Girlfriend question

[accuflex]

So my gf of a year wants to go downtown with her "party" friend this week....without me.....

I was somewhat takin back when she told me. I dont care that shes going downtown, but I do care what goes on. How many girls here have been to a club and had their ass graped? Hit on? etc.

Its not that I dont trust her, its that I dont trust anyone else. My gf is also the type that gives guys the wrong impression. Flirting and what not.

What would you do if you where me? Ask if she would not go? (something I dont want to do) I dont want to tell her how I feel, because i dont want to be "that boyfriend who wont let me have fun" ya know?

Ideas?

 

[accuflex]

im 19...if that helps....and the party friend is a girl too

 

[dullboy]

just make sure dullboy doesn't run into her or it's all over for you.

 

[Dial_tone]

if you don't trust her then just break up now. accept the fact that at some point she will be out of your site and you can't spend every waking moment wondering what she's doing. You're her bf, not her dad.

 

[KD1]

if you don't trust her then just break up now.

+1, you are 19 dont waste time in a relationship unless you are both crazy about each other.

 

[Tytan]

let her go, put you insecurities to bed and make love like an animal when she comes back home...absence makes the heart grow fonder....if you handle this the right way, you`re set w/ this female....relax

 

[sre30]

^^ +1 She's testing you

 

[Cutiebaby]

let her go or lose her.
You are 19 years old. Dont tell me you will be the type of guy that can come and go as he pleases but wont let his girl go out in fear that (a) she will cheat and (b) her friends are sluts so she will be one to...
If you tell her know and tell her these reasons you will most likely lose her!

 

[Ramcononer]

Your doomed! as soon as they wanna go out its all over..Im Jokin bro. Women love a man with confidence..If she is gonna cheat she is gonna cheat regardless..and she will be able to handle attention from others..remember there was life before you and she made out ok. Show her your secure and she will want you even more!

 

[accuflex]

She is going downtown to DANCE!

Look, I dont care if she goes downtown. But.....
a) she wants to dance
b ) this pritty much means with another person, more times then not, a guy
c) she WILL be hit on
d) I would not be shocked to see some dude ginding his cock on her ass dancing, she will be hammered

So yes, to a point a trust her....but she cant stop from being approached and hit on. She will flirt with these guys, i know that. Any guy will think hes got her at that point.

Im not gona say "dont talk to anyone"

Should I just say "Do what the fuck you want" and pritty mcuh turn her into a booty call?