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jnevin

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So I'm getting into bed last night, and the wife-ish tells me she's feeling really guilty because one of the guys she works with saw one of her boob pics on her phone. I asked her how he saw it,like over her shoulder, went through her pics, etc., and she said she sent it to him.

<<Why did you send it?

>>I don't know... he asked me to.

<<You know everyone you work with is going to have that now.

>>I feel dumb.

<<I feel pissed.

>>I knew you would.


Now, why the hell would it seem ok for her to do that? I know the guy, they're not flirty, and she's really not the type to do this. She said she had the pic on there to send to me, and he asked her to send it. I mean, I'm pissed, but I'm more curious about the thought process associated with this dumb fucking move.

Not too happy that a bunch of retard personal trainers probably have boob pics of my wife-ish right now either.
 
I wouldn't stress over it.
 
jnevin said:
I'm not, really. I'm more confused than anything.

Yeah, I guess I would be too. Thinking back to when I was married.
 
wtf? that explanation just plain sucked. it took some extensive dialogue to get a titty pic, bor. happens to me all the time here..........
 
Let's see - she's a poor decision maker (just judging by this snippet of info I am privy to), doesn't think before she acts and isn't necessarily logical.

So, basically she's a woman.

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That wasn't meant to bash women, it was simply meant to highlight the fact that men and women are wired ENTIRELY different and women do not always act as logical/rational as men do.

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That wasn't meant to bash women either, it was simply meant to communicate the fact that you CANNOT attempt to understand/analyze something a woman does thru the typical man's eye or point of view. It just doesn't make sense.

It was a stupid, immature and irresponsible move on her part. Simple as that. If she was apologetic and realized it was not smart for several reasons (most importantly - it's effect on you) then let it slide.

If it happens again, then it's talkie talk time
 
covergrl80 said:
reading this thread made me want to send pictures of my tits to my man...So I did.

Send a few this way too please. I never share. :)
 
covergrl80 said:
nope! can't do that

Thanks anyway! If you get mad at him or something and want to get even, don't hesitate to change your mind! ;)
 
KillahBee said:
Let's see - she's a poor decision maker (just judging by this snippet of info I am privy to), doesn't think before she acts and isn't necessarily logical.

So, basically she's a woman.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
That wasn't meant to bash women, it was simply meant to highlight the fact that men and women are wired ENTIRELY different and women do not always act as logical/rational as men do.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
That wasn't meant to bash women either, it was simply meant to communicate the fact that you CANNOT attempt to understand/analyze something a woman does thru the typical man's eye or point of view. It just doesn't make sense.

It was a stupid, immature and irresponsible move on her part. Simple as that. If she was apologetic and realized it was not smart for several reasons (most importantly - it's effect on you) then let it slide.

If it happens again, then it's talkie talk time


Yeah. That's why I'm not really pissed about it. She is kind of a pushover, the guy is a friend of 10 years to her, it was just dumb. She couldn't sleep it was bugging her so much, she said she'd sleep on the couch, etc. I've done a ton of stupid things that I'd think would be unforgivable during my booze/ coke years (never cheated) that she forgave.

They're great boobs and cost me a lot. I'm just not thrilled that it will be a chain text in her gym.
 
chalk it up to there being no good explanation for her doing that. she purely did not think at all before acting. she acted on an impulse and thought about the consequences later I suppose. she came clean to you about it, she said she felt stupid, do you feel she is being sincere? do you feel that, otherwise, she is trustworthy? if the answer is yes, then dont take this to a level that could be damaging. either way, DO keep this in the back of your mind.
 
jnevin said:
Yeah. That's why I'm not really pissed about it. She is kind of a pushover, the guy is a friend of 10 years to her, it was just dumb. She couldn't sleep it was bugging her so much, she said she'd sleep on the couch, etc. I've done a ton of stupid things that I'd think would be unforgivable during my booze/ coke years (never cheated) that she forgave.

They're great boobs and cost me a lot. I'm just not thrilled that it will be a chain text in her gym.

Sounds like you got a good woman there. She didn't even have to tell you.
 
She sent pics of her breasts to another guy...hmmmmm.

Are you serious??

She has no respest for you and wants to impress this guy and get his attention so she can fuck him.

Yeah its blunt, but it's true.
 
biteme said:
Sounds like you got a good woman there. She didn't even have to tell you.


WTF???

