help a guy out

[tinytank]

ok , my problem is after i split up with my girlfriend,i have found it hard to get another ! I mean i personaly think its my hight cause at 5ft2 im not the tallest in the world, and acording to this web site girls think hight is more important thn anything so any tips on how to score with this slight disatvantage ?? so like what i can use.im18, muscular build ,dark hair blue eyes.

 

[*MissFit*]

go for short women

 

[tubob]

Your a Scot mate we have the gift of the Gab, nae problems

 

[tinytank]

really, cause something tht i have noticed is the small woman go for the big guys, and the tall girls go for smaller guys ??? dont ask me y, they just do! I mean last night after the clubs closed, we went to a chippy !!(yes all u CLEAN diet freaks) a chippy! (chipshop/ burger bar) !and i know the guy there ,and he locked up and we all started danceing in there turned up the music!! it was so strange tht it was like 3am, and a bunch of drunks dancing in the shop it was great, anyway this reall tall girl+myself were grindin, and ok yes i went hard, and she felt and said I know what u need, and went back to her place!!! and she was probably about 5,9 !! so i think the key is either u r a good dancer, or just let them know u like em !!!!lol it worked for me !! so canadian cutie, have ever tryed a smaller guy ??? I need to stop this whole cute thing cause its kinda pissing off, i mean i get no-where with it(exept head) but it dose anoy me!!!so any tips on how not to be cute plz !!!!

 

[*MissFit*]

I'm 5'6 i don't like tall guys but 5'9-5'11 is perfect

 

[tinytank]

all right all right, just rub it in now why dont u !!! lol , i have read something u wrote about a guy not doing what everyone else is doing, would u say tht u do things tht make u differnt to everyone else? that make u stand out ??

 

[USMC fighter]

I wouldnt worry about it tank, any chick that wont overlook something like height, is a chick you dont need, shit im a whopping 5ft6 and ive dated women 5ft9, and they never seemed to mind

 

[tinytank]

I wouldnt worry about it tank, any chick that wont overlook something like height, is a chick you dont need, shit im a whopping 5ft6 and ive dated women 5ft9, and they never seemed to mind

lol, kl cheers for the feed back and well i mean, i have said before tht i get away with cute but i fucking get fed up with cute !! and i dont care too much on my hight! its things like what happend last week, this girl came up to me in the club and said "ur a bit short r nt u?" i looked at her and said yeah bit still way more thn u can handle!! which pissed off her B/F which made him comment on my hieght thn we had a little scrap.he ripped off my shirt, which was pritty cool cause then i kinda did my lean forward and tense all my muscles thing .but thn the bouncers came over and pritty much beat us both up !! this is like my nights out !!! AND R U TELLING ME THT U HAVE NEVER HAD ANY PROBLEMS WITH UR HIGHT ?? HONESTLY !!!

 

[nutsnack]

I'm 5'6 i don't like tall guys but 5'9-5'11 is perfect

I'm 6'6" and hung like a frickin zoo animal!!! Doesnt that count?

 

[USMC fighter]

I had a chick in HS who said i was hot but too short for her.........so i fucked the shit out of her best friend! She had the nerve to act jealous, so i got a real kick out of that.

 

[tinytank]

NICELY, done.. and can i just say tht wing man thing tht was posted on this website. really dose work !!!

 

[theoak01]

!!! AND R U TELLING ME THT U HAVE NEVER HAD ANY PROBLEMS WITH UR HIGHT ?? HONESTLY !!!

Im 5'6 and get shit over my height,but like usmc said,any girl who gets hung up on something so superficial as height can sod off any how.

I take more shit from guys over my height as Im a 5'6 bouncer lol

 

[toxicsambo]

really, cause something tht i have noticed is the small woman go for the big guys, and the tall girls go for smaller guys ??? dont ask me y, they just do! I mean last night after the clubs closed, we went to a chippy !!(yes all u CLEAN diet freaks) a chippy! (chipshop/ burger bar) !and i know the guy there ,and he locked up and we all started danceing in there turned up the music!! it was so strange tht it was like 3am, and a bunch of drunks dancing in the shop it was great, anyway this reall tall girl+myself were grindin, and ok yes i went hard, and she felt and said I know what u need, and went back to her place!!! and she was probably about 5,9 !! so i think the key is either u r a good dancer, or just let them know u like em !!!!lol it worked for me !! so canadian cutie, have ever tryed a smaller guy ??? I need to stop this whole cute thing cause its kinda pissing off, i mean i get no-where with it(exept head) but it dose anoy me!!!so any tips on how not to be cute plz !!!!

It's tough to say since there are no "standards" but a girl below your own height may be the best bet. I'm 5'10" and I usually attract girls who are 5'1"-5'6". I don't know why, but it just happens. Girls over 5'8" always go to my friend who is 6'2". But we both know we like shorter girls. Petite and tight is perfect. Who wants to go to bed with a girl who has big ass feet?

