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Girls that say "I hate cheap dates?"

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This always amazes me. A girl will actually complain that she hates cheap dates....that is basically like complaining when someone gives you money that they didnt give you enough. The irony of a girl, who pays NOTHING on a date, calling the guy a cheapskate is ridiculous. No, no girl called me a cheap date, I've read it on numerous facethejury profiles.
 
I usally spend an average of 150 bucks for the night on a date .
 
Bwahahaaha that's crazy bro, I wouldnt spend more than 30 lol...Honestly one of my biggest pet peeves in the world is the notion that men actually have to pay for women's dates......
 
Frackal said:
Bwahahaaha that's crazy bro, I wouldnt spend more than 30 lol...Honestly one of my biggest pet peeves in the world is the notion that men actually have to pay for women's dates......
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i was that way,i didnt pay anything till i knew she wasnt using me for the cash,now me girl and I spend out money freely on each other

money cashing girls piss me off
 
I enjoy fine dinning...and then some more fine dinning :licker:

bro its the whole ambience of the night

let me break it down

12 bucks to have the car washed, waxed and inside cleaned (ride has to be sharp and clean)

35 bucks for a new shirt, always wear a new shirt on a first date, easy confidence

6 Bucks to have my Kakies pressed and cleaned

10 bucks in gas

18 for a new hair cut

10 bucks for 3 sunflowers for the end of the night

5 dollar tip to the hostest to seat you at the best table in the house

12 bucks for 2 glasses of wine

40 with tip for dinner

14 for entrance to causal club scene for late night danceing

5 bucks for coffee


153 bucks

great night out
 
Frackal said:
Bwahahaaha that's crazy bro, I wouldnt spend more than 30 lol...Honestly one of my biggest pet peeves in the world is the notion that men actually have to pay for women's dates......
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My thoughts exactly. Equal opportunity to earn means equal opportunity to pay.


Women want the right to work and earn a good living, but only want to spend the money on themselves! They STILL want us to pay for everything.
 
HighIntensity said:
I enjoy fine dinning...and then some more fine dinning :licker:

bro its the whole ambience of the night

let me break it down

12 bucks to have the car washed, waxed and inside cleaned (ride has to be sharp and clean)

35 bucks for a new shirt, always wear a new shirt on a first date, easy confidence

6 Bucks to have my Kakies pressed and cleaned

10 bucks in gas

18 for a new hair cut

10 bucks for 3 sunflowers for the end of the night

5 dollar tip to the hostest to seat you at the best table in the house

12 bucks for 2 glasses of wine

40 with tip for dinner

14 for entrance to causal club scene for late night danceing

5 bucks for coffee


153 bucks

great night out
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LOL....you lucky sod.

In london, a night out goes for 250 pounds.($375)

(I'll give you the break-down in $)

1. Gas: 20.00

2. Dozen white roses w/stems: 45.00

3. Dry-clean your pants,jacket,shirt: 20.00

3. Dinner for 2 at an up-scale restaurant+tip. I prefer
french. 100.00

4. Champagne or cocktails(Pre-dinner): 60.00 (1 bottle
champagne or wine or 4 nice cocktails)

5. Club(Nice one): 30.00 cover charge each.(60.00)

6. Drinks: 50.00 (5 in total)

7. After-hours bar: 10.00 cover charge(20.00)

Just Perrier here. Everybody is too drunk anyways.

English people drink SOOOOOOOO much its incredible.

I've met some celebrities in some after-hours places in Soho
that were so drunk I'm surprised they could even talk.

One thing though(lol), they LOVE bodyubuilders there....most brits
are either skinny or got the good old beer belly.