A good woman????

I guess when she sucks this guy off, then goes home to hubby. if she tells him then it's ok, because she's a good woman??
 
TC2 said:
WTF???

A good woman????

I guess when she sucks this guy off, then goes home to hubby. if she tells him then it's ok, because she's a good woman??

Exactly! She loves her husband, so she feels guilty. ;) Otherwise, she wouldn't say anything.
 
TC2 said:
She sent pics of her breasts to another guy...hmmmmm.

Are you serious??

She has no respest for you and wants to impress this guy and get his attention so she can fuck him.

Yeah its blunt, but it's true.


Eh... sure.

She's not really the type that needs to try to get attention.
 
Smurfy said:
chalk it up to there being no good explanation for her doing that. she purely did not think at all before acting. she acted on an impulse and thought about the consequences later I suppose. she came clean to you about it, she said she felt stupid, do you feel she is being sincere? do you feel that, otherwise, she is trustworthy? if the answer is yes, then dont take this to a level that could be damaging. either way, DO keep this in the back of your mind.


I do feel that it was a bad choice and that she is being sincere. I didn't get into it last night because I'd probably have said something mean.
 
jnevin said:
Eh... sure.

She's not really the type that needs to try to get attention.

Bro no offence to your wife but THEY ALL ARE.

do you think she sent them to him because she wanted to talk about Brad and anglina's new baby??

Or maybe a rousing discussion about the upcoming bird flu epidemic??
 
Let's not overanalyze this people....

Wife shows breasts to another man.

Maybe I'm old school but how the fuck can anybody ever justify(even with womens fucked up logic) that???
 
TC2 said:
Bro no offence to your wife but THEY ALL ARE.

do you think she sent them to him because she wanted to talk about Brad and anglina's new baby??

Or maybe a rousing discussion about the upcoming bird flu epidemic??


No, I know what you mean about the attention. That's a given. Knowing her, wang wasn't her motivation. She just did some dumb shit. She didn't go on one date when we separated for a year, we actually were divorced, still are. I'll just have to see how it pans out. Fuggin dumb though. I'll give her that.
 
TC2 said:
Let's not overanalyze this people....

Wife shows breasts to another man.

Maybe I'm old school but how the fuck can anybody ever justify(even with womens fucked up logic) that???
unacceptable. what next? a live show in the john?
 
The one constant is the sad clinging to the belief that your s/o is the exception.

She did it. She is that kind of person. Far more likely than her just "fessin up" was the fear that you were going to hear about in anyway.

Apply reason. No one just "sends" nude pics to people they know. It is done for a reason. There aren't that many so it isn't like you have to sort through a few dozen to find the right one. Somehow I suspect if he was a short,fat, ugly 300lb guy she would have found it in herself to say no when he asked.

Just a guess:)
 
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Are you friends with said guy? I'd be pissed if some guy was running around asking to see pics of my woman's tits. A punch in face would be in order.

How did this guy even know she had them on there? She must have said something to him about it. and why was she talking to this guy about her tits to begin with. I mean it's not like every woman walks around with titty pics on their phone in hopes that someone will ask.
 
sublime35 said:
How did this guy even know she had them on there? She must have said something to him about it. and why was she talking to this guy about her tits to begin with. I mean it's not like every woman walks around with titty pics on their phone in hopes that someone will ask.


Bingo.
 
It'll be an interesting talk when she gets home. I just don't get the logic behind it. It was kind of odd the way she brought it up though. She said,"You remember when you were doing drugs and not telling me, and you felt bad about it?"

I mean, my misery, depression, and abuse was my personal pain and anguish, not a cock pic to a stripper. It's like she was already pointing the finger at me. For what? I work too much? *grumble*
 
Phenom78 said:
The one constant is the sad clinging to the belief that your s/o is the exception.

She did it. She is that kind of person. Far more likely than her just "fessin up" was the fear that you were going to hear about in anyway.

Apply reason. No one just "sends" nude pics to people they know. It is done for a reason. There aren't that many so it isn't like you have to sort through a few dozen to find the right one. Somehow I suspect if he was a short,fat, ugly 300lb guy she would have found it in herself to say no when he asked.

Just a guess:)


Sorry, but I have to agree with Phenom, read and read this post.

"She didn't go on one date when we separated for a year"

Don't beleive that shit for a min, maybe she didn't go on a "date" but you bet your ass that she fucked some other guy to "help her get over you".