If you're a good talker, not a wannabe player, just know how to hang out and carry good conversation while slipping in nice compliments, then most girls will give you a chance. Focus your attention on her and remember tiny bits of info that can lead to more conversation will show that you're interested in her and you're not full of yourself. Just be cool, kick back, and enjoy the company. The stink of desperation is noticed by a woman 100 miles away. If you're just kicking it and having a good time, she'll be more relaxed and not looking to put up her gloves.

 

[tinytank]

but a girl below your own height may be the best bet. ok did u read the bit about me being 5ft,2 ?? getting a girl smaller thn me is pritty hard !!inless im going to date some school-girls lol!!!

 

[tinytank]

Im 5'6 and get shit over my height,but like usmc said,any girl who gets hung up on something so superficial as height can sod off any how.

I take more shit from guys over my height as Im a 5'6 bouncer lol

dude i was going to get a night job as a bouncer, untill a bouncer like 12 miles away a bouncer got stabbed and pulled into a car, then thrown over a bridge onto a motorway! l8r the found out tht man wanted did the murder because he was refused into tht club 2 weeks before !! tht is scarey shit !! do u guys have stab-proof vests ?? demand them !!

 

[theoak01]

its not bad enough I need one where I work,its mainly college kids and the other ones we get im not worried about,Im confident enough in my training I can survive a knife attack.

if your looking for door work in scotland check out moraysecurity.com,a good company in scotland,and if your in the right area maybe they will hook ya up with work,Glen the owner is a stand up man

 

[tinytank]

its not bad enough I need one where I work,its mainly college kids and the other ones we get im not worried about,Im confident enough in my training I can survive a knife attack.

if your looking for door work in scotland check out moraysecurity.com,a good company in scotland,and if your in the right area maybe they will hook ya up with work,Glen the owner is a stand up man

cheers pal, but i think because im tiny it will just cause more conflict thn it would if like say a 6,3ft guy was on the door. and be honest do u get a thrill out of beating up drunks??cause i mean i think i would like the power of being a bouncer, but i understand tht i will get my ass kicked alot of the time. and hey i will send u my msn,in a private email, cause i really want to give it a go.
thnks again TT

 

[theoak01]

lol dude Ive been in like 5 actualy exchanges of fists on the door,3 of which when I was working alone and ran out of options, the others were fights I was breaking up.

you gotta use you words man and be calm and most of the time they will leave.force is a last resort and when its needed you take a few guys and grab and limb and walk

 

[tinytank]

lol dude Ive been in like 5 actualy exchanges of fists on the door,3 of which when I was working alone and ran out of options, the others were fights I was breaking up.

you gotta use you words man and be calm and most of the time they will leave.force is a last resort and when its needed you take a few guys and grab and limb and walk

ok what would u do if a guy standing at the bar, took his c@ck out and pissed on the bar ??? cause my brothers m8 did tht and the bouncers took him out side kicked him in the balls, and kicked him while he was on the ground, 1 bouncer kicked him in the head ! he had a black eye and a broken nose. lol .true story

 

[theoak01]

I actually had a similar situation when I was fairly new to running the doors, this guy came in all cracked out and went up to a table of people I knew and whipped his cock out,I asked him to leave he wouldnt, I grabbed his wrists since I didnt wanna touch his hands that were just on his cock and he broke free, so I put him in a head lock and started dragging him out and he broke free again(crazy strength on drugs)

anyway he took a run at me,but I got him in a clinch and threw alot of knees and elbows ,finally got him outside and he grabbed me and pulled me to the ground, thankfully I was on top as he was just swinging like mad, at this point I blacked out and the next thing I remember was my buddy tackling me off of this kid.

the kid was out cold and even had a go at the cops when they came(someone across the road called them) I didnt even get questioned and I split this guys eye pretty good.

I will say I dont condone this but I was working alone and had no other options,yes I had a buddy there but he is really tiny and not aggressive at all,Im suprised he even got me off the kid.

 

[USMC fighter]

I used to like to use a bit of humor to get people out the door, kinda made it fun for them, lol

 

[theoak01]

ya thats the best way,and usually they come back next week and appologize for being a ass

 

[tinytank]

ya thats the best way,and usually they come back next week and appologize for being a ass

y is it tht bouncers use there knees all the time ?? i did feel for bouncers untill my friend and some random got fighting , and i just stood in the middle, holding out my arms shouting calm down calm down , and when the bouncers ran to the rescue, i got thrown out and my friend got to stay !!!whats up with tht !!

 

[theoak01]

you got thrown out of the way because they didnt want you to get hurt,and they are paid to sort it,thats all.

as for knees,I prefer it as its effective and close range,and I learned how to utilize it from training, I guess its comparable to a boxer using a hook

 

[LANA]

but a girl below your own height may be the best bet. ok did u read the bit about me being 5ft,2 ?? getting a girl smaller thn me is pritty hard !!inless im going to date some school-girls lol!!!