Fonz
 
HighIntensity said:
I enjoy fine dinning...and then some more fine dinning :licker:

bro its the whole ambience of the night

let me break it down

12 bucks to have the car washed, waxed and inside cleaned (ride has to be sharp and clean)

35 bucks for a new shirt, always wear a new shirt on a first date, easy confidence

6 Bucks to have my Kakies pressed and cleaned

10 bucks in gas

18 for a new hair cut

10 bucks for 3 sunflowers for the end of the night

5 dollar tip to the hostest to seat you at the best table in the house

12 bucks for 2 glasses of wine

40 with tip for dinner

14 for entrance to causal club scene for late night danceing

5 bucks for coffee


153 bucks

great night out
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I guess I spend too much time with the wrong (or right) girls. My breakdown is:

$50 for the bar tab and some dancing

$60 for the nearby hotel room (just something about not having to clean up the place after you tear up the sheets)

$15 for a few candles and a bottle of wine for the room

$20 for the late night diner

To me this is an awesome night. I have found also that the hotel room suggestion, for some unknown reason, is of a major appeal to a woman. The last 3 girls I have dated, I have suggested it after a few drinks on the very first date, and all three thought it sounded great..go figure all those years I wasted being such a "nice guy"and taking my time making moves....the funny thing is all three commented on how sexy and exciting the first date was...I will never figure out women..lol!
 
I cook my own dinner, drink my own shine, and if the woman gets hungry or thirsty and asks for some of my provisions, I snap kick her in the throat and throw her over the balcony.
 
Of all of the dates I've ever been on, the most memorable and special all were under $10....if that.

I guess my general feeling is that if you have to spend a lot of money to keep from being bored with someone, they're not the right person. I'd rather snuggle up in pj's with someone special and watch animal planet rather than get all dolled up and blow a lot of money.
 
HighIntensity said:
I enjoy fine dinning...and then some more fine dinning :licker:

bro its the whole ambience of the night

let me break it down

12 bucks to have the car washed, waxed and inside cleaned (ride has to be sharp and clean)

35 bucks for a new shirt, always wear a new shirt on a first date, easy confidence

6 Bucks to have my Kakies pressed and cleaned

10 bucks in gas

18 for a new hair cut

10 bucks for 3 sunflowers for the end of the night

5 dollar tip to the hostest to seat you at the best table in the house

12 bucks for 2 glasses of wine

40 with tip for dinner

14 for entrance to causal club scene for late night danceing

5 bucks for coffee


153 bucks

great night out
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and nothing for the motel ?
 
Raina said:


I'd rather snuggle up in pj's with someone special and watch animal planet rather than get all dolled up and blow a lot of money.
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What about the midpoint of dressing up in a trenchcoat and toolbelt, then exposing yourselves to passers-by, and then throwing knives into their abdomens when they shriek in horror?

Suavemente.
 
when i take a girl out its nothing but the best for my girl. first, i throw a burger down her throat and even let her supersize the fries. then its a couple of big mouth mickey's and off to the hill overlooking the drive-in theater to enjoy some skull action. if the bitch cant appreciate that she needs to find someone else to take her sorry ass out.
 
Oooohhh....SG, that sounds romantic. I prefer to expose myself WITH the other person. It's nice to get to know someone on a first date. I find it easier to feel comfy with someone if it's all out in the open and what's more "cozy" than two people falsihing?? It's friendly, it's a little dirty, it's possible offensive. Nice plan.

I don't usually do the abdomen slashing (I'm kind of old fashioned like that). But if it goes really well, I know I'll wake up in the morning with seeping wounds and fuzzy memories.....glad to know that my gentleman friend has enjoyed some stab wound intercouse.
 
Raina said:
Of all of the dates I've ever been on, the most memorable and special all were under $10....if that.

I guess my general feeling is that if you have to spend a lot of money to keep from being bored with someone, they're not the right person. I'd rather snuggle up in pj's with someone special and watch animal planet rather than get all dolled up and blow a lot of money.
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first date?? :rolleyes:
 
Raina said:
Of all of the dates I've ever been on, the most memorable and special all were under $10....if that.

I guess my general feeling is that if you have to spend a lot of money to keep from being bored with someone, they're not the right person. I'd rather snuggle up in pj's with someone special and watch animal planet rather than get all dolled up and blow a lot of money.
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You just haven't lived in london.........LOL

It really depends if your GF is the out-going type or not.
To put it simply, mine is.

Btw, DC is a dream. $100 lasts you a whole night here. :)

You're only young once, might as well enjoy it. You can snuggle
with your partner when you're 30+ too.

I'll have to invite you two on a night out on the town here
in DC Fonz style........ :)

Fonz
 
No, not for a first date. I just wasn't paying attention (it's after 9....I should be in bed). I guess on a first date I just want to get to know a person. They don't have to spend a lot of money.