I've seen that shit a million times.
 
jnevin said:
It'll be an interesting talk when she gets home. I just don't get the logic behind it. It was kind of odd the way she brought it up though. She said,"You remember when you were doing drugs and not telling me, and you felt bad about it?"

I mean, my misery, depression, and abuse was my personal pain and anguish, not a cock pic to a stripper. It's like she was already pointing the finger at me. For what? I work too much? *grumble*


Sorry Bro but she's full of shit.

At minimum she's a shameless attention whore. More likely she's hoping to encoruage a less benign interest. Before you get all pissed off at him understand that this didn't happen in a vacuum. She has no doubt left out a great deal of that and prior conversations. Edited to make her look better.
 
jnevin said:
It'll be an interesting talk when she gets home. I just don't get the logic behind it. It was kind of odd the way she brought it up though. She said,"You remember when you were doing drugs and not telling me, and you felt bad about it?"

I mean, my misery, depression, and abuse was my personal pain and anguish, not a cock pic to a stripper. It's like she was already pointing the finger at me. For what? I work too much? *grumble*

so in her brain, that's the same thing??

Go fuck some skank stripper ing the ass, come home fuck her, then after you're done tell her you feel bad but "remember that time that you burned dinner".
 
sublime35 said:
Are you friends with said guy? I'd be pissed if some guy was running around asking to see pics of my woman's tits. A punch in face would be in order.

How did this guy even know she had them on there? She must have said something to him about it. and why was she talking to this guy about her tits to begin with. I mean it's not like every woman walks around with titty pics on their phone in hopes that someone will ask.

I guess I'm just not that jealous.
 
sublime35 said:
Are you friends with said guy? I'd be pissed if some guy was running around asking to see pics of my woman's tits. A punch in face would be in order.

How did this guy even know she had them on there? She must have said something to him about it. and why was she talking to this guy about her tits to begin with. I mean it's not like every woman walks around with titty pics on their phone in hopes that someone will ask.


I know him. I will probably end up talking to him about this too.

I'm trying to figure this out. Fucking dumb.
 
biteme said:
I guess I'm just not that jealous.

it's not jealously, it's respect and it's not like she's just talking to one of her male friends either.

that's just begging for problems and there's nothing "innocent" about it.
 
jnevin said:
I know him. I will probably end up talking to him about this too.

I'm trying to figure this out. Fucking dumb.

Talk??

If some prick spoke to my girl even remotely sexual(yeas asking for tit shots is sexual)...I'd pull his spine thru his mouth no questions asked.
 
To me, that's a bad sign for the relationship. If she does that and then tells you about it, to me it sounds like she's trying to get attention from YOU. Which is a sign she feels pretty ignored/neglected. Doesn't make any sense for a woman to send a nude pic to a guy at work who she's friends with and then tell you about it if she's trying to cheat on you with the guy.

Women are much too smart and sneaky for that. I don't buy the argument that she wasn't thinking, a woman will always think about something like that before doing it, but her REASON for doing it is what she didn't think through clearly. She's trying to communicate with you though bud.
 
TC2 said:
Talk??

If some prick spoke to my girl even remotely sexual(yeas asking for tit shots is sexual)...I'd pull his spine thru his mouth no questions asked.

Whoa there nelly! There are laws against that kind of stuff. You don't want to end up in prison. I Think that's a just a tad bit of over reacting.
 
well it's hard to segue into "i sent a boob shot", she wasn't trying to even the score.

that's why i don't like women who are pushovers... they can get themselves into bad spots
is that guy the kind of shady "friend" that's always trying for more? She won't sleep around but if say he kisses her drunk she'll probably be too "nice" to tell him off properly and just go around feeling guilty.
no, give me a little bitchy with some claw.
 
bran987 said:
To me, that's a bad sign for the relationship. If she does that and then tells you about it, to me it sounds like she's trying to get attention from YOU. Which is a sign she feels pretty ignored/neglected. Doesn't make any sense for a woman to send a nude pic to a guy at work who she's friends with and then tell you about it if she's trying to cheat on you with the guy. Women are much too smart and sneaky for that. I don't buy the argument that she wasn't thinking, a woman will always think about something like that before doing it, but her REASON for doing it is what she didn't think through clearly. She's trying to communicate with you though bud.


