal sex (the slow sensual stuff).
 
Well, I think that lots of women like the slow sensual stuff more. We sort of like to warm up slowly. For me, the grinding is much more stimulating than just being pumped really hard and fast. It's just hard to come that way. I think it would be just fine if sometimes you do it her way and sometimes she does it your way. This is what I try to do in my own relationship, because my guy likes it pretty rough, too.
 
All girl are like this if they're cold. You have to warm her up slowly, and then ramp it up to full bore as the sex goes on. You try some anal in the heat of it, not right when you come home "Hey honey can I put it in your ass tonight?"
 
HeatherRae said:
Well, I think that lots of women like the slow sensual stuff more. We sort of like to warm up slowly. For me, the grinding is much more stimulating than just being pumped really hard and fast. It's just hard to come that way. I think it would be just fine if sometimes you do it her way and sometimes she does it your way. This is what I try to do in my own relationship, because my guy likes it pretty rough, too.
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forgive me if i sound stupid, but id figure the best way to keep a female around is to do it how she likes it all the time. when they do what i like it makes me feel like they dont enjoy it and im annoying them. this is a serious statement here not bein an asshole.
 
markshark said:
forgive me if i sound stupid, but id figure the best way to keep a female around is to do it how she likes it all the time. when they do what i like it makes me feel like they dont enjoy it and im annoying them. this is a serious statement here not bein an asshole.
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So, you rarely get to do what you like?
 
Hard-Bitten said:
So, you rarely get to do what you like?
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yea because i dont ask...i have some need to want to keep them around so i do whatever i can to try and please them but it usually never works in my favor too often...i dont know how guys can just take a girl, fuck her 80 different ways in one night while she rolls her eyes the entire time and acts bored, and then walk around actin like theyre the shit. id feel fucking embarassed. if i just do what they want i dont have to worry about embarassment or them not liking me.
 
markshark said:
yea because i dont ask...i have some need to want to keep them around so i do whatever i can to try and please them but it usually never works in my favor too often...i dont know how guys can just take a girl, fuck her 80 different ways in one night while she rolls her eyes the entire time and acts bored, and then walk around actin like theyre the shit. id feel fucking embarassed. if i just do what they want i dont have to worry about embarassment or them not liking me.
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You shouldn't ask.
You gotta have a smooth transition...
and sex is about what BOTH of you and your partners want.

I just hope the girls you fuck are ' adventures ' or some of the ' needs' you want. :/ because majority of the girls just wanna do the old fashion missionary or maybe Strap-On Sex Positions
 
I don't think it hurts to talk about what each of you likes either. If my guy is just so damn turned on that he just wants go at it hard & heavy, maybe there is a time for that. Hey I dunno, how about you go to some quality strip place, get mega turned on & horny and can barely make it in the door to close the deal? Hard & heavy on the stairs doesn't sound so bad all of a sudden (make sure your stairs are carpeted people!)

The thing about sex is that when you are both on the same page, it is fuckign fantastic. If you aren't sure the guy / girl likes what you are doing, then that feelign of "us" degradign to "you" & "me" sort of messes up the vibe. That's where communication helps fill in the gap.
 
markshark said:
forgive me if i sound stupid, but id figure the best way to keep a female around is to do it how she likes it all the time. when they do what i like it makes me feel like they dont enjoy it and im annoying them. this is a serious statement here not bein an asshole.
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Well, Mark, if your girl cares about you, she will enjoy doing the things that you like too. Just because it isn't the most stimulating position, etc for us does not mean we are annoyed or not having a good time. For example, going down on a guy is sexy because you know he is really loving it, not because it particularly feels good to us. Both people should get their needs met or what is the point?
 
well just haul that lil pssy back to us while your givin us head and we can make it a very pleasurable experience for you.
I :heart: 71
 
jeez this is me off cycle and not having touched a weight/drug/cardio anything 4 3 weeks
scary
 
Oak, y'all seem to need to have a serious conversation because it sounds like she's not so nuts about things, either, seriously. I know you're a giver god and all, but if she's going, "well, it was alright," that's not a glowing report card honey.

If you can't TALK about sex then you don't need to be HAVING sex, that's like the oldest rule in the book. But the thing is, you don't talk about sex IN the bedroom, EVER. I'll tell ya the best place, IMO, to have a frank conversation about sex. Long car ride. Kind of a neutral location, captive audience, assurance of no interruptions and complete privacy.
 
musclemom said:
Oak, y'all seem to need to have a serious conversation because it sounds like she's not so nuts about things, either, seriously. I know you're a giver god and all, but if she's going, "well, it was alright," that's not a glowing report card honey.

If you can't TALK about sex then you don't need to be HAVING sex, that's like the oldest rule in the book. But the thing is, you don't talk about sex IN the bedroom, EVER. I'll tell ya the best place, IMO, to have a frank conversation about sex. Long car ride. Kind of a neutral location, captive audience, assurance of no interruptions and complete privacy.
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:FRlol:

I love you.
 
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