Have you ever dumped a girl because she A. Stopped the pill B. Wouldn't swallow

[plornive]

I know I am going to sound like a right ass-hole, but what the fuck...

First, she started the pill without any suggestion by me, acting as if I should treat her like a little princess because of it. Fair enough. But then she suddenly stopped the pill, one day after I fucked her, which is incredibly stupid. I never suggested the pill in the first place, but now it is just annoying to use a condom and doesn't feel as good.

Secondly, she won't swallow.

I say this is grounds for dumping her. What do you say?

 

[Ashamed]

I dumped 2 gils that wouldn't let me do doggy-style... it's my favourite position so it would never have worked for that reason.. they gave great blow jobs...

I dumped one girl for having a smelly fanny... never could work out what the smell was, she was very clean and bathed alot.. but it didn't smell right...

 

[Citruscide]

LOL -- a smelly fanny? ewwww

I think I didn't date a girl because I found out her name was Patrice... I was making out with her at a bar, and when I woke up, her name/number was Patrice -- I just couldn't date a chick named Patrice.

As for swallow/non-swallow... been pretty fortunate on that route... most of the honies I have dated have swallowed.

C-ditty

 

[Pamela]

I know I am going to sound like a right ass-hole, but what the fuck...

First, she started the pill without any suggestion by me, acting as if I should treat her like a little princess because of it. Fair enough. But then she suddenly stopped the pill, one day after I fucked her, which is incredibly stupid. I never suggested the pill in the first place, but now it is just annoying to use a condom and doesn't feel as good.

Secondly, she won't swallow.

I say this is grounds for dumping her. What do you say?

I would say yes..

Not the reasons that you stated;
but you are not compatible.

 

[Gymgurl]

These are not reasons to dump someone....but you should because it kinda sounds like your looking to get out!

 

[sh4dowf4lcon]

smelly fanny? that does suck... & no I haven't

 

[Christopher X]

Going on and coming off the pill without discussing it with you isn't really on - not grounds for splitting up exactly, but it does point to deeper issues of trust and communication. As to the swallowing issue - I suspect that if all was well between you, it would be less of an issue (in that you'd both be more prepared to make some compromises).

So, unless you can sort things out between you, on these issues and perhaps on other, bigger ones as well, then I'd say yes, end it - not exactly for the reasons that you give but because it's clearly not working well.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Hmmm... if a girl won't swallow she is very sexually pent up in my opinion, and I wouldn't find myself in a situation where I was dating such a woman. Now, as far as the pill issue goes, if you had both agreed she would be on the pill, and she stopped without discussing it with you, that is something to think about. You have poor communication in this relationship, and that is a sign that perhaps you should rethink if you want to remain with this person long-term.

 

[SoKlueles]

Ok bbf....i have a problem with a certain thing you are saying....if she wont swallow she is sexually pent up?? I totally disagree. I have never swallowed. I dont know that I wont but I have never. I tried it once and spit it out..cuz it was ucky.....Not that i was sexually pent up....i didnt like the taste of it.

 

[juve]

If a girl refuses to swallow why would you even bother?! That's like rejection in my book.
Relationship is built upon communication and generalized reciprocity; yours seems to lack both.

Taste shouldn't even be an issue, men are at a worse end. Think, we (men) supply you with highest quality, human grade protein. Women are like diet coke but without the sweetener - no nutrients whatsoever and salty