Have faith. I (5'7) dumped my 5'10 boyfriend for my 5'3 husband. We've been marrid for 2 years now have a little boy and one on the way.
What can i say.. he make me laugh plus he's cute...lol

 

[tinytank]

Have faith. I (5'7) dumped my 5'10 boyfriend for my 5'3 husband. We've been marrid for 2 years now have a little boy and one on the way.
What can i say.. he make me laugh plus he's cute...lol

thnks for the support, and i am cute , but most girls r not looking for cute !! they r looking for tall dark and handsom !! so hes only 5,3 ?? dose tht cause any problems ??

 

[LANA]

I never thought that i would ever go for someone shorter than me..
but God said.. nope .. love is not vain..
so of course not, no problems.. our wedding pics look kinda funny... but who cares.. i know i dont'

 

[KIAN]

You don't have to say something or be a particular height to attract someone. All you need is confidence. Some of my mates are between 5'-10" and 6'-4" but when they walk into a room, you wouldn't even notice them. It is all about confidence in yourself as you currently are. If someone looks at you in a negative way, just give them a big smile and ask them how they are as you walk past. Much better than looking at the floor and finding a dark corner to stand in. When people see that you are confident in yourself they will approach you to find out what it is that makes you so special at 5'-2".

Since you are 18, you still have a couple of years left of growing to do but just let that happen on its own. Work on your confidence in the meantime.

For starters:

• Change your username to GiganticTANK
• get rid of the worm avi and put up your confident face pic for the ladies to see what they are missing
• and put a positive spin on everything

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KP -- Fitness Basics

 

[tinytank]

You don't have to say something or be a particular height to attract someone. All you need is confidence. Some of my mates are between 5'-10" and 6'-4" but when they walk into a room, you wouldn't even notice them. It is all about confidence in yourself as you currently are. If someone looks at you in a negative way, just give them a big smile and ask them how they are as you walk past. Much better than looking at the floor and finding a dark corner to stand in. When people see that you are confident in yourself they will approach you to find out what it is that makes you so special at 5'-2".

Since you are 18, you still have a couple of years left of growing to do but just let that happen on its own. Work on your confidence in the meantime.

For starters:

• Change your username to GiganticTANK
• get rid of the worm avi and put up your confident face pic for the ladies to see what they are missing
• and put a positive spin on everything

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KP -- Fitness Basics

k dude will do , im a little cocky though... i can tell that i really does work cause ok i get alot of attention cause of my height , but becuause someone might like laugh or that i have stepped upto them, and made a fool of em, happens like every 2nd week.lol

 

[bicepts101]

k dude will do , im a little cocky though... i can tell that i really does work cause ok i get alot of attention cause of my height , but becuause someone might like laugh or that i have stepped upto them, and made a fool of em, happens like every 2nd week.lol

he said confident not cocky...theres a fine line

regardless....short guys can get the short chicks. i would never dat a girl taller than me ever...i cant do it....if u like taller women then thats your preference and good for u. but u, indeed, like smaller women than shit shoot for the shorties

my 4'11 girl...im5'11: thats quite a height difference but who cares?

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[tinytank]

he said confident not cocky...theres a fine line

regardless....short guys can get the short chicks. i would never dat a girl taller than me ever...i cant do it....if u like taller women then thats your preference and good for u. but u, indeed, like smaller women than shit shoot for the shorties

my 4'11 girl...im5'11: thats quite a height difference but who cares?

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really, i would defo go for a girl smaller than me !! lol hard to find a girl that is shorter than me

 

[Hunter7]

dont know where your clubbing mate but all the girls thru my end are always too pissed up to give a fuck what height ye are lol

 

[LANA]

I wouldnt worry about it tank, any chick that wont overlook something like height, is a chick you dont need, shit im a whopping 5ft6 and ive dated women 5ft9, and they never seemed to mind

I totally agree.

 

[tinytank]

dont know where your clubbing mate but all the girls thru my end are always too pissed up to give a fuck what height ye are lol

really which part of scotland do u cum from ?

 

[tinytank]

I totally agree.

really... even 5,ft2 ??

 

[Hunter7]

Im from Dundee

 

[tinytank]

Im from Dundee

lol no way son... im from st andrews... i will meet u in fatties one night.. what do u say about that.

 

[mrdeeznuts]

he said confident not cocky...theres a fine line

regardless....short guys can get the short chicks. i would never dat a girl taller than me ever...i cant do it....if u like taller women then thats your preference and good for u. but u, indeed, like smaller women than shit shoot for the shorties

my 4'11 girl...im5'11: thats quite a height difference but who cares?

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i'm sorry but i want ur 4'11 girl