To me, it's way more special when someone gives you a dozen roses and takes me out for a fancy night 2 years into a relationship rather than early on.
 
There is no doubt in my mind that the bond that public indecency creates between two people is unmatched by most any other activity.

Sure, bonding on a higher level through more traditional means might work for some, but genital flapping and random violence makes the evening unique. (well, not for me. I do this every Sunday near the church.)

As for stab wound intercourse, well, just you mentioning it tells me that you have no problem in the love department.
 
Satanic Goatslayer said:
There is no doubt in my mind that the bond that public indecency creates between two people is unmatched by most any other activity.
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:lmao:
 
Raina said:
No, not for a first date. I just wasn't paying attention (it's after 9....I should be in bed). I guess on a first date I just want to get to know a person. They don't have to spend a lot of money.

To me, it's way more special when someone gives you a dozen roses and takes me out for a fancy night 2 years into a relationship rather than early on.
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Ooppss. I forgot to say I've been going out with my GF for
3.5 years.

I'd never be so forward with a woman as I described above on a first date.......<damn she'd think I was a psycho or something>

If I didn't know her?

1. Nice casual restaurant like Red Lobster.
2. Picnic
3. Brunch at a french patisserie/boulangerie

The choices are endless really.

Fonz
 
Damn HI, can you take me out sometime?????????? ;)

I don't go out of my way to impress and spend alot of $ on a first date- I want the person to like me for my company NOT for how much $ I am willing to spend on her
 
On a first date I want to go somewhere quite where I can talk to the lady. Go to a park for a picnic, go to the zoo. I would rather it be more casual than fancy.
 
i think any girl that would say that on a first date will be nothing but trouble in the long run.

if you cant take a walk and go get a cup of coffee or look at a sunset, then maybe you're the one getting jipped!
 
Ok, I had a really cheap date once......

The guy brought along 2 of his friends (rolls eyes) and they had to pay for him! Not only did he not plan on paying for me (which is fine, but it was the FIRST date) but he couldn't pay his own way

He asked me out by the way----lame......

I think who ever asks, should plan on paying at least for the first time out
 
jennifer said:
Ok, I had a really cheap date once......

The guy brought along 2 of his friends (rolls eyes) and they had to pay for him! Not only did he not plan on paying for me (which is fine, but it was the FIRST date) but he couldn't pay his own way

He asked me out by the way----lame......

I think who ever asks, should plan on paying at least for the first time out
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What about if the guy is genuinely a great guy but just can't afford it, does that rule him out in your books.
 
A can of tuna and a gal. of water would be just fine.. :FRlol:

If a girl wants more than that; your in big trouble..
 
Raina said:
Of all of the dates I've ever been on, the most memorable and special all were under $10....if that.

I guess my general feeling is that if you have to spend a lot of money to keep from being bored with someone, they're not the right person. I'd rather snuggle up in pj's with someone special and watch animal planet rather than get all dolled up and blow a lot of money.
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Are you single by any chance? ;)
 
Frackal, are you a woman hater? I'm being serious, because it seems like a lot of your posts tend to have a very negative tone when it comes to women.
 
The Nature Boy said:
Frackal, are you a woman hater? I'm being serious, because it seems like a lot of your posts tend to have a very negative tone when it comes to women.
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No Frackal is not a woman hater... He's just looking for the right one..




Vinylgroover you are so nice.. :D
 
Fonz said:


LOL....you lucky sod.

In london, a night out goes for 250 pounds.($375)

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Jeez Fonz you sure live expensively... you work in the City?

When I lived near London, I spent on avg 70 pounds on a night out in da city -

- return train ticket from Cambridge - 15 pounds
- tube pass - 5 pounds
- sandwiches + pastries from sainsburys in camden high st - 4 pounds
- drinks at the pub before clubbing, 12 pounds (4 red bulls)
- entry to club - 5 pounds with membership card (lots more without)
- caffeine and water and chocolate until 6am - 20 pounds
- breakfast in camden following morning - 5 pounds

You need to beome a goth, save money....

I believe a woman should NOT expect a guy to pay for her date, unless they are a couple and they take turns picking up the bill because splitting it is a hassle.

Or one member of the couple earns a lot more than the other, and him/her paying is the only way they can afford a fancy restaurant.
 