I knew the minute I typed the word "stripper" bran's search would lead him here.

That's what I was thinking. I'm starting to get more pissed at him for pressing the issue. Maybe I'll get the hell out of here and golf so I don't kill someone when she gets home.
 
biteme said:
Whoa there nelly! There are laws against that kind of stuff. You don't want to end up in prison. I Think that's a just a tad bit of over reacting.


if they dont find the body there's no crime, just a missing person.
 
Island Son said:
well it's hard to segue into "i sent a boob shot", she wasn't trying to even the score.

that's why i don't like women who are pushovers... they can get themselves into bad spots
is that guy the kind of shady "friend" that's always trying for more? She won't sleep around but if say he kisses her drunk she'll probably be too "nice" to tell him off properly and just go around feeling guilty.
no, give me a little bitchy with some claw.
good point.
 
biteme said:
I guess I'm just not that jealous.


well i guess that's part of my problem, I am. One reason why i'll never probably be married. i just don't trust very many women.

Me and a buddy were talking about this. A girl he was fooling around with, who had a boyfriend, asked him about why he didn't have a girlfriend. He said "because no woman deserves what I have to give and I can't trust them" She said "well that's kind of arrogant isn't it?" He said "maybe, but look at what you're doing" She just replied "oh, yeah, i see your point".

Why am I going to bust my ass trying to keep some female happy, that I put my trust in to, to have her turn around and do something like what J's gf/wife did?
 
Jnev, still don't understand how boob shots on a camera phone come up in general conversation at work? And then to transfer them to a male co-worker?

There's something more to this, I'm sorry to say.
 
redguru said:
Jnev, still don't understand how boob shots on a camera phone come up in general conversation at work? And then to transfer them to a male co-worker?

There's something more to this, I'm sorry to say.


Personal trainers, especially the guys, are in my mind the same as strippers. Same mentality. They all talk about randy shit all the time. fuggin hell. I dunno.
 
Island Son said:
well it's hard to segue into "i sent a boob shot", she wasn't trying to even the score.

that's why i don't like women who are pushovers... they can get themselves into bad spots
is that guy the kind of shady "friend" that's always trying for more? She won't sleep around but if say he kisses her drunk she'll probably be too "nice" to tell him off properly and just go around feeling guilty.
no, give me a little bitchy with some claw.


Men excuse far too much bad behavior with the naive premise that they are simple helpless creatures easily led astray.

The average woman would run circles around most men. We have far less practice. Not because we are better, but because we tend to confront these things less intellectually and more instinctively. Usually with force.

the only one who is being manipulated is jnevin
 
women
 
TC2 said:
She sent pics of her breasts to another guy...hmmmmm.

Are you serious??

She has no respest for you and wants to impress this guy and get his attention so she can fuck him.

Yeah its blunt, but it's true.
thats what i was thinking.

if i had a girlfriend and she did that, wed be over.

or id say "its over"

and if she cried and screamed enough i MIGHT take her back.
 
jnevin said:
It'll be an interesting talk when she gets home. I just don't get the logic behind it. It was kind of odd the way she brought it up though. She said,"You remember when you were doing drugs and not telling me, and you felt bad about it?"

I mean, my misery, depression, and abuse was my personal pain and anguish, not a cock pic to a stripper. It's like she was already pointing the finger at me. For what? I work too much? *grumble*
wtf dude thats super fucked up.

she started off her FUCKUP with pointing out something u did in the past?

yell at her
 
TC2 said:
so in her brain, that's the same thing??

Go fuck some skank stripper ing the ass, come home fuck her, then after you're done tell her you feel bad but "remember that time that you burned dinner".
lolol
 
jnevin said:
Had the talk. She left crying. I'm livid. Going to the gym.
why did she leave crying?

give us details

what are u gunna say at the gym.

fuckng girls that cry and make you feel guilty when THEY FUCKED UP- realy piss me off alot
 
SublimeZM said:
why did she leave crying?

give us details

what are u gunna say at the gym.

fuckng girls that cry and make you feel guilty when THEY FUCKED UP- realy piss me off alot


She left crying because she said she knew she fucked up, that it was stupid and disrespectful, and she never should have done it. I confirmed said thoughts and added that her friend/ coworker never should have asked her for the pics to begin with. The original pic convo was started by another coworker saying she will send pics to her BF. Mine said she does that to me sometimes, he asked for a pic, she sent, immediately regretted it. :rolleyes: She likened it to me getting a lapdance, which I have not since being with her (8 yrs). I said fuck no because I don't work with the lap dance provider, don't see them every day, am not a friend with them, and they haven't met you, had dinner at your house, been golfing with you, and knew you got back together with your spouse. No answer to that one.

