girls and their mothers

[buckydingdong]

i've been dating a girl for 2 years, we have pretty good sex. sometimes I fuck her mom though. Ok Not really. but we have good sex (i usually want more than she does) but it works out well - she is big into religion and i'm not, i dont like her family either, they all work within the school system except 2, so any female other than her in the family is wearing knit vests with apples and pencils on it. they all have short soccer mom hair. They all gossip constantly, they eat like shit and half of them are type II diabetic, discuss cake & cookie recipes more than anything, are obese, houses are really sloppy -- it just runs through the whole family it seems like. My girl though seems a bit different, but she likes hanging out with them a lot, i have nothing against family but I just am scared shitless that she will turn out to be obese, lazy, gossippy, and generally take no care for her appearance as they do.

Right now she 5"6 118lbs, she has put on about 5 of those in the past year (used to be really lean but is now getting a little belly) - I just dont want this trend to continue. I've talked to her about it and how it makes me wary but she doesn't say much back.

I love her though, she can put on some weight and i'm not going to break up with her, but if i ever married this girl and she let herself go like her relatives did, I would want a divorce. Not having been in too many relationships that lasted a long time, what would you do as far as getting her to take better care of herself??

I've tried getting her to workout but she only halfasses it if i take her, and wont go any other time and just sits in her dorm room and watches movies and eats snacks.

I think i'm basically looking for insurance that she wont turn out like her mom and relatives. ANy experience in situations like this?

 

[CowboyUp]

You have answered your questions. Most of the time it runs in the family, sorry to dissapoint you, but that has been my experience. Like mother, like daughter. Good Luck and if you can get her to change it will be worth it, but she will only change if it is what she wants to do.

 

[TEXgrl]

You have answered your questions. Most of the time it runs in the family, sorry to dissapoint you, but that has been my experience. Like mother, like daughter. Good Luck and if you can get her to change it will be worth it, but she will only change if it is what she wants to do.

this is sometimes true, however, everybody is different, and if this girl marries someone with a healthy lifestyle and adopts it as her lifestyle, the chances are she won't be like her family.

 

[the_jarhead]

this is sometimes true, however, everybody is different, and if this girl marries someone with a healthy lifestyle and adopts it as her lifestyle, the chances are she won't be like her family.

I have to agree with you. My wife’s mother is a fat slob. And this is being nice about it. Because of this my wife will not let herself get this way. She always tells me “If I start to look like my mom put lock on refrigerator.”

 

[wonderstanding]

just take care of yourself... if that means you stay with her? fine... if you're better off without her? fine...

you can love someone and not be with them and IN love with them...

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