HighIntensity said:
I usally spend an average of 150 bucks for the night on a date .
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From what you've said, you like to treat a woman to a really nice time. The date is more of a means to its own end to you.

In my case, the date is fun, but I'm hoping to get some poonanny, at least eventually. Therefore, until I'm rolling in the dough, spendin $150 is out of the question.
 
your problem is right here

stop dating the "girls" and go out with a "woman"

I always pay for myself. wouldnt have it any other way.
 
The Nature Boy said:
Frackal, are you a woman hater? I'm being serious, because it seems like a lot of your posts tend to have a very negative tone when it comes to women.
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Not a hater just a realist. I just thought women were way cooler than I found out most are. And lately I've taken some initiative and I have a pretty successful social situation going so it's not a lack of women causing my anger...I dont know they are just so fun to pick on. =)

Plus I just read "How To Be the Jerk Women Love" which sort of irritated me further. It's more of a love/roll my eyes situation instead of a love/hate situation.

Women arent' THAT bad, the just scare me a bit that's all. Hell listen to HI's story of his girl and the way she turned basically out of the blue, will send shivers down your spine.

But generally no I dont hate women, and there are lots of good women here. For example, I am going to propose to smoknjilly right here on this thread, SJ, will you marry me?
 
Newbie2building said:
i think any girl that would say that on a first date will be nothing but trouble in the long run.

if you cant take a walk and go get a cup of coffee or look at a sunset, then maybe you're the one getting jipped!
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Very well said! BTW - Is that you in your avatar?
 
You guys that are spending mad amounts of money are digging your own grave.

your nurturing a golddigger, If she cares that much about how much money you spend on her, then she's nothing more than a prostitute.
 
tc2 you are right!

if these "girls" you speak of are in college, then I cannot help ya...college girls are not in the real world yet.

but if they aren't...damn! Is NYC the only place where they have highly intelligent beautiful women with excellent jobs who don't need a man "for money"??

that is what it seems like from reading this chat board every day...
 
I'd like to add another thing as well.
If a women wants to act like a prostutite, TREAT HER AS SUCH.
 
NY is probably more unique in that respect smoknjilly.....at least that's what I gather from watching my mom's rented tapes of Sex in the City...lol For example I think if you were going to go to Los Angeles you'd find the complete opposite situation going on for the most part.

Oh and ps, I'm naturally gifted in intelligence, reliable to a fault, and thoughtful to the point of absentmindedness.... plus I'm margianally narcisstic and I have an above average penis! Girth AND length! What more could you want in a man?
 
hmmm,....ok...welll..



hell, I make more than most of the guys I know...how could I ask them to pay for me...

too bad for the rest of you out there....NYC is where its at!
 
A rich jerk is STILL a jerk.

Any woman who decides how "good" or "bad" the date was by how much money the man spent is AN IDIOT - PURE AND SIMPLE. Why?.... Refer back to first statement.
 
Fonz said:


LOL....you lucky sod.

In london, a night out goes for 250 pounds.($375)

(I'll give you the break-down in $)

1. Gas: 20.00

2. Dozen white roses w/stems: 45.00

3. Dry-clean your pants,jacket,shirt: 20.00

3. Dinner for 2 at an up-scale restaurant+tip. I prefer
french. 100.00

4. Champagne or cocktails(Pre-dinner): 60.00 (1 bottle
champagne or wine or 4 nice cocktails)

5. Club(Nice one): 30.00 cover charge each.(60.00)

6. Drinks: 50.00 (5 in total)

7. After-hours bar: 10.00 cover charge(20.00)

Just Perrier here. Everybody is too drunk anyways.

English people drink SOOOOOOOO much its incredible.

I've met some celebrities in some after-hours places in Soho
that were so drunk I'm surprised they could even talk.

One thing though(lol), they LOVE bodyubuilders there....most brits
are either skinny or got the good old beer belly.

Fonz
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I can't believe that you guys are wasting - yes, that is the key word here, on these gold-digging tramps. I would never, ever spend more than the equivalent of $50 on any girl. I sure hope you bozos are getting laid after all that outlay.