I go to a different gym. I have a lot more to lose than a retard balance ball pushup coach if I went to that one and did what is going through my head.

And, yeah. She started crying and made it sound like I'm the asshole for being upset. Christ. I should follow tiger's lead and turn :rainbow: .
 
jnevin said:
She left crying because she said she knew she fucked up, that it was stupid and disrespectful, and she never should have done it. I confirmed said thoughts and added that her friend/ coworker never should have asked her for the pics to begin with. The original pic convo was started by another coworker saying she will send pics to her BF. Mine said she does that to me sometimes, he asked for a pic, she sent, immediately regretted it. :rolleyes: She likened it to me getting a lapdance, which I have not since being with her (8 yrs). I said fuck no because I don't work with the lap dance provider, don't see them every day, am not a friend with them, and they haven't met you, had dinner at your house, been golfing with you, and knew you got back together with your spouse. No answer to that one.

I go to a different gym. I have a lot more to lose than a retard balance ball pushup coach if I went to that one and did what is going through my head.

And, yeah. She started crying and made it sound like I'm the asshole for being upset. Christ. I should follow tiger's lead and turn :rainbow: .
dont apologize to her no matter what dont let her win.

dont say the words "forgive" either. try and take her lead and be all emo about it and be like questioing everhting "i cant believe u did this u must nto really care about me" type shit so she feels guilty and cant turn it on u

she stormed out crying cuz she sent out her titties to people rofl
 
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oh wow, then what you are all saying is any woman who is in a relationship considered to be exclusive, and sends nude pics of body parts to men, is a lying, cheating, manipulating woman-whore and you would dump her because it is truly a sign of much more trouble??

that doesnt say much for the "taken" female members this board who have sent titty, ass and pussy pics to male members now does it?
 
Smurfy said:
oh wow, then what you are all saying is any woman who is in a relationship considered to be exclusive, and sends nude pics of body parts to men, is a lying, cheating, manipulating woman-whore and you would dump her because it is truly a sign of much more trouble??

that doesnt say much for the "taken" female members this board who have sent titty, ass and pussy pics to male members now does it?
no, it doesnt. i stand by it, none of it is aceptable.

if i was in a relationship and sent dickpics then i wo uld have fucked up just as bad as this lady.

i woudlnt send a pic of my cock unless i wanted someone to comment on it and make me feel good about it.

when in a relationship the only person u should seek attention from in such a manner is from the perosn ur in the relationship with.

otherwise get the fuck out and be polygomous instead of lying to yourself and another human by saying ur in a relationship
 
Wow. She just made a bad choice. I dont' know how her relationship is w/ other guys but if she's known this guy for a long time, she probably didn't think too much of it for a split second and then regretted it immediatley. It was totally stupid & thoughtless but it doesn't sound like it was intentional or meant to hurt you.

Its an interesting aspect of all the technology we have and the easy ability we have to share thigns now & less attention to who sees than we did pre-MySpace. People need to be more responsible w/ all these new toys.

J- I'm sure she feels like absolute shit about it. If the guy is a "friend" then he might have the decency to just recognize that he was a fuck for asking for a copy of it and will delete it & not send it around. I would at least ask the guy - she can or you can or whatever -- just as a thing a friend woud respect.
 
SublimeZM said:
no, it doesnt. i stand by it, none of it is aceptable.

if i was in a relationship and sent dickpics then i wo uld have fucked up just as bad as this lady.

i woudlnt send a pic of my cock unless i wanted someone to comment on it and make me feel good about it.

when in a relationship the only person u should seek attention from in such a manner is from the perosn ur in the relationship with.

otherwise get the fuck out and be polygomous instead of lying to yourself and another human by saying ur in a relationship
Totally true. I agree with everything you have said here.

Now, let's try to figure out how many of our favorite female posters & mods have engaged in such discretions right here on this board with many of the male posters of this thread.

Care to make any guesses?
 
Smurfy said:
Totally true. I agree with everything you have said here.

Now, let's try to figure out how many of our favorite female posters & mods have engaged in such discretions right here on this board with many of the male posters of this thread.

Care to make any guesses?
75% of them most likely.

the worlds too fucked up
 
I would like to add in my two cents (again) -

if it wasn't for girls cheating on their significant others, I would never get laid.


okthxbye
 
KillahBee said:
I would like to add in my two cents (again) -

if it wasn't for girls cheating on their significant others, I would never get laid.


okthxbye


I.e. you've found your purpose?
 
Bran is right, shes looking for attention from YOU

Well thats what I thought originally, but this whole blame you and then storm out shit is messed up.

8 years, and you keep saying wife-ish, are you , or are you not married? Maybe someone is looking for false justifications to get out of the relationship?

Most people in a relationship that long cant simply drop it and move on, the whole song and dance procession is required, this could be the beginning of that.

.. or maybe were all just overanalyzing =p
 
lol at the women automaticly jumping to her defense and saying it was a "bad choice"

A bad choice is me ordering a double cheeseburger when I'm cutting, not sending nude pics to my co worker.

And double LOL and fuckin bitch women trying to turn shit around and get pissed and make the man feel guitly about her fuck up.

yet one more reason I have zero respect for 99% of women.
 
TC2 said:
lol at the women automaticly jumping to her defense and saying it was a "bad choice"

A bad choice is me ordering a double cheeseburger when I'm cutting, not sending nude pics to my co worker.

And double LOL and fuckin bitch women trying to turn shit around and get pissed and make the man feel guitly about her fuck up.

yet one more reason I have zero respect for 99% of women.
rofl ur posts in this thread are awsome

" A bad choice is me ordering a double cheeseburger when I'm cutting, not sending nude pics to my co worker."
 
"They're great boobs and cost me a lot"

Oh fuck......I didn't even see this part.

I don't normally advocate violence towards women but WTF??? she showed some prick "male friend" her breasts that YOU FUCKIN BOUGHT!!!!

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*smashes head into keyboard repeatedly*
 
TC2 said:
lol at the women automaticly jumping to her defense and saying it was a "bad choice"

A bad choice is me ordering a double cheeseburger when I'm cutting, not sending nude pics to my co worker.

And double LOL and fuckin bitch women trying to turn shit around and get pissed and make the man feel guitly about her fuck up.

yet one more reason I have zero respect for 99% of women.
heh. wow. well since you have women all figured out, your woman must be perfect!
 
Smurfy said:
heh. wow. well since you have women all figured out, your woman must be perfect!

actually she's one in a million, I was single for almost 4 years because I refuse to put up with womens bullshit, especially that trying to turn shit around on you because they fucked up nonsense.

And I DO have women all figured out, that came from years and years of watching their bullshit unfold.
 
TC2 said:
actually she's one in a million, I was single for almost 4 years because I refuse to put up with womens bullshit, especially that trying to turn shit around on you because they fucked up nonsense.

And I DO have women all figured out, that came from years and years of watching their bullshit unfold.
awesome.

you should write a book!
 
TC2 said:
actually she's one in a million, I was single for almost 4 years because I refuse to put up with womens bullshit, especially that trying to turn shit around on you because they fucked up nonsense.

And I DO have women all figured out, that came from years and years of watching their bullshit unfold.
i agree with smurfy, pzl write a book for me dude.

fuck women, right?

the worst is turning their selfish bullshit around on u to make u feel bad i fucking HATE that
 
jnevin said:
So I'm getting into bed last night, and the wife-ish tells me she's feeling really guilty because one of the guys she works with saw one of her boob pics on her phone. I asked her how he saw it,like over her shoulder, went through her pics, etc., and she said she sent it to him.

<<Why did you send it?

>>I don't know... he asked me to.

<<You know everyone you work with is going to have that now.

>>I feel dumb.

<<I feel pissed.

>>I knew you would.


Now, why the hell would it seem ok for her to do that? I know the guy, they're not flirty, and she's really not the type to do this. She said she had the pic on there to send to me, and he asked her to send it. I mean, I'm pissed, but I'm more curious about the thought process associated with this dumb fucking move.

Not too happy that a bunch of retard personal trainers probably have boob pics of my wife-ish right now either.
She wanted attention, so she found a way to get it!
 
Smurfy said:
no lol I meant racist (you said WHITE woman).

you're right..I guess that would make me some kinda superracist then.