To quote Ron Harris on this,

"If you ever spend more than twenty or thirty bucks on a dinner with a girl, it's mutually understood that you'll be knocking it out later that night. If not, you can bet there's some greasy, tattooed bad boy she pages when you're not around for booty calls. The bad boy has never spent a dime on her. Hell, she probably lends him money for rent – your money. "

:dodgy:
 
Frack,

You can't ignore the econimic factors. You just can't. You just have to be in control of teh situation, and not let emotions overwhelm you. When I had little money, I met fewer women.

Now I am doing better, and I meet a lot of people. If she is interested in me because she can tell I am wearing expensive clothes, that might not always be a bad thing. Maybe she appreciates appearances. If she is a user or a taker, I'll eventually see through that, usually pretty quickly.

At the end of the day, you can't get hung up on someone. People are imperfect and you have to accept that. Sometimes you get burned - I gave a girl a $2700 bracelet once and it didn't work out.

Did I get used? Maybe. But so what? Can't dwell on it or let it affect the next one you meet. The key is determining if her behavior is just human imperfection, or a character flaw.


smoknjilly - NY is unique. Sometimes I regret leaving.
 
bikinimom said:
A rich jerk is STILL a jerk.

Any woman who decides how "good" or "bad" the date was by how much money the man spent is AN IDIOT - PURE AND SIMPLE. Why?.... Refer back to first statement.
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I've read a lot of your post and I wish more women had your sense(and body):p
 
smoknjilly said:
hmmm,....ok...welll..



hell, I make more than most of the guys I know...how could I ask them to pay for me...

too bad for the rest of you out there....NYC is where its at!
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Oh really?

I'm there for the 9/11 rememberance weekend........I'll put
it to the test.

Fonz
 
HighIntensity said:
I enjoy fine dinning...and then some more fine dinning :licker:

bro its the whole ambience of the night

let me break it down

12 bucks to have the car washed, waxed and inside cleaned (ride has to be sharp and clean)

35 bucks for a new shirt, always wear a new shirt on a first date, easy confidence

6 Bucks to have my Kakies pressed and cleaned

10 bucks in gas

18 for a new hair cut

10 bucks for 3 sunflowers for the end of the night

5 dollar tip to the hostest to seat you at the best table in the house

12 bucks for 2 glasses of wine

40 with tip for dinner

14 for entrance to causal club scene for late night danceing

5 bucks for coffee


153 bucks

great night out
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that's crazy, i would never spend half that on a first date with a girl unless i knew she was in to me.
 
HighIntensity said:
I enjoy fine dinning...and then some more fine dinning :licker:

bro its the whole ambience of the night

let me break it down

12 bucks to have the car washed, waxed and inside cleaned (ride has to be sharp and clean)

35 bucks for a new shirt, always wear a new shirt on a first date, easy confidence

6 Bucks to have my Kakies pressed and cleaned

10 bucks in gas

18 for a new hair cut

10 bucks for 3 sunflowers for the end of the night

5 dollar tip to the hostest to seat you at the best table in the house

12 bucks for 2 glasses of wine

40 with tip for dinner

14 for entrance to causal club scene for late night danceing

5 bucks for coffee


153 bucks

great night out
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That is ridiculous man. Why don't you just get a hooker, and seal the deal.
 
Frack, just accept that most girls don't want a cheap ass first date even if they don't admit it......(meaning, he can't pay for his own meal, and his friends have to spot him)


If a guy asks me out to dinner, I assume hes buying----if I ask him, sure I will pick up the bill---

Almost all the guys I have gone out with, pay for the first date, if not all of them, but I always fight about it with them and throw money at them, seriously. I always bring money with me on a date-----I know how guys REALLY feel about paying all the time, and I know they don't like it, even though they claim to want to pay......

I'm by far materialistic. I have friends that expect guys to pay for their drinks when ever we go out. They don't even bring money with them. I always buy my own drinks, not to say some of my friends are "bad people" because there are plenty of guys that love to show how loaded they are, so let them.

The bottom line is, if you don't want to pay for a chicks meal, and its going to make you cry, then don't, and stop bitching about it
 
Just remember guys, when you go out and you do pay for the dinner, drinks, club, etc., that is what you are buying. You are not buying that lady who you are with. I know too many guys who think that because they spend x amount of money, they are entitled to a roll in the sack.
 
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