Sweet as long as I'm super something I'm good.
 
jnevin said:
The original pic convo was started by another coworker saying she will send pics to her BF. Mine said she does that to me sometimes, he asked for a pic, she sent, immediately regretted it. :rolleyes: She likened it to me getting a lapdance, which I have not since being with her (8 yrs). I said fuck no because I don't work with the lap dance provider, don't see them every day, am not a friend with them, and they haven't met you, had dinner at your house, been golfing with you, and knew you got back together with your spouse. No answer to that one.

She was an airhead AND now trying to turn it back on you??? that's not being a pushover.
I'd be righteously pissed off. AND I'd go say something to the guy. Nicely, to let him know not to be disrespectful.
Not the spine through the mouth thing.... although I once said if i ever met a certain guy, ever, I'd punch a hole into his chest reach in and rip his heart out and I was serious.
 
So, went to the gym for 3.5 hours yesterday. Played 18, went and spent $140 on myself having sushi, broke my sobriety streak (really not happy about that one), didn't return her calls, came home at 4:00 and told her that I am able to try to work through this provided there has been nothing going on and this was a one-time dumbshit occurance. She promised it was and there's nothing going on. Begged me to forgive her. I let her know that I do love her, but my trust may not ever be 100% again.

I'm still trying to figure out what to do with the guy. He's been to my house for dinner, we've gone out with him and his GF a ton of times. Too bad they're not together, because I'd tell her to check his phone. I did his goddamn home loan. Fucker.
 
jnevin said:
So, went to the gym for 3.5 hours yesterday. Played 18, went and spent $140 on myself having sushi, broke my sobriety streak (really not happy about that one), didn't return her calls, came home at 4:00 and told her that I am able to try to work through this provided there has been nothing going on and this was a one-time dumbshit occurance. She promised it was and there's nothing going on. Begged me to forgive her. I let her know that I do love her, but my trust may not ever be 100% again.

I'm still trying to figure out what to do with the guy. He's been to my house for dinner, we've gone out with him and his GF a ton of times. Too bad they're not together, because I'd tell her to check his phone. I did his goddamn home loan. Fucker.
man the fuck up and confront his bitchass
 
SublimeZM said:
man the fuck up and confront his bitchass


Man up and do what?

Yell at him for asking to get a pic that she willingly turned over?

Making a big deal over it will just make him look like a bigger bitch. Right now he's the guy whose wife sends out nude shots to other guys. He makes a case out of it and he's the cuckolded insecure husband whose wife is sending out nude shots of herself to other guys without his prior knowledge. The one whose scared because his girl is sweating this other guys jock.

He needs to be cool and deal with his wife. There is no upside going after this dipshit unless he continues.
 
I think maybe she wanted your attention a little. Maybe she wanted you to be a tinsy bit jealous so that she knows you still love her?
 
Phenom78 said:
Man up and do what?

Yell at him for asking to get a pic that she willingly turned over?

Making a big deal over it will just make him look like a bigger bitch. Right now he's the guy whose wife sends out nude shots to other guys. He makes a case out of it and he's the cuckolded insecure husband whose wife is sending out nude shots of herself to other guys without his prior knowledge. The one whose scared because his girl is sweating this other guys jock.

He needs to be cool and deal with his wife. There is no upside going after this dipshit unless he continues.
the guy was his friend.

id fucking knockabitch out

but u do make a good point
 
HeatherRae said:
I think maybe she wanted your attention a little. Maybe she wanted you to be a tinsy bit jealous so that she knows you still love her?


Yeah. And if I want attention I'll take a pic of myself getting a lap dance with two strippers.

That's the stupidest thing I ever heard. If you can justify the behavior, you're a hooker.
 
HeatherRae said:
I think maybe she wanted your attention a little. Maybe she wanted you to be a tinsy bit jealous so that she knows you still love her?

Are you fuckin serious???

Please tell me women aren't this fuckin stupid.

Wow...maybe if she lets this guy nail her in the ass her hubby will "be a tinsy bit jealous" and pay some attention to her and buy her some ice cream.
:rolleyes:
 
I read 75% of this thread and I just want to say I have fallen for the "I wasn't thinking at the time. I regret it. I am sorry" bullshit before.

Trust me she knew fully what she was doing when she sent the pic. There is probably more to the story she isn't telling. You don't send nude pics of yourself to the opposite sex just for the hell of it.
 
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